At school, people told me to borrow money

The most disgusting kind of person, first of all, I want to tell you, what if his relative is the principal, you beware of being honest, don't make mistakes, he doesn't have the right to fire you for no reason!! As for that person, even if you only give one piece a day, how much you give in a semester, you can just not refuse him, if he dares to beat you, what will you do depends on yourself, or you will have a painful fight (not very supportive, because you may be demerited), or you will die and not give it, even if you waste a few hours with him, anyway, you just don't give it, in this way, he will find that you are not so easy to take money, and then every time you do this, he should give up in the end. Your parents sent you to school to study, don't let them down and waste your time with such disgusting people.

No, he asked you to borrow it when you were a bully.

You may not get the money back ...... you borrowed

I can't borrow it, but it's understandable that I've met a gangster??? Can't go on **.

What if it's the principal's relatives? If you don't do anything, can he expel you? Besides, his relatives are principals, and it's not that he is the principal, do you go to junior high school or high school?

As long as it's not a university, hehe. I guess he doesn't have the courage to do something in front of your principal, even if he mentions it, I don't think your principal will be a person with brains, and will deal with his own students for him? If you are now a class of him, you can change classes, and it is better to stay away from him, but it is really not good.

Just transfer schools. If you borrow the money you borrow, forget it, if you don't borrow it again, if he asks you to borrow it again, you will say that he has borrowed someone else, and he hasn't paid it back to you, can't he hide if he can't afford it?

Either change schools, or **! If you don't give them money, they will beat you no? If they will hit you, call the police!

This constitutes blackmail! That kind of garbage should go in and taste the prison!

Summary. Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. Based on the situation you described, you should first give your child a clear idea that you will not be responsible for his actions, that is, he will borrow money from his classmates, and you will not help pay it back.

You have to tell him that as a parent, you have the obligation to give birth to him, raise him, and educate him, and you only promise to educate him as much as possible not to take detours and have no worries about food and clothing, but you do not guarantee that he will borrow other people's money to satisfy his own selfish desires, he will be responsible for his own actions, and he will bear what kind of responsibility he will bear for whatever he does. The child's growth is a critical period, at this time his values are immature in all aspects, there will definitely be all kinds of things he wants, but if he borrows money, you help him pay it back, and after a long time, he will form a dependence ability, and he will feel that he does not need to rely on his own ability, so he must change, otherwise the problem will be particularly big in the future.

Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. Based on the situation you described, you should first give your child a clear idea that you will not be responsible for his actions, that is, he will borrow money from his classmates, and you will not help pay it back. You have to tell him that as a parent, you have the obligation to give birth to him, raise him, and educate him, and you only promise to educate him as much as possible not to take detours and have no worries about food and clothing, but you do not guarantee that he will borrow other people's money to satisfy his own selfish desires, he will be responsible for his own actions, and he will bear what kind of responsibility he will bear for whatever he does.

The child's growth is a critical period, at this time his values are immature in all aspects, there will definitely be all kinds of things he wants, but if he borrows money, you help him pay it back, and after a long time, he will form a dependence ability, and he will feel that he does not need to rely on his own ability, so he must change, otherwise the problem will be particularly big in the future.

Of course, I didn't lend it to him last time, this time. Because I just taught him, I don't know how this student can be so bold, even if he is forced to borrow from the teacher, he should borrow from the class teacher first, right?

So the first time he borrowed money from me, I told him, I asked his class teacher, and if the class teacher asked me to borrow it, I would lend it to him. Sure enough, the student immediately said that the teacher had forgotten it, and I wouldn't borrow it.

I didn't expect to borrow it again this time, and said that I had borrowed it once last time, and it seemed to mean: You didn't borrow it from me last time, you should borrow it from me this time!

I just hehe, I asked him do you have parents? He said yes, and I asked him why didn't you look for your parents? He said he didn't ask his parents for money. I really couldn't figure out what this student was thinking, and I didn't have time to listen to his story.

I just told him: if you really have a difficulty that you can't solve, you should first turn to your parents instead of others, because when your parents are old, you have the obligation to support them and send them to the end of their lives, so when you have difficulties, your parents also have the responsibility to help you get through the difficulties, but others don't.

I didn't say much to him, but I felt that the student was a little confused, and I was also reflecting on whether I usually let the students feel that I was too good at talking, so I ......Because this is not the first student to open his mouth and ask me to borrow money.

I've borrowed money from students, but I can figure out which ones I should borrow and which ones I shouldn't.

We will definitely encounter the experience of being borrowed by others in our lives, for example, a relative borrows money from you for medical treatment, and a friend turns to you to borrow money for business funds.

If a relative or friend who has a particularly good relationship with you asks you to borrow money, I think most people are embarrassed to say no.

Chen Jing (pseudonym), 35 years old this year, a public employee of a public institution, has never had contact with his former classmates since he got married.

Not long ago, he suddenly received a verification message on WeChat from his high school classmate who had not been in touch with him for more than 10 years, but because of the situation, he still added the other party's friend.

As soon as he added a friend, the other party sent him a message, saying that he was experiencing some difficulties now and wanted to ask him to borrow 30,000 yuan, and he wanted it today, and he was in a hurry.

Hearing the other party say this, Chen Jing didn't know what to do for a while, after all, the other party and himself hadn't dealt with him for more than 10 years, who knew if he was **?

So, Chen Jing wanted to verify whether the other party was himself first, so he confirmed with the other party ** that it was indeed me, and then he told the other party that because his wife was in charge of the family's money, he wanted to ask his wife to see if he could make up 30,000 yuan to lend him money, and then call him back later.

Chen Jing first asked his wife's opinion, and his wife said that she would not borrow, mainly because she did not have so much money on hand, and she had just lent a friend 20,000 yuan some time ago, and she had not paid back a penny until now.

After asking his wife's opinion, Chen Jing learned about the situation with another classmate who had a good relationship, and learned from him that this classmate had been borrowing money everywhere in the high school classmate group in recent months, and he had never mentioned repaying the money after borrowing money.

Two hours later, Chen Jing told the classmate on WeChat that he didn't have so much money on hand, and the money was all from his wife, and his wife didn't agree to borrow money from others, so she was really embarrassed and couldn't help him, and hoped he could understand.

In this way, Chen Jing refused to borrow money from this classmate, and after the message was sent, the other party said that he could understand, he should be embarrassed, and he should not open his mouth to borrow money.

Chen Jing said that the experience of borrowing money made him feel very helpless, and he was afraid that the other party would not pay it back, and he felt very embarrassed if he didn't borrow, and he was still very depressed when he thought about it now.

Wu Zheng (not his real name), 30, had a different choice than Chen Jing, and he also met classmates who had not been in touch for years to borrow money from him.

At that time, this classmate told him that something happened at home and needed money, and asked him to borrow 20,000 yuan, and he only borrowed it for half a year, and he paid it off after half a year.

Wu Zheng is usually a very righteous person, so although this classmate has not contacted him for many years, he still lent 20,000 yuan to the other party without saying a word.

Now that your attitude is clear, you just lack a reasonable reason.

First, let your friend, he doesn't know the friend. Borrowing money from you, and he knows it. No excuses. There is no money to borrow. You know.

Second, I told my friends that I wanted to save money for a mobile phone, a computer, a car, and so on. Money is useful, and it can be used urgently at any time.

Third, when he borrowed money from you again, he said to her, "I haven't paid it back last time, and I don't have any money."

Fourth, you should put your money in a bank card and stipulate how much you want to save each month. Don't take it out for any big deals. There is a fraction of the whole withdrawal.

Fourth; It's really unfortunate that someone in the family (who must be a person who is very important to him, but he doesn't know) has something wrong with someone, and I borrowed a sum of money for him to turn around. If you're not in a hurry, I'll give it to you right away when he pays back the money.

Actually, since you said at the beginning that you are friends, sometimes you can help if you can. After all, everyone has times when things don't go well. However, since the landlord does not agree with his friend's approach.

Then, you can invite him out for a meal and a drink. Let's talk, let's talk. Your relationship will be better this way.

Usually keep a low profile, and be careful that some people do things extremely.

Hope it helps.

Such people are not true friends! He treats you like an ATM, and you bear the cost of vanity. If he borrows money from you again, you can tell him in no uncertain terms that you won't be enough to live on this month!

Let him find another way. Don't wipe your face, don't regret losing such a friend, you should be happy!

Say, in a few days, my mom will die, I want to buy her some good gifts, and now I need to save some money.

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The school I work at is a full-time boarding school, and many students come from rural areas, and most of them come in by exams. These students go home once a week with enough money for a week's worth of living expenses.

However, sometimes the students' living expenses are not enough to make up the classes. Or some children have never left home, spend lavishly, and spend all their money before the holidays. Some will have relatives or family members to send living expenses, while others will not.

So on the day of the holiday, the students came in droves to borrow money from the teacher and take the bus home.

Normally, teachers will have change in their bag, and I am no exception. When students borrow from me, I will borrow it. But I don't have a good memory, so I can't distinguish too many students.

In this way, some students will not pay me back, although it is only one or twenty yuan per person, but I can't help but have a lot of people, so when students from other classes come to borrow again, I will not borrow.

The students I teach, they are embarrassed not to pay it back, but there are also those who don't pay it back because I have a bad memory. Anyway, my memory is not good, and I can't remember who I lent it to, and sometimes I will remind it in the class.

Students will ask, "Teacher, which one borrowed it?" ”

I replied embarrassedly, "There are too many people, and I don't want to talk about who I remember." I can't tell which class it is, so I remind both classes. Big deal, next time I borrow money, ask him to write his name. "But I've never done that.

On the one hand, the relationship between teachers and students is too stiff and affects teaching. On the other hand, out of respect, a person with self-esteem, a light tap will understand, if he has no self-esteem, after a long time, I will naturally remember, don't lend him money.

That's my attitude, be my student, as long as you find me, I will do my best to help you. Not only learning, but also spiritual or material.

As long as I can do it, within a certain range, I will definitely help. Although my ability is ordinary, I can also make a small contribution to the students.