High school reunion Do you want to go, do high school reunions matter

Hehe, coincidentally, one of my high school classmates also encountered such a problem. However, everyone's situation is different, I think we have all grown up, if there is nothing special between you, go ahead, remember: you are not going to see him, but to see other classmates

My classmate and his ex-boyfriend had a deep conflict, she was hurt a lot, and she had a painful memory that he still can't forget, so the two of them wouldn't be at the same party. You can think about it for yourself according to your situation. Class reunions are still very important and can increase your network and will help you a lot.

If it's your proposal to break up, don't go.

If it was he who proposed to break up.

Pack up and go to !!

Then let's go, let's go, I think you'll regret not going, after all, you didn't put it down.

The same problem I encountered at the beginning, I chose not to go, I just couldn't let go, so I just didn't go, there is a big difference between meeting and not seeing, and after meeting, there will be a flood of emotions If you feel that you can't control it, don't go.

If you don't want to go, don't go, and get together with a few good relationships.

Don't go, it's boring.

Go, assuming you haven't let go, don't go to appear that your heart is empty. Assuming you let go, then why not.

You're afraid to go. Is it because you haven't put it down yet? If you put it down. There's nothing to be afraid of.

1. I haven't been in touch for a long time, and I'm afraid of embarrassment when I meet suddenly.

After the college entrance examination, they went their separate ways. Most of them were admitted to different universities, and they happened to make new friends in the new environment, and except for a few classmates who were particularly good in the class, they lost contact with everyone else. Some people don't want to participate in high school reunions, for fear that it will be embarrassing to meet suddenly, so they sit together looking at each other, afraid of being cold.

2. No common topic can be found.

The second point is that you can't find a common topic, high school classmates get together, everyone thinks differently, and then with the differences in their own experiences, some people may enter the society after the college entrance examination, get employed directly, and then get married and have children. Some people graduate from college and continue their studies, and the topics of conversation are different for students in different development directions, some people talk about trivial matters around taking a baby, and family trivialities, but for students who have not yet become a family, they can't empathize with them, and they can't experience that situation, everyone's topic is not on the same channel, so they are unwilling to participate in class reunions.

3. The work is not going well, and I am afraid of being laughed at.

The third point is the issue of face, when everyone gets together, it is inevitable to talk about the current situation of work. For students who have strong self-esteem and want to save face, but their work is not going well and they do not mix well, they are reluctant to participate in the class reunion, afraid of being laughed at, and do not want to be compared.

4. Time conflict, unable to participate in something.

There is also a time conflict, and there is something that cannot be attended. It is very difficult to get all the students together at a high school reunion, because everyone is busy with their own lives, so some students do not have time to attend the reunion.

Regardless of whether the mix is good or not, go when you have time, after all, everyone was similar back then, and occasionally learning about the state of others is also a kind of examination of yourself. On the one hand, no matter how the classmates change, they are still classmates, and it is still good to look back at the old model shooting time in those years; On the other hand, everyone's changes will make you have another perspective on your changes over the years, when you feel that you are so awesome to go to heaven, you will find that there are more people who are better than you, and when you feel so down, you will find that in fact, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but you have not learned about other people's lives.

And values, career, life philosophy, these things, every person will choose what they think is the best within the scope of their own understanding, and learn more about other people's ideas, which will help form a more suitable three views.

In fact, no matter what kind of choice or decision is made, it is for the sake of a better life for yourself, everyone's situation is different, and the specific situation needs to be analyzed specifically, the above is my personal opinion.

Important, very important, if you don't mix well, in case there are good classmates who can take you.

Remembering the meaning of youth. Let's think about it, the old classmates haven't seen each other for so many years, and they must miss it very much, and a few classmates who have a good relationship may still be able to get together every year to meet, but there are still many old classmates who have never met since they graduated.

It's not that many people don't want to meet, but they really don't have that opportunity. Although many students miss the youth when they went to school together at that time, because of the passage of time, many people and many things have gradually become a pity with the passage of time.

In fact, no matter what is actually meaningful, as long as it exists, it just depends on how everyone looks at it, you feel meaningless is that you feel that there is no suitable friend or friendship between classmates, in fact, when you go to the society, you will look back and see that the friendship between classmates is the truest, if you feel meaningful, it means that this person is a contented person, because he has found the value of this matter, and approved the bad ones, and people will look at things simply.

Of course it makes sense. In addition to relatives, friends and classmates are the most important things in life. People are emotional creatures.

Isn't it also good to reminisce about the happy times of the past, which is more conducive to cherishing the present. When you are in the same Chan Zheng, your high school classmates are also your own connections, and you can handle the relationship between your classmates well.