My husband is very poor and can t even afford milk powder money, should I get a divorce?

It is not easy to form a family, after falling in love and running-in, two families are recognized to the marriage hall, which can be described as the most beautiful and happiest stage of life. You have already been born of love, and you are very happy. But ma'am, the road of life is full of ups and downs, and it is normal for people to have a moment of unhappiness.

Your husband may have a temporary situation at work or finances, and at this time, it is necessary for his wife's understanding, tolerance, support and encouragement, rather than a divorce because he cannot afford milk powder. After the divorce, you need food and shelter, and your children need to be taken care of, so please think about it and prepare in advance.

Unless he is lazy and lacks ideological understanding, under normal circumstances, as a big man, he will spare no effort to create a better life for his wife and children, which is what he should do. There should still be internal factors, as you should fully support him, encourage him, establish his self-confidence, share the hardships, and share the difficulties, instead of the catastrophe coming, fly separately, and choose to divorce, think more about the children, in order to give the children a complete family, or think twice, after all, this is the path you choose yourself, crying and going through it, otherwise the consequences are very serious.

A man's enterprising spirit is the key to getting rid of poverty and becoming rich, if your husband is willing to sink and does not want to forge ahead, you can give him a deadline to see the after-effects, if he is still the same, he has been poor all the time, then support you to divorce decisively. If he is not an ambitious person, but there are some changes in the family in front of him, and you still love him, don't mention divorce easily. We must find a way to tide over the difficulties, after all, marriage is not child's play, and we should cherish it.

When we were young, we couldn't afford to buy milk powder, we all grew up drinking white batter, and we didn't live well, and I didn't hear of any parents who divorced because they couldn't afford milk powder. If you have difficulties, go to customer service together and find a way together. There is a saying that husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken.

In today's society, as long as you are diligent and willing to work, at least you are not much worse than others.

I don't think there should be a divorce, both parties should have a good communication to see how to change this situation, both have children, divorce is not good for anyone.

I don't think you should get divorced, you can't pay too much attention to money, maybe your husband is working hard right now.

I think it's okay to get divorced, a marriage without a material foundation is a mess after all.

Marriage will ask for more than when you are in love, if he is not capable of giving you happiness, then from the beginning you should not believe in any of his promises, expect something from him, material is the basis of marriage. If he can't even give you the foundation, then it will be difficult for you to be happy.

Zhang Ailing said: "I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but what created more regrets was love." "What makes many people regret is not that they never had love, but that they lost it after having it, which is the most painful thing.

But love is like this, it is painful but reluctant to let go. You don't have to think about it so much when you're in love, but marriage is different, and many problems don't exist if you deliberately ignore it.

I can't even afford milk powder money, why should such a husband come here? It's better to get a divorce early! When a man can't even afford to raise his own children, he shouldn't have children so early, it's too unfair to children!

I have to live in such a poor family since I was a child, and what is the way out.

It's better to get a divorce early while you're still young! A responsible man will not let his children go hungry. Even if he is not good enough and does not have a decent job, in order to make money, it is always okay to do manual work! But he didn't, he couldn't even afford milk powder.

He doesn't care about you and your children at all, such a man is unreliable! Think about your life in the future, what should you do with such a large expense to raise a child? So it's better to get a divorce early!

Divorce. Life before and after marriage must be very different, and after marriage and having children, life is not connected, and between the three, the ultimate responsibility may be after having children. Because of starting a family, the responsibility of both men and women is already greater, and when they have children, the responsibility is even greater.

And this responsibility needs to be supported by money.

To love a person is to use all your love, and to raise it is to raise it thoroughly, even if people are unwilling to rely on you too much in money due to various considerations before marriage, after marriage it is already your wife and family.

As a man, he is not willing to take on the responsibility of supporting his family materially, whether it is the child's milk powder money or emotionally, do you dare to say that this is true love.

Divorce him with him, he has children and is still very poor, and he is not motivated at all, why do you keep this kind of husband.

Yes, a man can't even afford to keep his family for what.

No, why did you get married in the first place, he will work hard for you.

No, after all, the child already has it, and being poor now does not mean that he will be poor in the future.

No. Now he is poor, but you have to believe in his future potential.

It shouldn't be said to be divorced, he can't afford it, you can buy it.

There is no money for milk powder, so how can you raise children, divorce directly, and you can support yourself.

Hurry up and leave, poor couples mourn everything. It's too unreliable to even be able to raise children.

Didn't you know you were poor when you got married? Why did you choose to get married and want to divorce.

No, you should work hard to earn money, not divorce for money, which is to evade responsibility.

I dislike my husband and I want to divorce because I have no money, and I haven't given myself money for many years of marriage.

Marriage should be a joint responsibility for life, not a simple exchange of money. If only one party in the marriage is providing for the family, then even if the family is taken care of in life, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and problems emotionally. However, if both people can take on their own responsibilities in marriage, even if they don't have too much wealth, life can be very happy.

If the wife wants to divorce because she dislikes her husband for not having money, then this kind of abandonment is a sign of immaturity. Equal responsibility in marriage, mutual respect, and shared family responsibilities should be the only way to truly complete a marriage.

I dislike my husband and I want to divorce because I have no money, and I haven't given myself money for many years of marriage.

First of all, I understand the couple's predicament. However, divorce is not necessarily the best way to solve the problem. In the relationship between husband and wife, joint financial probation is an important aspect.

If you feel that you have not been receiving enough financial support, you should talk openly with your husband about the problem and look for a solution. First of all, you need to communicate with your husband that you want to have your own financial control and create a reasonable budget plan to distribute the family income. This ensures that everyone has access to the financial support they need.

Second, you can consider increasing your income**. You can look for job opportunities or start your own business to earn extra income. At the same time, your husband should also consider increasing his income**.

Finally, if you can't agree on a common budget and increasing your income, divorce may be an option. Keep in mind, however, that divorce can not only be financially stressful for families, but it can also be psychologically disruptive to other family members, such as children. So, think twice before making a decision.

In fact, there is no need to ask others about emotional problems, I think you already have the answer in your heart, in your heart you must think that this man is unreliable, there is no way to give you a future, you are just asking here to find a reason for yourself to support, and when others support your divorce, you will say to yourself, my choice is right, others support me.

In fact, other people's eyes are not important, as long as you don't regret your choice, there is no problem, whether a man can afford milk powder can be used as a reason for divorce, I don't think this is a one-size-fits-all problem, there are many people who are nothing when they are young, and they can't even afford to eat, but there is also the possibility of great ambitions in the future, do you really understand your man, if the current predicament is only temporary, maybe he really has potential stocks, so, The judgment of this question must be after establishing a certain understanding, rather than evaluating a person through a single thing.

I always think that you can't completely interpret a person through a simple thing, there is a saying called don't bully the poor youth, as the so-called see the hearts of the people over time, even if he is now a man who has no money to buy milk powder, then are you willing to accompany him through the current difficulties? When he is down, you accompany him from birth to death, and when he is brilliant, you are qualified to stand behind him and be proud. However, if you choose to leave ruthlessly when a man is nothing, then when he achieves life one day, what are you?

Do you feel embarrassed when you meet? Therefore, the most basic question to evaluate this issue is feelings, not a bag of milk powder.

To sum up, you can't simply evaluate a person, let alone give up a man you once loved because you can't afford milk powder, people are not perfect, and material can't replace love.

Should choose divorce, such a man has no sense of responsibility, and will not want to be responsible for his family, is a father, but does not have any contributions.

In fact, if a man will not make a change, then he should choose divorce, because such a man is very useless.

I don't think we should choose to divorce, but we should choose to work together and then work together to earn money to buy milk powder for our children.

My husband didn't find a high-paying job after graduating from NTU.

Originally, the two of us wanted to settle in Nanjing, but we didn't have a house, the key is that I can't afford milk powder, I can't let my children starve to death, should I get a divorce?

I regret that he is good for nothing except a high degree of education, and three years ago, I didn't know why I was hot-headed and got a marriage certificate with him.

It is estimated that children can't even afford to go to a good kindergarten, they can't go to a good primary school without a good kindergarten, and there is no best junior high school, high school or even university without a good primary school.

Every parent expects their children to study abroad, but the learning environment from an early age should be the most important.

The above is a contribution from a netizen.

I really want to say it, I really can't get used to some women, who have children for life, and think that I have a child, I am the greatest, I don't have to do anything, and I need the old man to help me with a baby.

If it's true love, then encourage yourself a little more. Every day, the circle of friends shouts that women are weak, but mothers are strong, I really want to say that we are not weak.

I don't mention any imported milk powder, a family has a family situation. In the past, because my baby was breast milk, the milk powder was only fed when my wife was not at home. The milk powder I used was a 70 bag of Yashili that my aunt bought when she came to see me.

The baby doesn't have diarrhea after drinking, and her body is still very good.

Well, you have to live for yourself. My wife followed me and knew what sadness was, heartache was, but she also knew what happiness was, what love was, and what willingness was.

Everyone wants to make a lot of money, but you have to take your time. After all, it's not a family with a lot of money. It also takes time to start from scratch.

And I think a normal person should think like this: My husband is very poor and can't afford to buy good milk powder, so I replace it with cheap milk powder, work hard to make money to subsidize my family, and encourage my husband to make more money to buy good milk powder.

Instead of thinking like you: My husband is very poor and can't afford milk powder, and I can't even afford milk powder?! Children can't go to good kindergartens, children can't go to good junior high schools, children can't go to good high schools, children can't go to good universities, children can't study abroad, and this is okay?

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No, because you can't choose to divorce at the most depressed time because your husband's current economic conditions are not good, everyone has a difficult time, and as long as you work hard through two people in the future, it will be improved.

This kind of incompetent man has nothing to be nostalgic for, he can't even afford to raise his own baby, let alone this family, if you leave him, you can live better, then break up.

I think you should get divorced, in fact, as long as the man is very diligent and not afraid of hardship, he will not live a hard life, so I think your husband is a very lazy person and will not give you happiness at all.