My husband can t afford to earn money, should I divorce him?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    If your husband is unable to earn money, you should divorce him, because he will not earn money to support the family, and you will not be happy with him, you will only suffer. It won't be happy, he can't give you the happy life you want, you should divorce him, find your happiness again, find the person you like, and find someone who can give you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you love him, no matter how poor he is, he will not divorce, if he doesn't love him, no matter how rich he is, he will not barely live with him, in fact, if you love him, then you will definitely not ask such a question, in your heart you should have made a choice, or subconsciously you have already had the intention, but now you better not to consider the standard of money to think about separation, and do not ask yourself whether you love him, think back, from the past days can you feel whether he loves you or not? This is important. Imagine, after you divorce him, even if you marry a rich man and you are married for the second time, do you say that the rich man will love you more than your ex-husband?

    After the novelty, he will like other women again, he has lost interest in you, he doesn't love you, and he has money, it's okay to have a few lovers outside, right? So calm down first, I hope mine is of reference value to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    How much can't you afford to make money? Is it enough for daily necessities? If you can't even guarantee a basic life, you haven't been self-motivated and don't know how to work hard to earn money, then I think you can leave.

    If you don't make as much money as you but it's about a medium level, if he is good to you and willing to pay for this family, I think it's still quite valuable. I hope you don't let the psychology of vanity comparison ruin your otherwise happy family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is not recommended for the time being, although the husband is not able to earn money now, it does not mean that he will not be able to earn money for the rest of his life, people have a trough, and when his fortune does not come, his ability cannot be highlighted, so you have to give him time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For your husband who is not able to make money, you want to divorce him, I think this is not right, although your husband is not able to make money, but your original choice is your own voluntariness. So don't look down on your husband, as long as your husband loves you, I think you are the happiest.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Under normal circumstances, you should not divorce, the burden and responsibility of the family need to be borne by the husband and wife, and the two of them work together to maintain their lives, and you should work together with your husband.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are many ways to make money, if your husband has a low education and can't make money, it is recommended that you let him deliver takeaways, as long as you are not afraid of hardship, there is still more money to be made by delivering takeaways.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If your husband is just relatively low-level, but he has worked hard to earn money, although he earns less, but he is also responsible, there is no need to divorce him. If the husband does not seek to be motivated, he is unwilling to earn money to support the family, and he cannot afford to be responsible, so he should divorce him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your husband is unable to earn money to support you, under this premise, as long as he is dedicated to the family, you should not file for divorce from him, you should find ways to help him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think I should divorce him at this time, after all, it is two people to maintain a family. Time husband doesn't have the ability to quarrel, and you. The first two people should be good, support each other, and take care of each other. Scissors.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What is the specific situation that your husband is unable to earn money?

    1) It is that he earns little money and cannot meet your expectations, and you feel that he is incapable (2) He encounters something unexpected, illness or accident that makes him lose some ability and therefore cannot make money.

    The idea of divorce can have a great adverse impact on the children, the parents, the husband and wife and their future lives.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you love your husband, you should go with your husband to earn money, not let him earn money alone, let alone consider divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your husband is just incapable, not lazy, I think you should encourage him more, find a suitable job, and you can make money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's a matter of whether you love him or not, don't dislike him if you love him, don't leave him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this is the two of you still have to talk about feelings, and you can't start purely from your personal ability, then this kind of marriage can't last at all. It's been too long.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This should depend on whether you get along well or not, followed by whether your husband is self-motivated, how he treats you, and then choose.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What do you say is the standard for making money?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just take your time and work hard.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The husband has no ability and no money, and he can't make money, you should go to divorce because your husband can't make money, the family can't make money, and he can't support you, so you should get divorced, you will quarrel because of money, and because of no money, the two people will have incompatible personalities, and the relationship is not good, and the two people will be very miserable because they don't have money, so you should divorce, there is no need to find a husband who has no money, no ability, and can't make money,

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The husband can't make money if he doesn't have the ability, and there is no need to divorce in this case, because two people live together, and it's true that they are plain, and there is no money for two people to work together to earn together!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If only I don't have the ability.

    Can't make any money. You shouldn't get a divorce!

    If it's because you're not in a good relationship!

    Can't live together.

    Then it's time for a divorce!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No children, divorce; If you have children, I advise you to think clearly, the damage to the children caused by the divorce of the parents is second only to the damage caused by the death of the parents, so no behavior can be remedied. The specific reasons are as follows. 1. Not being able to make money is not only a problem for him alone, as the saying goes, money is not everything, but no money is everything.

    Lack of love, lack of heart, lack of understanding, and don't lack money. Life is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil and salt, and everyone has the pursuit of a happy life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your husband is incapable and can't make money, then you can do some business with your husband, or encourage him, it's best not to choose divorce directly, if your husband is still the same, then choose divorce.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Two people together can't just be for the money . You think he doesn't have the ability to make money. I think he doesn't earn much money, or I think he doesn't earn a penny and stays at home.

    If he really works hard to earn money, even if he earns less. But he struggles to earn it every day. And it's good for you too.

    I think that such a person is still very good and still responsible for the family and you. If I say it, then there should be no divorce . A person who has no ability does nothing.

    Such a person is optional.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, you should know his ability when you marry him, whether you can earn it or not is not a problem that you can solve by scolding him a few words, as a wife, you should be his strong backing. And I don't think you're very good, otherwise, how could you marry someone who has no ability, and as for you to divorce, it's up to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello. No, in fact, everyone hopes that they can be a capable person, and no one likes to be denied, so as a wife, you can communicate with the other party, or learn more about whether there is a job that is more suitable for him, don't blindly deny, after all, the person in front of you is the person you once loved.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, there is no need to divorce, after all, it is not one person to make money to support the family, the two of you can work together If you can't make money, you can change jobs, find two people who can make money and work together to fight for the family.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Although my husband has no ability, as long as he is active and willing to work, although he makes less money, if he can care about you and care about the family, you can still get along together, and the two of you should work together to build a beautiful home, it should be better.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The husband has no ability, can't make money, shouldn't it, it depends on your own mood, as long as he works hard, he can't make money for a while, you shouldn't divorce, for the sake of the children and the family, the two of them work hard together, but some husbands just don't want to work hard, they are very lazy, and they don't want to be motivated, then you should be another matter.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your husband has no ability to make money, I don't think you should divorce him, as a husband and wife, you shouldn't dislike the other party, or you should be considerate and take care of yourself, and manage your marriage well.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's really hard to live without money in this society, the gap between the rich and the poor is very large, and if you can't make money, you should be able to solve the problem of food and clothing and no savings, and you want to open a little, such people are the majority, don't blame him, he has worked hard and has a sense of responsibility for the family, which is enough.

    As for whether to divorce in this situation, as the saying goes, marriage is persuaded and not dismantled, and if you can maintain your vitality, you can survive it. If you really don't want to live a poor life, then you can only leave, but whether you can find someone who will make money or have money after leaving the next step is unknown.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your husband can't make money if he doesn't have the ability, and you shouldn't get divorced, so it's right for both of you to plan your family's future well.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Red has no ability to make money, so what do you see is how much money you are talking about? If he doesn't earn a penny, then you divorce him, because he hasn't fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband, he hasn't fulfilled his responsibilities to support his family, and if you think that others can't accept the money, that's your business.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    My husband has no ability and can't make money. There should be no divorce. This person, maybe what's going on?

    Thirty years to the east of the river, thirty years to the west of the river. Maybe he'll make money when he gets the chance. I can't see the meaning.

    God will always give it to him once. The chance to turn over.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it's better not to divorce easily, you can communicate with your husband, if he has limited ability, you can supervise him, and if you give up on yourself, you can communicate with him well.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Some people just don't have the ability to make so much money, if you want those who have the ability to make money, then don't delay your life anymore, of course, if you have children, I still hope you think more about the feelings of your children, you can work together, marriage is all business, now the financial luck is not good, and the future will be good.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Should I get divorced if I can't make money? This logic doesn't make sense, although marriage needs a certain amount of money to maintain, but if you can't make money, you should consider how to make money, rather than choosing to divorce if you can't make money, getting together is fate, don't give up easily, you can work hard to change the status quo if you can't make money, as long as the method is correct, it is not difficult to make money.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because the husband can't make money, divorce is not a reason, if you love your husband, you can make money, after all, it is a husband and wife relationship, and it is better for you to drive your husband to make money. In fact, as long as the family is harmonious and happy, money is not the most important thing, divorce cannot be said easily, it affects the relationship between husband and wife, affects family unity, and the husband and wife work together to make money, and the future will be better!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The fact that your husband has no ability and can't make money is not a reason why you should get divorced, I think you will think of this problem, maybe you value money more. Family happiness or not can not be based solely on money, I think as long as your husband is good to you, you can accept it, although the poorer life is not so nourishing, but having a husband who loves you and protects you is much more important than having money.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Then there are all divorced people in the world, some rich people say that they have no feelings, they want to divorce, and those who don't have money are also divorced, everyone is divorced, and they don't want to get married.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    My husband has no ability, it's just that he hasn't found an opportunity to develop himself for the time being, what you need is to give him a chance, not just give him up This is not right People always have a low point when he may not be motivated enough But he needs a stage of growth.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Divorce, must be divorced, are women still afraid that they will not find a husband who has no money? Let's go on a blind date! Put forward your own requirements, and the rich are rushing to wait for the woman to get married!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hehe, he doesn't go out to work or is he just lazy and doesn't work! If he also goes to work, but he can't work and can't earn money, then he can't be blamed for this! That's fate!

    No way! I don't feel like I should leave, people in Hedong for ten years and Hexi for ten years, he can't be so bad luck all the time!

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Divorce directly, marry a rich husband, and live a good life.

    Since you look down on your husband, then you leave him and stop hurting each other.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Legal analysis: There are only two ways of divorce in China, divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. If the man can't earn money and the woman wants to divorce, she can choose the above two ways to divorce.

    If you choose to divorce by agreement, you only need to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures on your own. If one party does not agree to the divorce, the divorce can be litigated. Litigation divorce generally requires certain conditions to be met before the court will grant a divorce to both parties.

    The husband does not meet the conditions for divorce if he does not earn money.

    Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change after repeated attempts; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

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