I hate the people around me, I want to go into seclusion, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't go into seclusion. Buy your own computer, learn things, apply, become a freelancer, and then make enough money to travel. If you want to come back, you will come back. Seclusion is not advisable. Because at least you have to have a lot of money, and then you have to buy a house, whatever.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Landlord.. In fact, I have a similar experience like you, I hate life, I hate the people around me, I hate all kinds of things around me. Intrigue between classmates at school, selfishness, no dignity and no status in the eyes of teachers.

    When you encounter troubles at school, you will be ridiculed by others, and because your family is not wealthy, you will be looked down upon by your classmates, and telling these things to your parents will not get your parents' enlightenment and comfort at all. Instead, it was an inexplicable scolding. I really don't know why I'm living like this, I don't have a purpose in life and I'm full of confusion about the future.

    I would love to go out and live in seclusion, but I don't know of any place where there are no people or very few people. Alas, the landlord is interested in chatting... I.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Killing them all is killing yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Alas, you should understand that seclusion is unrealistic after all, and since you can't change the environment, you can only adapt yourself to the environment. Everyone has shortcomings, when you are depressed, you often feel that everything around you is so unsatisfactory, on the contrary, if you want to find beauty, try to understand and accept, you may also feel that life is still so beautiful. So I hope you can make yourself happy and discover another side of life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The environment is good, don't bother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Self-problems, family problems, dissatisfaction with some, cultivating and learning arts, and seeing through the red dust ......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to live forever, there is no time for cultivation, and it has been a thousand years in the world.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now no one in this society can do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can go to some ancient towns in the south of the Yangtze River.

    Beautiful and quiet location.

    And no one will know you.

    There is no complication of urban life at all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Anywhere, as long as you want. If you're trying to escape the city, a remote town is the way to go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Small hidden in the wild, hidden in the world, big hidden in the court, you saw it yourself, hehehe.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For the modern impetuous society, living in a bustling city every day. If you want to live in seclusion, you should experience something, in fact, seclusion is a yearning for life. Find a deep mountain, with mountains and water, clear air, and birds and beasts as companions, open a fertile land, grow grain for food, and isolate from the world.

    But living such a life is not something that ordinary people can do.

    A strong ability to survive in the wilderness is required, as well as family, relatives and friends, do they agree?

    So, don't try it lightly.

    If you encounter any low point, you can solve it reasonably, as long as your mind is calm, where is not a place to practice.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to live in seclusion, first, you should find out what causes you to want to live in seclusion, and once you find the reasons, we will be able to better understand your life and the life you want to live! When you find your own reason, and then consider whether you still want to live in seclusion without this reason, and finally get tangled up, whether you have this reason or are influenced by others, you still want to live in seclusion, then go Ah, the world is so big, everyone will not be restricted from anything, as long as it is not illegal, they all have their own thoughts, they all have ideas!

    Second, you have to consider the possibility of your success in seclusion, if you have such a strong feeling at the beginning, and after a period of time, you miss life in the big city very much, then it can only prove that you want to live in seclusion only because of a whim, so you need to think about whether you want to succeed in seclusion is very likely, I don't think it is too likely to want to live in seclusion now, or my personal thoughts, of course, our thoughts will of course be different, when you feel that you have a great possibility of seclusion, you goWhen you decide to do something, God will make way for you!

    As long as you think about the above questions and discuss them with your family, then you can go and realize your dreams, and when you achieve them, you must be grateful for the courage you made up your mind at that time, it allowed you to complete the impossible that others thought was impossible!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People over 50 should consider seclusion, to the body, to the soul, to the children and grandchildren are good, first of all, the body into old age, and in the society for half a life, need to let the body rest and relax, the cost of seclusion is not high, the average income of one person is enough for the old couple, there are more house slaves in today's society, the rest of the income can help small house slaves, as long as the spirit is not bound by religious thinking, to be a happy hermit is the biggest evening festival, into old age, the physique is not declining to the children and grandchildren is also a relief, there is a way to be a long sick bed without filial piety, But seclusion can improve one's independence, and sometimes people are more intimate when they are far away! The banker's Xiaoyin has been in the south for a while, and I have this feeling, and I will continue to hide next year, hahahaha...To tell the truth, seclusion is precisely a kind of happiness in comfort, in the forest you can breathe emotionally, sing vigorously in the mountains, slowly taste tea in the clouds, lazy and fragrant in the flowers, afraid of loneliness or no living expenses, you can also raise small bees, treat them as good friends, have income and happiness...Don't think of hermit as a noble profession, take seclusion as the beginning of happiness, the little bee gives you sweetness, you have children, say goodbye to loneliness, you will have more honey friends in play...The Buddha said that letting go is liberation. Tao said, virtuous and virtuous, beautiful nature will definitely be able to take away your troubles.

    Wang Changling said that Mo Dao has no confidants in the world, so middle-aged and elderly people should learn to liberate ......! For this reason, Ben, the cloud walker, sincerely tells my friends, live in an era of peace, and hurry up and learn to be relaxed and happy again...!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I also have this idea, but I have children, children want to learn, and only cities have good learning resources, so I can only wait until I retire, and when I retire, I will go to the countryside to care for the elderly, grow vegetables and raise chickens, and be self-sufficient.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm all set, Shennongjia! I thought about it, I went home and built a house five meters wide and six meters long, five meters high, and then built a two-meter-five attic in the middle, leaving a small yard, there are two plots of land on the mountain, and then there is a terraced field, and there are two vegetable gardens, and there are wild herbs and wild fruits in the mountains, where is it? When the time comes, that little pension is enough, pinch your fingers, the house is built, and you will have to wait ten years before you can go home to live, and then your daughter will be able to graduate from college.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm going to Qingcheng Mountain to live in seclusion!

    Build a thatched house, reclaim a large piece of land, pigs, horses, cattle, sheep, chickens, dogs and rabbits are fully raised, and talk about the way of health ...... with the Taoist priest of Qingcheng Mountain in your spare time

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go to our village, there are mountains, water, woods, chickens, pigs, buildings, Internet, vegetable fields and cultivated land...

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