Am I divorced from my husband? Should I divorce my husband?

Your obstacle is not love or dislove, nor character.

The distance between you comes from whether you have the intention to feel the other person, and whether you can understand the fatigue and oppression that he may have after a busy job.

And whether he can understand that you are so attentive to him.

If both of you are so attentive, it means that there is something wrong with your communication, and if you really have the heart, there are many ways to communicate, such as email messages, blogs, text messages, etc.

If the two of you have a heart, then you are a problem of communication style.

Don't find any excuses to shirk your responsibilities, do your best in everything, it's not that a man in his 30s may be more able to take care of people, that's just a relative concept.

That's it. What else are you waiting for???

Maybe that's how men sometimes do!

Everyone has troubles! We are the same, we have unspeakable pain in marriage!

Take care of yourself!

It's probably related to personality, don't worry about small things, the key is whether he cares about the things you think are more important, otherwise don't make do with it.

Please, you're both married and you're about to have a baby, so he thinks you have a bad personality?

This kind of man is really inexplicable.

Also, you have a wrong idea.

I think that men who are older than themselves are not necessarily mature, and men who are younger than themselves are not necessarily naïve!

And if you still find a man who is so much older than you, there must be a generation gap.

The solution is: either you try to get closer to the ideology of the post-70s generation and forget the fact that you are the post-80s; Either you will get rid of the child and find someone who suits you again.

It is generally recommended to try the first one first.

I wish you to find the method that works for you, or someone :)

He doesn't love you anymore.

Divorce is only a matter of time.

If my husband divorces me, I will divorce him very resolutely, it's not a big deal, it's just that I have to work my own in the future, I need to earn money to support myself, it's nothing, I can, I always believe in myself.

You can't be impulsive when you get married, and you need to be even more cautious when you get divorced. It's not just about two people, it's about two families, and it's about children.

Some people choose to spend in marriage, even if the other party is bad, they don't want to come out. Some people regard divorce as a savior, as if as long as they leave, a new life begins.

A family master said: "Divorce is not a solution to family problems. "If the root cause of the conflict in marriage is not resolved, changing someone is just going out of the wolf's den and into the tiger's den.

It doesn't matter if you get divorced or not, what matters is that you can have the ability to solve problems in a marriage.

We must make decisions in a sober state, which is the basic respect for marriage. Marriage is not child's play, and most people don't want to leave. Sometimes I want to turn the situation around through divorce, but I find that I don't have the capital to get out at all.

Divorce lawsuits often hide the darkest and cruelest side of human nature, and two people who once swore an alliance can become enemies when they turn around.

Ending a marriage is often much harder than starting a relationship. A lawyer friend of mine has dealt with such a request for help: a woman who has been married for 10 years and her relationship with her husband has broken down, so she is determined to get a divorce.

When a lawyer friend learned that her monthly salary was only enough to support herself, he advised her to be sober: "The first thing you think about is not divorce, but to improve your ability to earn money first." Because with your current salary, even if you divorce and fight for child custody, you will have the upper hand.

Divorce is not free, it has a lot of practical constraints. If you don't have money, you can only live on it temporarily. If you can cover all the expenses of your children without relying on anyone, you can divorce and start a beautiful new life.

A person must have the ability to make money at all times, so that he can be himself, even if he is in a quagmire, he has the ability to resist the world.

For women, the best thing to do is to keep improving themselves, making themselves better, and no longer relying on her. In this way, he will not be disliked, and may even bring him back.

1. Enhance self-social value.

If you want to save his heart, you must first understand your own problems, examine the gap between you and him, and whether you have a big distance from him in terms of ideology, knowledge, values, and economic consumption concepts. If you want to save your marriage, first improve yourself and increase your attractiveness.

Imagine that you need to open your hands to get money from the other party when you buy a piece of clothing, and you will become very passive in terms of family status, which will make the other party feel that you are supporting you in the family, even if you want to divorce, you have no way to embarrass him and reverse the situation, so don't be satisfied with the status quo, you must have your own economic ability, and keep the couple's economic contribution at the same level.

Second, accept the reality and control your emotions.

When your husband files for divorce, you will have an emotional breakdown, and you don't know how to face the sudden blow, no matter what, the first thing is to calm down your emotions, don't think that your husband divorces you and feels like the world has been abandoned, and even run over to your husband and beat him, scolding him with rough language.

This will only make him further and further determined to divorce, and this kind of behavior will only make him more uncomfortable, like a crazy woman without reason, which will not only not solve the problem, but will make him more ugly. It is better to separate rationally to calm yourself down, think clearly about the cause of the problem, and find out the root cause of your husband's divorce. When your husband files for divorce, you must learn to face the problem, control your emotions, avoid the irreparable situation due to emotional out-of-control, improve your self-worth, and stop relying on your husband to live.