The boyfriend explained that he went to find a blind date in order to reject the other party

Updated on society 2024-07-08
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on the situation.

    Your boyfriend told you that he was going on a blind date, explained why he had to go, and told you the time, place, and personnel of the blind date, and at the same time welcomed you to supervise that day.

    In this case, you should be generous and don't hold on.

    Because the other party is so honest, at least it means that he has no other ideas at the moment and cares about you.

    After all, it's better to tell you in person than to find out about it from other people afterwards.

    Your boyfriend is secretly hiding it from you, and you know about it from other people's mouths.

    At this time, you should be wary of whether your boyfriend is secretly developing a spare tire or planning to break up.

    You should think back to whether your relationship with your boyfriend has become cold recently, and reflect on whether you have any shortcomings.

    After making it clear that there is a real problem between the two parties, but you still want to continue to walk with him, you can talk openly and honestly with your boyfriend and find a solution to the problem.

    But if no matter what you do, the gap between the two sides still cannot be bridged, then you should withdraw as soon as possible and say goodbye with dignity.

    Of course, what girls like the most is that their boyfriend tells you that he has been arranged to go on a blind date, but because there are already you, he has clearly rejected the blind date arrangement.

    But the man takes you to the blind date bureau to personally refuse this kind of thing TV series to watch, even if the other party really has such a plan, it is recommended not to do it.

    After all, this will put your boyfriend's family in an embarrassing situation, and if you really want to get married in the future, this will also affect the man's family's impression of you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I feel that I should trust the other party's communication, and communicate to see if the other party really thinks. Did you break up with the other party? If you reject the other party, you still want to break up with you, and talk about 26

    Even if we break up, my heart will still hurt when I hear your name, and I don't blame me, it's called reflex.

    27.You can't be friends after a breakup, because you have hurt each other; You can't be enemies, because you loved each other deeply. So we became the most familiar stranger ......

    28.Some encounters between people are like shooting stars, bursting out with enviable sparks in an instant, but they are destined to just pass by in a hurry.

    29.The first time I cried because you weren't there, the first time I laughed because I met you, and the first time I laughed and cried because I couldn't have you!

    30.When you are sad, forgive yourself, you are just a person, there is no need to see yourself as so indestructible.

    31.Can you go back to that day, and can you keep those promises?

    32.The day after tomorrow is his birthday, and I wanted to surprise him, but we've broken up.

    33.You can still be friends after breaking up, dear, you are really joking.

    34.I really want to have such a girlfriend, when you laugh, she will laugh more happily than you, when you cry, she will be more sad than you, if you break up with your boyfriend, she will go instead of you.

    35.Love is like a densely woven curtain. A trip after a bumpy meeting, weaving in.

    The parting with tears again and again was also woven in. The flowers bloom and fall, the grass is yellow and the grass is green, and they are all willing to weave into the verses of "always prosperous, gorgeous and only you".

    36.A sentence was good to look for me, and I didn't look for it again.

    37.The faint white clouds seem to be pouring out something, it is sorrow, lovesickness, and nostalgia.

    38.When I was young, I thought love was a sweet throbbing, even if it was occasionally bitter. Time has passed, and I have discovered that the so-called love is something that cannot be shaken by one's own thoughts, no matter how much hurt, how much betrayal, how much parting, and how much distance there is.

    The more time passes, the more unclear it is about what love is. But I already know those three words that have been uttered in countless places and with all kinds of emotions. Plus sincerity, in fact, it takes a whole lifetime.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Obviously, this statement is dishonest, since you want to refuse the blind date, there is no need to go in person, because you don't know each other at all, so you can't refuse in person. Not meeting is the best refusal, to meet the blind date, is to want to meet the blind date, hoping to be a favorite and ideal object.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Lai Yang explained that going to find a blind date is. It's to solve the other party's statement, but the picture is wrong, it's a time-lapse statement, and he says this way to cover himself. Actually, he has other games.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The boyfriend explained that he went to find a blind date to reject the other party, and the boyfriend was not optimistic about the other party, so he said that he was looking for a blind date, and he also directly told him that I was not optimistic You don't have to make excuses.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The boyfriend explained that he went on a blind date to reject the other party, and I think this is a good way to get rid of it. Well, men and women who don't like each other, often like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to refuse the other party decently, you should tell the other party that you are very grateful to the other party for taking the time to go on a blind date with you, but the family does not know that you have a boyfriend, and sincerely apologize for the inconvenience caused to the other party, hoping to get the other party's understanding.

    If you want to reject the other party with dignity, you don't need to work hard, you just need to be able to tell the truth and not deceive the other party. Since you have a boyfriend, a blind date must be a wrong behavior, you should explain the situation to the other party in time, the blind date is an unwanted behavior, and you come here so that the other party can understand the ins and outs of the matter and avoid misunderstandings. In the face of your own emotional problems, you must explain it to the other party honestly to avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary problems.

    As the party who goes on a blind date, he is also at fault, and at this time, he should first apologize to the other party, but he has a boyfriend but goes on a blind date with him, such behavior is not right. I believe that a reasonable person will not embarrass himself in the face of his own apology, after all, two people are strangers from the beginning, success and failure are acceptable, and their good attitude will make the other party comforted. Apologizing by yourself will make the other party feel good, after all, this matter is your own fault, and the other party will feel irrelevant when they see their attitude, so they will feel comfortable when they are treated well.

    Although I have a boyfriend, I was arranged by my parents on a blind date, and in the face of such a situation, I must stay calm, be able to say my decision well, and refuse the other party if I don't drag my feet. Your own calm handling will make the other party feel that she is a person who takes feelings seriously, which is relatively decent and will be effectively handled.

    In the face of a blind date arranged by his parents, but he already has a boyfriend, he must explain his situation to the other party at this time, and sincerely apologize, so that the relationship can be handled clearly. In terms of feelings, you must learn to deal with them well, not let others misunderstand, and you can't take advantage of others, so as to gain respect.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can directly tell the other party that you came out on a blind date because your parents forced you, and now that you have someone you love, you hope that the other party can understand, and then you must apologize to the other party.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    For such a situation, I personally think that you should explain your situation directly to the other party, and explain your situation clearly to the other party, hoping to get his understanding and decisively refuse.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think the original intention of the family to arrange a blind date for you is to let you quickly find a suitable home. If you already have a boyfriend, you should tell your family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that's a bit of a stretch.

    You both dragged it out, why did he still go on a blind date? Whether it was introduced by his parents, or who introduced him, he couldn't refuse. Is it because his family doesn't know about the two of you, or does he know that you two are patting and still arranging a blind date to express their dissatisfaction and contempt for you?

    If his family does this, I think your relationship is very boring, the married man has to contribute money and efforts, if his parents don't like you, then the bride price of the wedding room will definitely give you a look on your face, embarrass you. And there are very few men who buy a house and get married alone, and they don't have the concept of a small family in their hearts, even if they are married, they can't do it and their parents are separated, and they are afraid of living alone, for thousands of years, men have always lived with their parents when they get married, and they live no different from before marriage, so there are very few men who are really firm in a relationship, and there are very few men who can really have the courage to afford a relationship, and he will not resolutely persuade his parents, and his parents will arrange to meet, and after seeing him, he will say that it is not suitable, and he will take it when he can drag it and take his time, the way to get parents to give up. But this is a kind of torture for girls.

    Now he said that he went to meet the blind date to reject people, and he said it after you found out, just a reason to appease you. Ignoring it entirely, you will be uneasy, hesitant, and painful.

    The relationship has not reached the last step, anything can happen, what his parents introduced, must be they think that the conditions are better than yours, and a man's willpower is very unfirm, when he sees the good, he will look back at you, and he will have some thoughts in his heart, right? In any case, your relationship will be damaged, and in the end it may just be responsible, but he will regret that he has seen too few women before, and there are still many good women out there.

    If it is his family who arranges a blind date, then the purpose is very clear, that is, to slowly figure it out, break you up, what about us, good girl, isn't it easy to find a two-legged man? We don't have to be him. It's okay to refuse the blind date's mobile phone message, **, or not to respond directly, but he has to meet and then refuse, so if he likes it, will he not refuse?

    Love without the support of his parents will not go to the end, he will either convince his parents, or don't delay you, so that the three sides are pleased, I think he is cowardly and selfish by nature, and he is not a man suitable for marriage. And if the other party has a crush on him, what do you say? He told the other party again that he had a girlfriend, why did he still come out on a blind date?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In today's society, I don't believe in these, but the specific situation is better to analyze by yourself, and a steady boy can still believe it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. That shows that the woman is really not satisfied with the man, otherwise she would not have accepted the red envelope.

    The man is reluctant to say about the contact with the blind date.

    Dear, what questions do you want to consult, can you please describe it clearly!

    The man has been in contact with the blind date woman for four months, and the woman has never taken the initiative to contact the man, and recently the man has not been allowed to ask him about the current contact with the woman, what is the reason.

    It may be that they are not very satisfied with each other, otherwise the woman will not take the initiative to contact the man.

    They were introduced by relatives, the woman was married for the second time and was the daughter-in-law of the man's uncle's family, and the man was single and wanted to live at his uncle's house.

    The specific attitude of the man to the woman, or the woman to the man, has to ask the person concerned is the clearest, and what we say is just speculation.

    Every time, the man takes the initiative to contact the woman, and the woman only talks about her son, not about the relationship between the two people or the future life or anything, I feel that I just treat the south as a relative, and the man sends 666 red envelopes to the woman during the New Year, but the woman does not accept it.

    That shows that the woman is really not satisfied with the man, otherwise she would not have accepted the red envelope.

    The man's attitude is that as long as the woman agrees, he can get married, and there is no liking or disliking, because his own conditions and family conditions are not good, and there is no choice, so he can only insert the door into the woman's house.

    Regardless of whether the conditions are good or not, at least the two people must have some emotional foundation, at least they must have a good impression of each other.

    The man's attitude does not determine the woman's choice, and I believe that the woman is unwilling to have an emotionless marriage.

    Yes, and the woman's family has a house and a car, the man's job is average, the salary is not high, and he is not self-motivated, the woman must be looking for a husband who can support the family, after all, there is a teenage son who will get married in the future, and it is impossible to rely on her in-laws all the time.

    Marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating, if you find a husband, you have to raise it yourself, it is better to live by yourself.

    That's the truth.

    So the marriage thing is reluctant, let them make their own decisions, whether they can come together or not, at least we don't complain.

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