The trouble of living near, the trouble of where to live

If you don't like it, don't care about it If you don't like him, why do you care about these If you're really in a college Don't be with him if you don't like it I'm like this There's a girl in junior high school who has a good relationship with me Actually, I don't like her Who knew that high school was in the same school and not in the same class I've been in high school since I saw her on campus and pretended not to see her She won't say hello Isn't that great There will be a lot of new classmates in college When the time comes, your troubles will be gone Come on, I want to go to college as soon as possible Skip the upcoming senior year of high school.

Continue to go to school like you used to, just get by on the surface! Don't be too much

It's good to have a friend in college and follow your own plan. Wishing you happiness!

After reading the situation you said, I can understand your distress, because I also have this experience, since you don't like him, don't want to get too close to him, then take the initiative to distance yourself from him, I think he's not an uninteresting person, even if you really go to the same university again, it doesn't matter, after all, the university is so big, if it's not in a department, plus you deliberately avoid, it's basically rare to meet, even if you do, just say a few polite words politely, don't care too much.

So many college friends. Make friends so extensively, don't be with him. I don't know who drove the big run first...

Just say hello politely, if you don't like him to say so much, you just say that you want to run an errand and go to ......En,

Go with the flow, you're a little strong, the main thing is that you can't get through that level in your heart

You have just started work now, and you are not familiar with it, and you can't decide whether this job is good or not. Therefore, the original student apartment in Yangpu District should not be returned for the time being. The problem with eating is that it is not so good to find a more convenient restaurant to eat fast food, and it is not so good to think of everything.

Let's see if this work can be done for a long time, so I can live in a dormitory for the first month or two.

If you feel okay, you can quit the dormitory and rent a house, after all, living in a dormitory is not a long-term solution.

Even if you don't work after renting a house, you can sublet the house to reduce losses, but the dormitory cannot.

If you want to save money and live in a dormitory, you need to rent a house conveniently, can't you eat near the unit and then come back?

1.Not being able to cook is not a thing at all, and the two of them go to the restaurant every day to prove that the economic conditions are good, and if they are not good, they will do it slowly. I'm a girl, and my father's opinion that I can't cook is like this, after all, my parents just want to live a good life.

2.Mother-in-law never calls you a person to eat, calls him son, the same, after all, it is not biological, normal.

3.To communicate with your husband, it is right to honor your parents, but his role is not just a son! It's even more husband!

4.The old man takes a private car to go to the morning exercise, it is better not to practice! Amusing.

5.If you don't deserve to be wronged, tell your husband, let him clearly understand your position, and honor your parents is sure and will try to do a good job, but things like this have nothing to do with filial piety. On the other hand, if your mother-in-law sits at home, you or your husband will go out for morning exercise instead of filial piety.

6.Mother-in-law also needs to be coaxed, you take the initiative to say some good things, accompany you and occasionally "swallow your anger" You are better.

The second question. The old man is so stubborn. In fact..

It's okay to be independent. After all, the big ones listen to the small ones. Ha ha..

So. It will be your mother-in-law. You can see each other at home every day.

It's not that time. Isn't it just crowding the bus? It's kind of a workout for yourself.。。

You look at the working hours in Hong Kong. More terrifying than the mainland... The thoughts of people of different ages are a bit antique.

Think about when we become mothers-in-law in the future. Hehe.. Give it points. Ha ha..

When the old man is a hundred years old, you will regret today's calculations.

When you become someone else's mother-in-law, you will know what the old man thinks.

Look at the point, don't you give you the son you have raised for 20 years, what do you care?

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very famous.

It's all like that, right?

Because there is a saying: no matter how little a bird's wife is, she will definitely quarrel with her mother-in-law.

It is recommended that you play with them on a regular basis.

When you really go to eat, it's okay not to eat.

1.How many times have you called your mother-in-law?

2.What do you think would happen if your husband treats your mother-in-law badly?

Hello, what I want to say is that if he is only angry because of that time when you went home first, (some boys pay more attention to face, you go first, will he think that he has no face in front of his friends, he is very face-loving, you should know.) That's a bit too much. It's been a few days, and he seems to be ignoring it, or else; You also endure it for a few days, don't contact him, and then see if he still ignores you, if you really don't contact him for a few days, and he doesn't ask a word, then, I suggest you go to him seriously and talk to him, ask him what is the reason?

Was it because you were angry about the thing you left first, or was it something else? You have to ask whether it is better to be decisive emotionally or decisive.

Girls should not be too active in their feelings, you should be on par with you before, sometimes the more you take the initiative to find him, the less he values you, don't look for him for a few days, wait a few days. Don't think too much, live how you want to live, shift your focus, and put your mind on work.

I wish you to get out of this situation as soon as possible and have a good time!

Such a situation can be uncomfortable indeed. Recommendations:

1. Now you ask him to confirm what your relationship is.

2. Improve communication with him, and try to express your true thoughts and situation at that time to gain the understanding of the other party. For example: I'm really sorry, I should have thanked your friend who helped me find a job, but I had a really sore throat today, and I couldn't sing or drink, so I'm sorry.

3. Expand your life circle in this new environment, such as colleague activities. Or change the living environment according to the situation.

Alas, it's better to take care of yourself I feel like you're a little bit inseparable from him now, so let's change the environment and start a new life, and if you continue like this, I think you should also understand what you've done.

Hello! Your problem is that the goal is too important, this is your biggest invisible psychological pressure at present, learn to go up the stairs step by step, step by step, so that your pressure will be reduced at once, only walk well, go up each staircase well, you can finally reach your goal, try it.

I can't vent if I want to...What to do. In fact, it is not difficult to find out**. Irritability, which refers to the heat and restlessness in the chest, that is, the upset, mostly for one's own feelings.

The best way is to explain your current situation to the people in the family, communicate with them properly, and tell them that it will be very uncomfortable for you to do so.

In or not, you can look for a way that suits you and can calm yourself down, you can go out, you can find, don't go out and do what you can do;

Do everything with a combination of work and rest!

It is good to be 2-3 floors away from the top floor, with less interference, no noise and no leakage. Chinese people with little land and many people can only live in apartments, and those in the West who have the conditions live in single courtyards with lawns.

It's not a matter of how many floors, it's a question of the quality of people. And, of course, there's the element of your luck. It's also hard to meet good neighbors.

Between 16 and 23, ** is the quietest, and there is nothing to worry about.

15th to 20th floors.

My family lives on the 18th floor.

It's much quieter up there than it is underneath.

No matter what floor you are on, managing your relationships is the most important thing.

Well, don't be like him, he has his troubles, understand him, forgive him.

What he did was wrong, you can't be as wrong as him, you just have to call him politely, after all, he is living in his house now, and he is not your direct blood relative, it is not bad to be fierce to you. Blessing.

Even if you pay for it, it's better than living elsewhere, and you should take care of each other in big and small things, so you should still be grateful. With this grateful heart, do more work, and your heart will be steady, which can be regarded as a return to your aunt. In addition, labor itself will also exercise the body, relax the mind, and make people healthy and happy.

Now you take it as a burden, obviously because you have not developed a sense of gratitude and have not realized the benefits of labor. Haven't you looked at the neighbors around you, most of the long-lived women are doing housework, and those who are so-called working hard in their careers have long been unaware of **. Walking to school is also exercise.

Exercise your body and hone your will. Comfort makes people live a short life, and comfort makes people lose their minds. Why bother driving home, taking the elevator upstairs, and then getting on the treadmill to go for a run?

It may not be you, but a lot of people live like this. As a result, there is no exercise and relaxation, and some pollution is added to the environment, which is harmful to oneself and others.

Is that okay?

Married to my husband for 2 years, my in-laws are also very good to me, the house is down at the end of this year, these 2 years have been living with my in-laws, they are not very good, I can still be very capable at home, but I am also diligent, they are very good We get along quite well, but I am looking at my husband's face So I don't like to worry about small things Try to avoid friction In fact, I am 100 unwilling to live together, knowing that they will be separated at the end of this year, I am very happy, but the closer I am, the more urgent I wish I would move tomorrow, my father-in-law is not in good health The brain is dull Sometimes I go to the toilet and don't close the door Sometimes I change clothes in the room and he forgets to knock on the door There will be a few times this kind of misunderstanding Mother-in-law is not in good health to cook a meal on the back pain The face is not very good I also have a job Sometimes I want to go home to eat ready-made I once have a stomachache and ask for leave to go home Thinking that there is a hot meal at home My husband is not at home Just come back with nothing Just say that you can just get some food by yourself As soon as I talk about it, I think that my mother is only good for my own mother Other people's mothers are always other people's mothers So I can't treat her like my own mother This is how the estrangement of people arises At the critical moment, only your own mother will take care of you without asking for anything in return Living with them They always make a mess in the living room and kitchen Over time, I don't bother to clean up They always use bad health as a reason What about me If I want to be lazy or something, it's like I'm going to abuse them So this kind of life is very depressing Maybe it's my own bad mentality In short, the longer you live together, the more you hate them psychologically What should I do? But I'm all suppressed in the bottom of my heart

Hello dear, because you are so different in age from your parents-in-law, different lifestyles, and generation gap in communication, it is recommended that you have money to buy a house close to your parents-in-law and live separately, or you can often visit your parents-in-law.

Questions. No money.

I have been married to my husband for more than ten years, my father-in-law usually takes care of everything, he also takes care of my laundry, she also takes care of me when I go back to my parents' house, even when I wash my face, he has to stipulate which pot you pour water in, in short, all kinds of faults, I can't afford to provoke and hide, I stay in my own room and he chatters.

Hello dear, that can only be run-in, and there will be no depression if you treat your parents-in-law as your parents.

Questions. Two days ago, I washed clothes and he chattered, I couldn't help arguing with him for a while, I thought about separating the family, but my husband is the only son in the family, our yard is the front and back yard, there is only one door, usually go out can only go in that door, I really can't separate the family, my husband asked me to admit my mistake with him, am I really wrong.

He is a good drinker, he drinks too much and goes crazy, he drank too much at noon today, and scolded me in the afternoon, I really don't know what to do, I don't think I did anything wrong, but my husband asked me to apologize for him, I was afraid that after I apologized to him, he would become even more Bengali.

Hello dear, even if you are not wrong, it is not right for you to quarrel with the elders, so your husband doesn't know that it is good over there, I think we are people's daughters-in-law, let the elderly, the general elderly have different lifestyles are not used to the lifestyle of young people, they like to chatter a few words, ask questions.

I'm also angry, so that whoever is nagged like this every day can't stand it, go out to pick up the child from school, come back late and he will also chatter, the desire to control is very strong, what he wants to eat, others have to do it for him, every time he eats, at the dinner table is to say how good other people's daughters-in-law are, other people's grandchildren are more obedient and more obedient, he is particularly impatient with my children, he can't say two words to scold Wang Balamb, to others and other people's children is very good.

Hello dear, your birth and his birth do not get along, some words he says with his mouth like this, his heart does not necessarily think like this, every grandfather hurts his grandson, I believe he is a duplicity.

Questions. Do I have to apologize to him? I'm afraid that after I apologize to him, he will be even worse.

You are so dear, you can not apologize, but don't quarrel with him in the future