Ex boyfriend and blind date, who should I choose

It is really difficult to choose if one party has good material conditions, your parents are more satisfied, and one party loves you and you know each other. But it depends on what kind of life you want, if you want to live well, you don't have to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt, or you want to be with the people you love, even if you will bother about firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you yourself know that that life is what you want, believe in yourself.

Whether you are happy or not, only you know, and as long as you are confident that you can be happy, I believe that your parents will eventually agree. They just want you to be doing well in the future. As for the blind date man, he is obedient to you, but are you suitable?

Do you have similar values, attitudes towards life, and ideas for the future? As for your ex-boyfriend, you've been together for two years, so you should know each other. Do you have any dissatisfaction with him?

Do you think that with his habit or character, you will have a lot of conflicts in the future? Someone told me that when you don't know how to choose, imagine the future, what it will be like to live with him or him, will you feel happy or scary? At this point, you probably already know the answer.

Don't give up on your ex-boyfriend because you love each other. There is such a man who is willing to run so far just to see you, will save money to buy a house for you, and is willing to tolerate you to go on a blind date for you.

What could be more precious? You should know how to cherish such a man.

Even if a blind date man is good to you, you can't fall in love with him, as long as you still have your ex-boyfriend in mind. It's useless how long you spend with a blind date guy. You can't fall in love with him. Isn't that a painful thing?

You have to know that you are the one who has been with your boyfriend for the rest of your life. Even if your parents are gone, you still have to live with that man forever. So for the approval of his parents, he married someone he didn't love, and that would be a fool.

And you really think your parents' purpose is for you to marry that blind date man? They are for your happiness in the future.

Do you know why your family agrees with a blind date man? Because they think He can give you happiness. And if you're not happy at all, do you think they'll continue to agree? Aren't all these sacrifices you've made in vain?

Blood is thicker than water, even if you do something unfilial, they won't want you, so don't put so much pressure on yourself, just do what you want in your heart.

Actually, it's quite simple. You don't choose between your ex-boyfriend and your new boyfriend, but between your ex-boyfriend and your parents. It doesn't matter at all whether the new boyfriend is this person or not. As long as it's approved by your parents, it's fine. Think about it, isn't that so?

If that's the case, do you think it's worth it for such a blind date man?

There are many ways you can get your parents to compromise, as long as you exclude the blind date man and don't think about him, things will be very simple. It's a big deal, crying, making trouble, and hanging yourself, as long as you want to, there must be a way. That's something to think about later.

Feelings can be cultivated, material things can be earned. As for wanting to eat a bite to become a fat person, it is unlikely! Your current situation corresponds to the old saying "fish and bear's paws, you can't have both", but this is the happiness of your life, others have no right to point you out, and in the end it is better to choose to cut through the mess quickly and not be indecisive!

There will be bread in the future, it can be seen that you have not yet walked out of your first love, and you are still interested in you, don't separate if you love each other, and do your parents' ideological work well, let your parents accept him, if you still can't let your parents accept him by exhausting all means, it's better not to get married, your parents' vision is more accurate, and without the recognition and blessing of family affection, the marriage will probably not be happy.

It's rare to meet someone who loves you, and I understand how difficult it is right now, but sometimes it's just about making choices and preparing for the outcome.

Kiss. How old are you?

I think marriage is the key to a lifetime choice, and material things are important, but if you are too greedy after you have enough food and clothing, it will be a bit bad.

Is your ex-boyfriend really that bad.

I wonder what the pro is choosing now? Same question, very confused.

The ex-boyfriend is in the past tense, and they have already understood each other, so they will leave Xie as a spare tire first. Try to get along with your blind date, and if it's not as good as your ex-boyfriend, pick up your ex-boyfriend back.

Don't do it, go to the next one, explain it badly, and hesitate.

Why did you become an ex-boyfriend.

On the first blind date, ask the predecessor of the corresponding object, and then make a choice according to the actual situation. Under normal circumstances, if you feel that the blind date partner's character is okay, and there is a need to continue communication, then it is okay to ask the blind date's ex. But if your relationship is not as good as you imagined, then at this time, it is not polite to ask the ex of the blind date.

So if you don't know each other well on the first blind date, then it's best not to ask the object's ex, and it's also out of identity.

1. In general, don't ask as well. 2. It should be decided on a case-by-case basis. 3. Ask the opposite object, according to the occasion.

If you already know that the other party has been on a blind date many times, then at this time, it is best not to ask. If you are older, then try not to ask at this time, because there will definitely be a lot of questions. So at this time, you have to make a choice according to the actual situation and the mood of the other party.

If you think it's better to go on a blind date, then you can mention it by the way at this time, but don't ask directly, because if you ask your ex directly, it is very impolite at this time and will make the other party disgusted.

In general, it is very rude to ask an ex on a blind date for the first time. But if you feel that you already like each other very much,And if the other party also has a good impression of himself, then it is very necessary to mention this by the way, and he will understand the other party better, so at this time, it is also necessary to focus on the actual situation.

Not good. In fact, for the first blind date, we need to determine whether this person meets your mate selection criteria and whether there is a need to continue to develop. So it is very abrupt and impolite to ask someone about an ex when they meet for the first time.

I think you can ask the blind date, how many relationships have you had, if you ask the ex in detail, you must know everything about him and the ex, so the impression is not very good.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, who doesn't have an ex yet, the blind date is rushing to get married, get to know each other better, lest both parties invest in their feelings and find that the other party has a past that can't be accepted, isn't it very embarrassing.

If you go on a blind date for the first time, you can't ask the blind date's ex directly, which will make the other party feel very rude and abrupt.

Try not to ask about such things, after asking too much, it will be easy to arouse the disgust of the other party, don't go overboard.

That's not good, it's very passive. It will make him think that you are good gossip and scheming. Then they will be wary of you in the future, and it can even be said that there is nothing to discuss with you.

Not good. The ex is a thing of the past, so don't mention it again. so as not to arouse the sadness of others.

Of course you can, when choosing a person, you must look at his past, how he treated his last girlfriend, and how he may treat you.

Hello, I'm about to run, patiently waiting for me.

It shows that he is ape-minded, half-hearted, always picky about love.

He said it was arranged by the family and he didn't like it.

You want to get back together with me, but you can't let go of me.

I think this is an excuse, no one will not refuse a blind date at home, and no one wants to go on a blind date, only someone is willing to take a reason to convince their love.

He said that the family let him get married, and then I agreed to his reunion, but now he said that he would take care of the family affairs first, and let me wait for him, I feel sad.

You don't have love now, just wait for his love to get close, live your own life first, you have to believe in your own attractiveness, but also believe in your charm time, if he really likes you, he will appear in your life and give you surprises.

Yes, I doubt his sincerity to me. While saying that the person he wanted to marry was me, and not taking me with him to face his parents, he said that he would deal with this matter at home first, and I was very sad.

It's sad to meet such a boyfriend.

I can't take the responsibility of love, but I still have some trouble with the burden of love, I can't handle it perfectly, and I always trouble another lover, I need to wait, this is the failure of a boyfriend, and everyone will be sad.

I want to give up on him completely, and I don't want to hurt his blind date, so I hope he can be happy now and never appear in my world again.

But if he is the person you like, he also likes you very much, and knows that he cherishes you, and the love between you can still end perfectly, because he can deal with his reality and make you wait, which shows that he is really willing to pay for you and the way of dealing with your family.

Yes, I'm starting to dislike him, I can't figure out how he handles, and I'm a person who doesn't want to be embarrassed and doesn't hurt other girls.

You are too perfect and too good, so slowly become the guardian of your love, and let his love move you!

Everyone has an ex in their hearts, and some people don't say it.

If fate is still there, it's not impossible to have a grudge with one shot, if it's really not interesting, then let it be a fart.

Actually, there's really no way, yes, who called it so big and hasn't found a partner yet, it's too normal for the family to worry. Until the eighth day of the new year, my family hurriedly asked me to change my clothes and prepare for a blind date. I'm no longer surprised.

But what surprised me was that the blind date turned out to be an ex-girlfriend, I was really a little bored at the time, it's really a big world, it's all strange. Because we were talking about ourselves at that time, we broke up for more than half a year, and the family didn't know until we broke up.

So after meeting, my expression was very positive, and I didn't dare to let my family know. Her expression is also very calm, and she is probably forced to do it like me. After a brief exchange, the parents let us chat for a while, talk, and ran outside.

We looked at each other and couldn't help but laugh, we thought it was so funny, we broke up peacefully at the time, so we were still very good friends. After seeing her, she deliberately teased her for getting thinner, because she was the kind of woman who had the character, so she said straight in her mouth, and then said, I don't know you yet, I can say sweet words.

She also began to tease me, when will I be able to eat your candy, and I also boasted that it was soon, soon. As they spoke, the two of them couldn't laugh anymore. In the end, we met as old friends, and the relationship between friends was enhanced, hahaha.

Personally, I think you and your ex-boyfriend may not have a stereotyped personality, and sometimes they are a bit like me. They may all be in a stable stage of emotional and personality growth. At this time, you can't rush to get engaged or get married.

It takes a while to get to know each other and understand both parties, don't be in a hurry, it's best to get to know the person you want to marry in the future before talking about engagement and marriage. I can understand your current state. You should give yourself some time to rest, and give yourself a period of emotional vacation to clear your mind.

During this time, you can not confirm who you are engaged to, you can keep friends with the blind date first, you can show that you are feeling a little tired now, and you don't want to think about marriage for the time being, so let's be friends first. Because you don't know each other well yet, the relationship shouldn't be very deep, even if you're not sure if you're together in the future, at least it won't hurt both parties.

On the ex-boyfriend's side, I think you still care about him. I feel that there seem to be some communication problems between you, maybe because you care too much about the other person's sometimes exciting words or the more you care, the more you don't want to tolerate each other's shortcomings, these are small problems, at least you still love each other, so you care like this. You can give each other an extra month or a little longer to watch each other's reactions quietly, or you can let him reminisce about the happy times you used to have together.

I believe that if he really loves you, he will not forget you so quickly. If you really care about this relationship, you can fight for it with him. But do it in the right way, and don't make the other person feel like you're begging him to reconcile.

I can't make him feel like you're going to change your mind so quickly. You see how you can make your mind appear in his mind from time to time, with good feelings rather than annoyance. Slowly, he will take the initiative to find you.

Because he is also out of the contradiction stage, you all have a chance at this time. You can talk about the engagement slowly, don't be in a hurry. The relationship is stable, and everything is easy to say.

Good luck.

Your ex-boyfriend is not a good man, try your blind date, this is my personal idea, I hope it can help you.