If your ex boyfriend wants to reconcile, give him a chance?

I feel like you shouldn't let your previous relationships affect your current life

What is past is what is in the past.

If he really knows how to cherish your goodness, then why did he leave you ruthlessly at that time? Not to mention that he still hurts you ruthlessly! You don't have to worry about whether he will collapse or not, I just want to ask him, what did he do earlier?

My suggestion is, you don't have to pity him, will you feel safe if you continue to be with such a man? What can he bring to you? Does it continue to hurt?

If it were me, I wouldn't give someone I've hurt a second chance to hurt me. Also, you said that you have a new boyfriend and he loves you very much, then you should cherish this person who is by your side now, right? He is innocent, if you reconcile with your former boyfriend, isn't it the same state of mind for him as you did back then?

It's not fair to him to you

But what I still want to say is that the decision on this issue is up to you, if you still love your former boyfriend deeply, you can love him desperately, even if you suffer the pain of abandoning you after him again, you have no regrets, then you listen to your heart and accept him.

If you don't love him so much, just because you once had feelings, you don't want to see him practice himself like this now, and you are a little distressed and reluctant, then I advise you to stay by your current boyfriend's side and be happy with this man who is now by your side. As for your ex-boyfriend, he did it himself, why did he go earlier, besides, when you were sad and painful and needed him, did he change his mind because he felt sorry for you? He was frustrated or unhappy outside before he thought of coming back to you, and it felt good to him.

But what if he leaves you one day? Don't believe a heartless man like this.

Because he is not worth believing at all, people say that depending on a person's character, don't just listen to what he says but also see how he does it, he doesn't even have a reason to break up, will you still give hope to such a man? Do you dare to entrust him with your own future, or even your life?

In the world of feelings, there is no sympathy and pity, only love and non-love Don't sympathize with him, you don't owe him!

Memories are in the past whether they are painful or joyful, and I think what you need to do now is not to look back, but to look forward to get along with your current boyfriend, be the best version of yourself, be kind to yourself, and cheer up.

Bless you o(o

If he hurts you, if you have now come out of the shadow of that time and have a better happiness. Then I advise you to cherish the present. At the very least, you will prevent yourself from being hurt again, and it will also prevent someone who loves you from suffering as you once did.

I'm a very dead-eyed person, and I've lost so much to be with the boyfriend who hurt me so many times, both friends and myself. We've been separated and reunited countless times, and he has brought me nothing but a brief moment of happinessIt's all about me to keep giving to him.

So, since you're so happy right now, why bother? Let yourself go back in time, back to Him. And after that?

With a short few days of bliss, then? What will he do to you? I know that the love of the past, especially the love that has been painstakingly forgotten, is unforgettable, but everything is predestined.

There is a fate to go to the hand of the son, and the happy ending of growing old with the son, there is no fate, he begs you hard today, you will be soft-hearted, tomorrow, bitter, crying, I don't know who it will be. I wish you happiness.

I hope you are a strong and independent girl, and don't always get entangled in the strange circle of who you love and who you don't love, and who you don't choose. I think you should choose which boy is more suitable for you, you can grow old with you, after all, the right is the best, as for the unchosen will collapse, I understand it this way, a boy can't even stand this blow, he doesn't even have the courage to bear failure, and he can't be entrusted for life, if he does something that hurts himself, then it can only be said that he doesn't even cherish himself, how can he cherish you?

He's not responsible for himself anymore, can he be good to you? So, give up, isn't it nice to have a boyfriend now?

Have time to talk to your former boyfriend, tell him that you have forgotten him, fall in love with your current boyfriend, and ask him to respect your current relationship, and if he truly loves you, he will respect your choice.

Don't give him a chance, it's better to cherish the present, I think your ex-boyfriend will understand, let him give up completely, you have to be resolute with him, let him rush to the impossible and retreat.

Good horses don't eat back grass......It is better to be sad than to be a beautiful couple, of course, the most important thing for you is to grasp your heart and who can bring you happiness, if your ex-boyfriend really hurts you, you will not think of you hurting the person who loves you now.

You've said it all, and even the reasons for the breakup are made up, can I still trust him? Such a boyfriend who will give him a chance. He tortures himself for nothing more than to make you sympathize with him.

A woman's heart is too soft. I wouldn't give him a chance with such a boyfriend. Because I'm afraid he'll find another reason to give up on me.

Doesn't it have nothing to do with you that he tortures himself? As long as you're happy with your current boyfriend now

Since he has hurt you mercilessly

Do you have to turn back?

Even if you are well together

Can you go back in time?

If anyone leaves who can't live

What's more, he once gave up on you.

Besides, it's not fair to your current boyfriend

If your current boyfriend loves him more, you love him too! Then don't give him a chance! After all, who made him give up on you before!

Good horses don't eat back grass......I don't think you should be thinking about him anymore, start over.

Since he hurt you before, don't forgive him You still have a boyfriend now, you want to hurt your current boyfriend like your ex-boyfriend, your ex-boyfriend is not worthy of your trust, it's been two years, and he hasn't regretted it, and he regretted it after you found someone else? No kidding, he's not reconciled.

If you feel very happy now, then I think your ex-boyfriend doesn't really love you, and it's a bit selfish to talk about it, and to love someone is to see her happy.

See if he's sincere, don't say yes yet, and if he gives up, forget it!

will self-harm, torture yourself, have psychological problems, it's best not to contact this kind of person, let alone be a boyfriend.

He should be given a chance.

See which one you like more, choose the one you like.

Choose what is in your heart, who you have not disappointed.

Resolutely not to return to him.

It's up to you to see what you like.

That's a good question.

Love is up to you.

Since you have been injured, I advise you not to look back, otherwise it is you who will be hurt, and maybe you are still in love with your ex-boyfriend. But people have to look forward, you have a boyfriend who loves you now, and if you still love him, don't look back.

There are two situations in which a boyfriend is usually like this, one is that he really wants to reconsider your relationship and see if there is a possibility of getting back together. The second scenario is that he just can't bear to hurt you and says that. So let's explain these two situations separately, I hope it may help you.

First of all, if your boyfriend has thoughts of getting back together with you. If you check that your boyfriend has the idea of getting back together with you, first of all, he will not refuse to meet you, and he will also take the initiative to ask you out to see if you can go back to the past, whether you get along happily, and whether there is a possibility of getting back together. If this is the case, then you have a chance to get back together, and if you want to be with your boyfriend, what you have to do is to try to redeem it and let the other person know that you can change some of your bad behaviors that the other party is not used to for him.

But don't deliberately try to please the other person in order to get back together, because doing so will make you look humble. Because feelings are a matter between two people, giving and getting need to be relatively fair.

Secondly, if the boyfriend just doesn't want to hurt you and says so. If your boyfriend is only afraid that he will hurt you by refusing to say this directly, then your chances of getting back together are slim. Then if this is the case, he will not take the initiative to date you, and he will refuse to ask you for various reasons and excuses, although he tries not to hurt you, but he is not very attentive to you.

Then what you should do at this time is to calm your mood and tell yourself that you can never go back to the past, although it is difficult to let go, but you must also work hard to let go, give each other a free space, and give yourself a chance to choose again.

All in all, if there is still a place for you in the other person's heart, then you have a chance to get back together, and you can work hard to fight for it. If the other party can't tolerate you in his heart, don't be sad, because this can only prove that you are destined, and letting go of this relationship is the best choice for yourself.

I think this shows that you do still have a chance, and your boyfriend may also be thinking about this matter carefully, so you must seize this opportunity at this time.

Yes. Because my ex-boyfriend didn't refuse, and he said that he would consider it, I felt that there was still a chance.

No. If the other party really wants to get back together with you, then they will immediately agree to meet your requirements, and the other party says that they want to consider it, indicating that the other party no longer loves you.

If two people have broken up for a long time and their ex-boyfriend has found a girl to reconcile, then I think it may be that this boy has come around and thinks that you are better, so he will choose to be with you. And if it is, it will not choose to reconcile, because it is a person who attaches great importance to feelings, and will be very involved in the process of falling in love. Therefore, after finally coming out, I will not give the other party a second chance, because I don't want to bear the sadness of the past again.

When a person hurts you the first time, it hurts you a second time. If you choose to reconcile at this time, then the other party may feel that you can't do without him, and there is no need to say what kind of problems will arise in the middle. It's easy to say the word reconcile, and it's easy for us to reconcile with each other.

But two people may not get back together, and after two people reconcile, there will definitely be a certain estrangement between each other because the other party talked about other objects during the breakup period, and eventually they will still go to the road of breaking up.

If a person really likes you, then he will not choose to reconcile with you after a long time of breakup. Because he knows that in this whole process, you will be very sad, so I also hope that everyone will not hurt themselves again, a second chance, we will not always repeat the mistakes of the past. There are many men in this world, and we should not let ourselves be sad many times for the sake of a man.

Some people may think that this is very ruthless, but everyone must know that for a person who is very serious about relationships, in a relationship, how to spend it after a breakup. After the breakup, many people can't eat, can't sleep well, will lose a lot of weight in a short period of time, and the whole person is also very listless, feeling that their soul is being drained.

I think this is the time to give him a chance, because everyone makes mistakes, as long as you know your mistakes and change them, you can watch his every move carefully.

If you still have feelings for him, I think you can give him another chance, and if you have let him go, then there is no need to give him another chance.

This depends on what reason you broke up in the first place, if it is not a matter of principle, the relationship still exists, you can give him another chance.

It mainly depends on whether you want to give him a reunion, if you feel that there is no need to be with him, you don't need to give him a chance, the long pain is better than the short pain, and I don't know how to cherish it after I don't give the opportunity, and I am the kind of person who can't get back together if you break up.

Don't give. I think there will be a breakup once, there will definitely be a second time, countless times, so it's better not to get back together. The repetition only made it even more sad.

You shouldn't give him a chance, breaking up means that the relationship is completely over and there is no need to be together.

I think it's better not to give him a chance, you will ask this to show that you don't love him so much anymore, so it doesn't make any sense to be reluctantly together, let's leave good memories for the two of you.

It mainly depends on behavior, if your boyfriend is willing to correct himself, then he should be given a chance to reconcile.

Try it, because he'll keep coming to talk to you about it, or at least prove that he's genuinely trying.