My ex boyfriend wants to reconcile, what should I do?

Can't start over, if you really start over, you will definitely hope that the other party loves you more than before, maybe to make up for the previous shortcomings, of course, he will also be better to you than before, but this good is only short-lived, how long can he last? Unless he really can't leave you anymore, or he loves you too much, if he loves you too much, then he won't break up in the first place, right? If you still want to give him a chance, but you can only take your time to test it to see if he is really good to you, don't get hurt by then!

This kind of problem is generally very complicated, and I personally think that you can make judgments and choices from the following aspects:

1.Was you sincere with your ex-boyfriend before he broke up? For what reason you are separated?

2.The general changes in his life after the breakup, such as whether he experienced something, made him decide to be together again, which is very important, this may be the basis for you to be together in the future, because you are already very familiar with each other's situation, so this may be his only reason!

3.The rest is how you feel, what kind of place he is in your heart.

This is just my suggestion, just for your reference!

When you are young, don't think about starting over with lovers who have not been together before, if you can be together, you will be together at the beginning, each other has sharp edges and corners in love, why they were separated before, they will be separated for the same reason in the future; When you are old, when you imagine the future much less than you remember the past, if you are lonely, the lovers who have not been together in the past will be the best companion, because you will cherish the support of the twilight more because of the regrets accumulated over a long time.

This depends on why you broke up, for the sake of other women and you broke up, OK, you can't be reconciled even if you die, a betrayal, and it will continue after that, if it's a personality incompatibility, it's very simple, ask him why he wants to get back together with you. There are many, many reasons!

Not necessarily, it depends on whether you still love him, if you still love him, and he still loves you, you can reconcile with him. If you don't love him anymore, it's better to share it with him thoroughly, so that he doesn't have hope.

I don't know your situation, so I don't dare to talk nonsense.

If you also want to reconcile, go back and give both parties a chance. After all, it was not easy for the two to come together.

If you make up your mind to break up, forget it and don't get hurt again.

It's normal to divide and merge in love.

It's better not to reconcile, otherwise you'll be tired. There has been a first time, there is a second time, and if you want to break it, you will break it clean.

If you miss it, don't regret it! I'm not a toy. If you want it, you can take it, and if you don't want it, you can keep it....Remember: don't be stupid, this time you reconcile, there will definitely be a breakup.

Yes, if you really love him, go back, otherwise don't reconcile.

My ex-girlfriend is looking for me to reconcile, and your ex-boyfriend is trying to reconcile with you. Ay! Connected to the same disease....I can only endure the pain and bury her love in my heart. Although there is some heartache, love is really helpless. I couldn't be better with her, my parents were against her, and my friends were against her.

Of course, you can reconcile if you have feelings, but don't do without feelings.

You think about it and make a decision, then you have to see if your ex-boyfriend loves you until the sky falls apart and doesn't give up.

If the feelings are gone, it is powerless to go back.

If you still love him, you're giving him a second chance.

There are always some reasons that will cause you to separate, so can you guarantee that you can avoid those previous problems when you are together?

If you already have doubts about the past, then you already have the answer in your heart.

No one will continue to stay with someone who has been separated and feel safe, arguments are inevitable, and you have to have the courage to heal the emotional wounds and accept these shocks and challenges.

It's up to you what you think!

Summary. 1.Firm your position: If your ex-boyfriend comes to you to get back together, a girl must be firm in her position and can't agree to him, even if you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, you can't agree to him immediately, you have to sharpen his temperament, otherwise he will feel that it is easy to get back together with you in the future, and the more he will not cherish you, men will not cherish what they can easily get.

Therefore, girls must be firm in their position and not give in, and show your own attitude. 2.Don't try to convince him Many girls will try to persuade the boy when they face their ex-boyfriend coming to get back together, and they don't want to get back together, and want the boy to give up, but this method is often counterproductive, the more you convince your ex-boyfriend, the more the other party will feel that you still care about him, and they will often be entangled and have to get back together with you.

1.Firm your position: If your ex-boyfriend comes to you to get back together, a girl must be firm in her position and can't agree to him, even if you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, you can't agree to him immediately, you have to sharpen his temperament, otherwise he will feel that it is easy to get back together with you in the future, and the more he will not cherish you, men will not cherish what they can easily get. Therefore, girls must be firm in their position and not give in, and show your own attitude.

2.Don't try to convince him Many girls will try to persuade the boy when they face their ex-boyfriend coming to get back together, and they don't want to get back together, and want the boy to give up, but this method is often counterproductive, the more you convince your ex-boyfriend, the more the other party will feel that you still care about him, and they will often be entangled and have to get back together with you.

3.Cold treatment If the ex-boyfriend comes to find himself to get back together, even if he has feelings, he can't turn back, because most couples get back together after breaking up and the result is just a repetition of the past, so you have to learn a lesson, you can't promise him, as the saying goes, the rabbit doesn't eat back grass, there is no need to hang yourself on this tree. And at this time, the best way is to deal with it coldly, because our patience and enthusiasm are limited, and when we can't get a little response from you, he may leave on his own.

My current boyfriend is very good to me, but it is difficult for me to choose between more than 100 days and more than 600 days.

If you go back, won't it be the same as now?

Same as before. It's not fair to the present.

Ex-boyfriend's mistaken boyfriend shouldn't be carried.

I know what to choose, thank you.

You are welcome. Please give me a thumbs up if it's convenient.

In Eileen Chang. ** "Love in a Fallen City".

There is such a sentence, that is, Shijun, we can never go back. thinks that even if the ex-boyfriend can still get along with him, this does not necessarily mean that he has a chance to save the spine. Many times, the emotional thing is that you can't turn back after you miss it, and the ancients also said that it is difficult to collect it when it is covered with water, and it is difficult to circle it when it is broken.

Many times, the ex-boyfriend is still able to get along with himself, to a large extent, not because he wants to start with you again, but simply because of the relationship between the two of you, no matter how much spring infiltrates the past, your current identity is just an ordinary friend, therefore, he may just treat you as an ordinary friend, to put it bluntly, that is, if you change your identity to another woman, he will do the same, thinking, if you simply think, As long as the ex-boyfriend can still get along with himself, it means that he still has a chance, this kind of self-righteous words, hidden is the attachment to the ex-boyfriend, may be from the bottom of the heart or want to save this relationship, in life you have to pay attention to whether it is possible that you have some misunderstanding of some of the ex-boyfriend's words or actions, there is a saying, what you think you think is what you think? Sometimes, people can't be wishful thinking, because the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, often thinking that it might be a fresh start, but turning around and falling into the. <>

Regardless of whether there is really a chance of redemption between you and your ex-boyfriend? There is also a more realistic question, are you really sure that you want to redeem it? , I hope you can ask yourself, why did you two separate in the first place?

Now, have you found the reason for the separation? Is the problem between you and your ex-boyfriend really resolved? If the problem between you has not been solved, but you are nostalgic for the previous warmth, nostalgic for the life of the two of you before, I think you can calm down first, let yourself travel, relax your mood, listen to your heart, maybe you can better start again on the way to travel.

Whether a good horse doesn't eat back grass, or a good horse also eats back grass, the final decision in life is to be responsible for yourself, and you don't regret choosing it.

This does not mean that the two of you still have a salvage of Jiling Nai Sakura, it may be that his personal character is better, and he thinks that he can still be a good friend after breaking up, you need to control it correctly, and you must adjust your mentality, don't have illusions, don't hide a serious luck mentality.

Yes, it means that the other party likes you very much, so he has a better attitude towards you, and he is not willing to make you sad and sad.

Yes, this shows that the two of you are very suitable, at this time you must reflect on your behavior and take the initiative to apologize if you have done something wrong.

I don't think you should reconcile, because after the breakup, you have already experienced several relationships, and your mentality has changed a lot, and if you get back together at this time, it is possible to break up again, which will also cause serious impact and damage to yourself.

Personally, I think it should not be reconciled, two people have been separated for a long time, and it may be a repeat of the mistakes after reconciliation.