As the saying goes, Good men don t fight for wealth and property, and good women don t fight for cl

This sentence is very literal: a good man should not fight for family wealth, so that the family will be happy and harmonious; And when a woman gets married, don't argue for a lot of dowry, and don't think about relying on dowry to support herself.

I think this sentence is actually not to look at the immediate benefits, but to have a vision, men should not look at the little bride price in front of them, and women should not look at what he has when he marries the other party, but look at what he can have in the long run.

It means that men should be self-reliant, don't always think about competing for their ancestors' property, and the most important thing is to succeed by their own efforts. It's the same for women, when you get married, don't dislike this or that's not good, it's the key to look at the character.

The meaning of this sentence is that let's not think about asking for our parents' possessions and things. If you want to live a good life, you must rely on your own hands and skills to create wealth.

A man who stands up to the sky and has the ability will not be so stingy as to compete with his brothers in the family for property, and a woman with backbone will not compete with her mother's family for any dowry and block her parents.

Because a good man will create value for himself and will not compete for the original property of the family. A good woman will not choose to compete with others for the clothes she will marry when she gets married, because these will be won by herself in the future.

It means that an ambitious man will not always worry about the property left by his parents, good men will not gnaw at the old, and they can live a prosperous life by their own efforts. And a good woman will not be like a pampered princess, she will not dislike her husband's family everywhere when she gets married, and she can be an independent woman after marrying, and she will not rely on dowry to live.

Good women don't compete for marriage, good women, they don't compete for their mother's dowry. As long as your parents give you as much as you want, you will take as much as you want. There will be no existence to say

It's something I have to take or ask my parents for more. For this kind of knowledgeable and sensible woman. People also give high praise, which shows that this woman has a good character.

Tell us that in life, sometimes we don't have to fight for some small things, waste time, and basically get nothing in the end, so it's better to do something meaningful than to have that effort.

A good man will not fight for the amount of family property, and a good woman will not fight for the amount of her dowry, and will not fight for things, and a harmonious family is the best.

It probably means that a capable man will not fight for the family's property, a good girl will not ask too much for a dowry, and it also speaks of the good character of a good man and a good woman.

This sentence tells us that good men never fight for the family property left by the elderly, they all rely on their own hands to work hard, and good women will not live on the dowry when they get married.

The meaning of this sentence is to show that excellent children will not ask their parents for anything, will not increase the burden of their parents and cause family conflicts, they can start their own business and live a better life, which also reflects a good quality of children.

【Source】 Ming: "Golden Vase Plum" eighty-fifth chapter.

Appreciation] An ambitious man will never covet the inheritance left behind when he separated; An ambitious woman will never be nostalgic for the clothes she received when she got married. Divided family rice: refers to the inheritance left by the ancestors when the brothers split the family.

Wedding clothes: refers to the dowry given by a woman's parents when she marries. These two poems are exhorting people to be self-reliant, and they should strive to create their own career prospects with their own minds and hands, and should not rely on the inheritance of their ancestors.

Original poem] The original poem is only these two lines.

A good man does not want a gift money, and a good woman does not want a dowry.