If there is a villain around you who often speaks nonsense behind your back, slanders you, smears yo

I won't pay attention to it, I will make myself better and better, let myself do things without a handle, and then leave him far behind.

Stay away from such a person, and be wary of this person, and usually don't have any intersection with this person.

I will prove my strength, and then I will not trust anyone, I will not take him to heart, I will work better and prove myself with strength.

I must ask why this person is doing this, and whether what he says is true or false, and this time I will also cut ties with such a person and no longer contact with him.

You don't have a good relationship with the leaderBecause you don't have a good relationship with the leader, the treacherous villain will frame you and slander you. Once the leader doesn't love you, then the treacherous villain will speculate on the leader's careful thoughts, look for your handle, and then hand it over to the leader. From the point of view of the treacherous villain, if the leader can use him to hand over this "handle" to clean you up.

In that way, he can be regarded as saving the leader, and he is meritorious, and the leader will be grateful to himself. It is precisely because of this psychological state that treacherous villains especially like to frame employees whose leaders are not satisfied. If you really don't have a good relationship with the leader, then congratulations, then you are very easy to offend the small person's physique, don't believe you wait for the big disturbance to see.

You provoke the treacherous villain, offend the villain, and divide it into active annoyance and passive annoyance. Actively offending the villain, in fact, is some of your personal behaviors, or some opinions, that angered the treacherous villain, who is usually a personality that will be revenged, and if he is provoked, he will usually threaten and intimidate home. Being in a passive way to offend the villain, in itself, you may not do anything, but you still provoke the treacherous villain, if nothing else, just because you cover other people's Lu Yindan, maybe you don't want to block it, and you won't think that she will get in his way.

The treacherous villain wants your place, and wants to replace you, so he will try to bring you down, although it is very likely that you have done nothing, but just because you are in this position, you will also offend the villain.

You are too dirty According to experience, in fact, many people say that he was framed or slandered by villains, but in fact, he is not tidy. As the saying goes, "mosquitoes don't bite seamless eggs", often treacherous villains will take a fancy to you, this is because you are not tidy in the first place. If you are indeed transparent in front of the leader, transparent in front of everyone, innocent, and the villain frames you, no one will firmly believe in your point of view.

Often treacherous villains will slander you, just because you are too dirty, naturally this does not mean that you have indeed done something wrong, in fact, you may have done nothing, but just because of some of your personal behaviors, people feel, or have not very good thoughts, and that's enough.

You leave in the melon field, bow your head to tie your shoes, you leave under the plum tree, lift up your hat, you may really not want to pick other people's melons, you don't think about picking other people's plums, but your behavior will be misleading, then this is enough, enough for others to question you. In the workplace, many people are disgusted by the leader just because of this little suspicion, and they are hit everywhere, and they have a very painful time when they first enter the workplace.

Then you can find an opportunity to clarify yourself, you can accidentally let people know your true situation in the company, but you should also pay attention to the most important work, don't pay too much attention to the villain.

If it's some innocuous little gossip, then let the other party honestly admit their mistakes. If it involves some questions that touch on the principles of Wang and dismantle them, or even damage their own interests, it is best to find a judge and notary public for him first, so as not to encounter hooligans and endless quarrels with the other party. At the critical moment, instead of reasoning with the villain who does not have the line of the bottom travel tomb, it is better to use the law**.

In this case, we should fight back against the other party face to face and completely clarify the rumors, otherwise it is easy for the three of us to become tigers and burden ourselves with some unnecessary infamy.

Born of jealousy, jealousy makes a person lose his mind, and jealousy makes a person laugh, even if it makes a person ugly. When a person is deeply jealous of your life, of what you have, of your grades, he will act irrationally. Extreme people will hurt you and target you.

And those who like to play tricks will use it.

Speaking badly is their social means Psychologically speaking: in a certain group, once your reputation is damaged, Sen Yuanguo does not expect others to help you clarify; Because a lot of people not only won't stand this stupid in you.

There are some people who are not as good as you in life, not as good as you, and not as good as you in all aspects. Even directly.

If you are still a young man at this moment, I am afraid that you will not be able to calm down what I say, but I still want to tell you, don't pay attention to those gossip, if you stand up straight, don't be afraid of shadows!

When I was younger, I used to have the same doubts as the subject, what if someone kept saying bad things behind my back, and everyone else believed it. I want to try my best to defend myself and prove my innocence! But as I grew older, such worries slowly dissipated, and later I found that with the transfer of time, what I was worried about did not happen, and my image did not deteriorate because of the slander of others, but the person who has been gossiping about others is not doing well!

In my hometown, there are a few such women in the village, [I believe that no matter which village, there must be such people], their greatest pleasure is to slander others behind their backs, gossip about others, if they are poorer than themselves, or as poor as themselves, then it is better, basically they don't pay much attention to you.

The most unlucky people are those who are richer than them and can't get used to their faces, basically they have been told a thousand times behind their backs.

However, the fact is that those who are richer than them are getting richer and richer, and their lives are getting better and better, because people don't have time to be angry with them! Instead, they continue to struggle in poverty, and no one believes them anymore.

So, you can't control people's mouths, you can't say what they want to say, are you going to confront the other party? I'm afraid that I will put myself in an even more embarrassing situation, so when you encounter such a person and such a thing, you can only calm down, otherwise you will only be led by the other party.

Summary! No matter what kind of slander, there will always be a day when the truth will be revealed, and when the time comes, it will not be you who will be embarrassed, but someone else. So, don't worry too much about such a problem, the pure person is self-purifying, and silence is a kind of cultivation!

There are a lot of things that take time to prove. Even if you don't say anything to clarify yourself, you will naturally prove your innocence. As long as it's not too big, it's completely negligible, and don't waste time on these things.

I'll have a fight with him and tear my face, anyway, he doesn't care about the love between us anymore, so why should I put up with it?

I felt like I'd ignore it and stay away from them as if I didn't hear it, and if they say something too serious, I'll contradict them to their faces, etc.

He should be allowed to set the record straight in public.

Give you back your innocence.

It also lets everyone know the truth of the matter.

First of all, as the saying goes: which one does not say people behind it, and which one does not say it behind anyone?

In society, people have to experience some storms, including some rumors, everyone is like this, so we must adjust our mentality, do what we need to do, and don't worry about it.

In addition, if you are slandered, you always have a circle of relatives and friends, and you can talk about some things with relatives and friends, I believe that everyone can share your unhappiness, and can also help you explain the situation and resolve conflicts. Of course, if it's too private or trivial, don't mention it. Just forget about it.

Sometimes, people may have a psychological effect, and after an injury, they are more sensitive, which needs to be adjusted by yourself.

Good ways to listen to songs, sing, party, dinner, outing, chat, etc.

In short, be broad-minded, long-term, and be kind to others, especially those around you, including those who say bad things about you, and don't hurt them.

Finally, good luck!

Rumors are finally wise. No one is going to go on and spread rumors. As long as it is slander, there is no fault of yours, don't hurt yourself with other people's faults. Don't make too many unnecessary explanations, let alone fall into their circle.

Those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid. There will always be a time when the truth will come out. It's best not to take the initiative to explain at this time, as that will only make you darker and darker. The villain who plotted against you wants you to mess with yourself, so it is recommended that you maintain a good attitude.

Suspiciousness, conjecture, life pressure, and low self-esteem can all lead to this.

What kind of person are you, everyone has a psychological spectrum after a long time, and there is no need to worry about yourself.

Other people gossip about you, prove that you're valuable, you're a celebrity, it's so awesome.

I sit upright and stand up straight, what I'm afraid of, and I don't care what other people are talking nonsense.

Go your own way and let others talk to themselves! Don't worry about it.

Forget about these and divert your attention.

Don't worry, stand straight.

Don't care what others say, just do your own thing.