These women are easy to attract the opposite sex, and men can t refuse, what are the secrets?

What is the most feared thing to talk about, it is nothing more than embarrassing chatting. I can't figure out what he says, and I can't pick up the stalk at all, so even if he wants to talk to you, he's helpless. On the other hand, these women who understand the stalk, no matter what the boy says, they can reply humorously and tease the boy by the way.

The man can't refuse, and he wants to chat with her. Sometimes, if you try to make small talk with them, you keep getting turned away. In fact, the so-called rejection is not that I don't like it very much, but that chatting with you is very boring.

If you can talk, it can be regarded as the most satisfactory emotional situation. Only by understanding the stalk can the emotional intelligence of women be revealed.

Selling cuteness is a woman's dominance, and a coquettish woman has candy to eat. However, blindly selling cuteness, in the long run, even if the other party is interested in you, they will get bored, and they will want to give up on you desperately. Moreover, many women always sell cuteness regardless of the occasion, and even think that selling cuteness is more important than men's face.

At home, you can do whatever you like, and boys can comfort you at home and follow you. However, if you are over there and completely annoy the guy and make him lose face, he is very likely to break up with you right away. A woman with high emotional intelligence is not coquettish, but she knows the place.

When you should save face, you will save face, and when you should sell cute, you will play a likable role.

If men speak and gossip, they are so afraid and timid. At this moment, there is a woman who is willing to make an atmosphere, and she is clever to everyone. It is equivalent to helping men share things at any time, and it also makes it very easy for him to get a good job to collaborate and negotiate.

How can a boy not like such a woman. Compared with a good-looking woman, a guy wants a good wife more, who knows everything and can help him with his homework. And every day you don't understand anything, you can only do things, mess up things, no matter how much a guy loves you, he won't think about being with you forever.

The guy is not stupid, he prefers to find an area where both of them are strong enough, or you have, to make him admire. On the other hand, if your personality has been incomprehensible to him, your skills have made him look at you differently, and he will want to cherish and explore you even more.

In the long run, he will naturally be attracted to you and prefer to invest in you. A lot of women think that I'm looking for a good man. However, a boy is not stupid, if you are not good at a certain level, how can he choose you.

You're not elevating yourself, you're not trying to make yourself stronger, and there's not a man who wants to love you. In the case of Jay Chou giving Kunling expensive gifts, Kunling can also give Jay Chou expensive supercars. In the same way, if you want to ask for a more expensive gift, the premise is that it must be available for purchase.

Long-term sexual demand, or love that treats a man as a long-term meal ticket, can only be abandoned, or even have nothing. The most accessible thing for a woman is herself. And men can only be additives in life.

Know how to make the atmosphere If a man speaks and chats, he is very afraid and timid. At this time, there is a woman who is willing to make the atmosphere, and she is fluent to everyone. It is equivalent to helping the man share things at any time, and it is also easy for him to win cooperation and negotiate good work.

Temperament, spiritual beauty. Women with outstanding temperament look full of personality and are very attractive. If you are true and kind in your heart and know how to be considerate of others, you will be favored by others.

You must know how to pick up stalks, and then you must be humorous, you must know how to give the other party outside, you must have style, and you must be financially independent.

Men don't like women to be stronger than themselves, so they must avoid being strong and don't know how to be grateful, don't know filial piety, and don't be gentle and short-tempered.

Don't choose blindly, don't be unreasonable, don't hand over Xingzhi Wu Nafu's matching products to the other party, don't have no principles and no bottom line, don't be too proactive, don't have your own things.

Don't blindly pay for the other party, you must know how to stick to your own principles and bottom line, and learn to indulge in what you want.

When it comes to being with the opposite sex, many women care too much about what a man thinks and have a good relationship with a man. She was afraid that once she said "no", the man would betray her. In fact, when a woman gets along with a man, she doesn't have to be obedient, and rejecting him on these requirements will make her seem more attractive:

Refuse to be a stay-at-home wife

If a man makes you a stay-at-home wife, and he says that he can support you well, and he doesn't have to naively say yes directly, it's just a gentle trap. In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun is a very common phenomenon. She originally had a high diploma, but she became a housewife at home for her husband, and gradually, the common topic between herself and her husband became less and less.

When a person bravely rushes forward under the pressure of work, and a person walks in place carefree, the two do not grow together, and will eventually get farther and farther apart, so that they go their separate ways.

Reject his bottomless to my need for economy

If a man sometimes borrows from me, or opens his mouth to me when he is in trouble, then this is a sign of your intimacy, after all, boys don't just open their mouths to help others. But if he keeps asking me for it, and keeps hollowing you out, then you have to be brave enough to say no. This kind of man's ability to resist frustration is too weak, and the chance of PUBG survival ** is not very great.

A man's need for women in all matters is by no means a graceful thing, and I have the behavior of eating soft rice, such a person generally has no sense of responsibility.

Reject everything with him at the core

In the book Nonviolent Communication, there is an insight that every violent theme activity is mostly because the inner needs of one of the parties are not being met. In response to the unscientific regulations of boys, everyone can't blindly obey them.

When she asks you to listen to you, first objectively discern whether he is doing it right or not. If he does it and makes you feel uncomfortable, but I don't refuse, you can choose to ignore your own thoughts for a long time. When our inner needs don't satisfy me, the conflict between the two of you will become.

The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, and when it does not resist, its "appetite" will be greater, which can easily make him surge.

Reject the demands that always make you endure

Some men have poor problem-solving skills, especially in interpersonal interactions. When we get grievances between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he makes you endure it; If you get a grievance at work, he makes you endure it; Waiting for you to get unfair wages and imitation treatment, he makes you put up with ......It seems that in the dictionary of his life, there are only two words "endure", in fact, it is a manifestation of his lack of ability to solve problems, and he will not take the initiative to help and try his best to solve it, but always use two words to ask you. Don't ask him for help, if you are "strong", maybe it will look at you with admiration.

Emotional message: For boys, women should not come and go immediately. You are also a person who needs help emotionally, and you can say "no" firmly and loudly when dealing with unreasonable rules for boys!

Say no to men giving you luxuries. When two people get along with each other, it is inevitable to give gifts to each other. If a man gives you luxuries, you shouldn't gladly accept them.

After all, when the relationship between the two people is not yet determined, always accepting expensive gifts from men is very cheap in itself. Refusal to have sex with him before marriage. Women should purify themselves.

Although this is no longer the feudal society of the past, and the requirements for women are not as high as those of physical fiber, women still have to have reservations.

Refuse to rely on each other, an independent woman, fully capable of protecting herself, even if she leaves a man, she can live a wonderful life, and such a woman is often very attractive, which can make men miss Huaiyu and never forget the lead Qi Duan.

Go out and go out with Min Min to date and buy her gifts, Zen Tan is not too ambiguous in communication, if you can do this, it proves that you are a person who is very eloquent, and the person who knows how to refuse is the most perfect person.

Gentle personality.,Don't lose your temper casually.。 Many women don't have a good personality, once their emotions collapse, they will lose their temper with others, and they will always not find their own reasons, and will shift all the responsibility to others. In the face of such a woman, men naturally have a headache, men like the kind of women who have a gentle personality and don't lose their temper casually, with such a woman, men will feel very comfortable, and there is not so much pressure, this is the feeling of love that men want.

The women who make men "unable to refuse" are first of all coquettish women. A coquettish woman is easy to arouse a man's desire to protect. The second is that a woman with her own thoughts is easy to arouse the curiosity of men, and a woman can only have her own unique charm if she maintains her own independent thoughts.

Finally, there are considerate women, who are easy to make men dependent.

First, he is beautiful and has a good figure. Second, be gentle and considerate, and be empathetic. Third, independence has its own ideas and its own career.

Use practical actions to move the other party, such as taking care of her carefully when she has a cold; support her to do what she wants; Take her to meet your parents and loved ones.

often give women positive energy, eliminate women's negative energy, accompany women, and take the initiative to women's various domineering, so that women will have no resistance.

In the relationship between men and women, if the man you are dating is always nostalgic for these three places, you must stay away from him. Maybe he will get better, but on the road to getting better, maybe you have to put in too much hard work and hard work. Maybe he won't get better and better in his life, and we will destroy our own life because of her.

In short, as a woman, when dating the opposite sex, you must do a risk assessment, and there are some risks that you simply can't afford. Don't provoke such a man, otherwise you will regret it in the end. Sometimes it's too late to regret it.

In reality, there are always some men, especially nostalgic for playing cards and mahjong venues. Some of them will come over and play a few games as soon as they are empty. Some spend the whole day immersed in this place.

You may think that such a man can change, but you don't know that for men, the place that is often nostalgic is addictive. As the saying goes, nature is hard to change, and it is very difficult for men to quit their "addiction".

There may be men who are very controlling and can change themselves. However, for most people, once they are nostalgic for such a place, it is difficult to get out of it. In other words, I didn't go for a few days, and my hands were itchy.

Such a man is actually quite frightening, once you marry such a man, you may not have a happy life in this life, and it will make your life more and more difficult.

In reality, there are always some men, especially those who are nostalgic for places where they eat and drink. This is different from being involved in the wine market, where some people eat and drink just to talk about business, in other words, to make friends. Some men are not, they just eat and drink nonsense, in the final analysis, in order to satisfy themselves in it.

To put it bluntly, I like to eat and don't do business.

As a woman, you must avoid such men. It is especially worth mentioning that the vulgarity of men in this kind of body has long depended on the fact that men will not have any great future. It is also possible to show "in the nest", shouting at home, and going out in front of outsiders, which is all nodding and being kind.

In short, once you are with such a man, life is very sad and happy.

In reality, there are some men who are always nostalgic for some entertainment venues. For example, KTV for singing, Di Bar for dancing, video game city for playing games, etc. Generally, men who are immersed in such places will go to such places to play once they are rich, and they should also avoid them.

Such a man will indulge unscrupulously in these aspects of playing games, and he will also become selfish and enjoyable, regardless of the feelings of others. Once you fall in love with such a man, you will talk very hard about falling in love, and you will often become a victim of love.

Very attentive man; Very short-tempered men who are always prone to tantrums; A man who is very timid and scared; Men without assertiveness and judgment; It's not independent at all.,And the man who takes and likes to spend girls' money is excited.。

There is no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, procrastination in doing things, no smile in the mouth, no self-motivation in Chazhou, such a man is better not to provoke, because it is difficult to get out of provoking such a man.

I think it's best not to choose the kind of boy who has a tendency to domestic violence and is not very good-tempered, because you can't control such a person.

Either they have a particularly good personality, or they are particularly kind, or they are particularly filial, or they are particularly beautiful, or they are particularly attractive, these people will be particularly attractive, and they will not make men resist.