What do you think of Chen Yihan s dozens of loves? Have you found true love now?

As Chen Yihan said: "What is bravery? For me, dare to love and sweat regardless of my body, dare to be hated, dare to accept the facts, dare to live quickly alone, dare to be two people who are not afraid of injury, dare to get up without hesitation, dare to do what I say, dare to take a cold shower in winter......There are many, many more, but what I really insist on the most is to have the courage to be loved and abandoned.

will know what kind of lover you want, what kind of love you want, rich and handsome, warm men, and little fresh meat are just a label, and we love all the fresh people under the label. We are accustomed to what others do and I do it, and we never ask why. If someone else falls in love, I will fall in love, if someone else gets married, I will also get married, and if someone else has a house or a car, I must also buy a house and a car.

Everyone in the society is an assembly line product, only pay attention to alignment and disrespect for themselves, most people do not understand the meaning of marriage and walk into the cage, and finally build a siege, the scenery in front of people, and sadness in the back.

Bright, optimistic, and energetic, as if there is a perpetual motion machine on his body, he is full of positive energy in everything he does. treats love with a smile and is not pretentious, so you can face it with a smile when love leaves. Girls who love to laugh will not be bad luck.

It's Chen Yihan! Many people are easy to think that Chen Yihan is a shy and obedient girl because of her innocent appearance: she doesn't dare to speak loudly, she blushes when she talks to boys, and she won't do anything out of the ordinary.

People are just falling in love, and your style of life is a bit closed. I really like Chen Yihan's above, Zhou Xun I remember many people have said that she is a person with a true temperament and is straightforward. And Chen Yihan, you can take a look at her WB, she would choose to record in a handstand every time she went to a place before, she loves sports and is very brave.

It's right that they have the courage to pursue their own love, and there are more than a lot of people who fall in love.

Chen Yihan once said that he was afraid that he would not be in love, and frankly admitted that he would casually associate with someone because he wanted to fall in love, and the dating time ranged from 3 months to 3 years, and the object was already uncountable. With a daring personality and a bold personality, she basically had a good relationship with her ex after breaking up, and even formed an "ex-boyfriend tour group", and even boasted that she could form a basketball team, and at that time she also joked that her goal was to form a football team.

Chen Yihan also explained that the reason why he couldn't stop falling in love, and even became addicted to love, was because "I'm too afraid of being alone, and not having a lover will make me panic." Many people don't know that she was also a member of the "Vampire Endless Demand". The father has bad habits, and if he loses, he wants his daughter to pay off his debts; obviously has no money, and likes to show off outside, showing off that her daughter will make millions of red envelopes during the New Year.

In the years when his father did not change, Chen Yihan's only outlet was to plunge into love. When she is in love, she never shows affection or publicity; After breaking up, he never took out his love history to talk about things, leaving room for himself and the other party to be friends.

Chen Yihan is burdened with the burden of his father, and it is normal and understandable to want to devote himself to love in order to absorb some warmth, but "because I am afraid that there will be no love to talk about, I even gave up" rather lack than excess", as long as people who can produce sparks are willing to try. "This approach is a bit of a panic.

Chen Yihan is a more controversial actress, although Chen Yihan is married to her current husband, many people still think that Chen Yihan does not take feelings seriously, and Chen Yihan has talked about 47 boyfriends, such a view of feelings makes many people feel incredible. It is understandable to think that Chen Yihan's psychology is understandable, Chen Yihan did not receive the love of his parents when he was a child, so he had a big gap in his heart when he grew up, and he was a girl who lacked love, so he needed to keep falling in love to enrich his heart. <>

Although Chen Yihan had a more tragic childhood, Chen Yihan's behavior is still relatively free, although he has experienced a lot of failed relationships, Chen Yihan can always continue the next relationship without distraction, and it seems that he was not hurt a lot in the previous relationship, which is also very admirable, after all, such a woman is rare. Chen Yihan may not know what he really wants, which is also a sad point, which also makes Chen Yihan suffer a lot of criticism and receive a lot of scolding. <>

If people don't have a good childhood, then they will grow up and continue to acquire other things to enrich their hearts, which is a psychological defect. People always want to get what they don't have, and there are a lot of tribulations in the chase, but in the process, people are exercised in all aspects. Everyone does not have the right to choose their parents, and some parents do not take responsibility for raising them, which will naturally cause a lot of harm to the child, and it will also affect the child's personality and affect all aspects of the child.

Chen Yihan regards love as a hobby, which is also something that many people can't understand, after all, everyone has different experiences and naturally has different ideas about feelings. Chen Yihan is a very insecure girl, so she hopes that someone can always be by her side and bring great happiness to herself. I think that people can't stand on the moral high ground and accuse others at will, and they need to be themselves.

I hate this kind of emotional outlook, I feel irresponsible, and I'm also a half-hearted person who doesn't treat a person wholeheartedly.

I can understand it, because we must find the right person when we are looking for a partner, and if it is not suitable, we must immediately separate and stop the loss in time.

I think this view of love is really unacceptable, we have to choose a suitable one when we fall in love, rather than changing partners all the time.

Chen Yihan's emotional outlook revealed after marriage is that I am very sweet and happy. As long as it's you at the end, it doesn't matter if it's late. After marriage, Chen Yihan and her husband Xu Fuxiang appeared in the second season of "Happiness Trio", but they were envied by netizens to "I also want such a husband".

Chen Yihan is really spoiled as a princess. But in fact, her understanding of feelings and marriage is no longer the domineering and crazy kind of idol dramas. On the contrary, she has her own way of maintaining her relationship:

You have to treat each other with respect. No one takes anything for granted, you have to always say thank you and sorry. ”

As us, how can we be sure that we have met the right person?

First of all, we need to realize that people's emotional intelligence and IQ are hierarchical. This is not directly related to age, if your EQ and IQ are above the person you meet, then you can easily understand the other party's various circumstances and unspeakable secrets, and the other party will quickly have a feeling that you have met a confidant, and you are just a condescending look down on him.

In the same way, if your IQ and EQ are below the other person, then he will easily read your heart, echo your feelings, make you feel relaxed and comfortable, and have all kinds of reverie, when in fact it is just his downward tolerance. So what if two people's IQ and EQ happen to be at the same level? Although this probability is very small, it is undeniable that he still exists, which is what I understand as the so-called "true love" appeared, because at this time, we are evenly matched, silently competing, guessing each other, our same frequency, will make each other feel subtle, if the beauty of separation.

But in real life, it is easy for us to lose and give up on each other in this mutual temptation. That's why everyone feels that it's so difficult to meet true love, in fact, it's not that complicated, as long as we are clear about what we want and learn to cherish it, I believe that true love will get closer and closer to us.

What you say, the other party will be willing to listen, what you ask the other party to do, he will do it unconditionally, and he will put you first.

Whether it's true love or not sometimes only takes one look. If you confirm it, you are the right person. Two people who truly love each other must have the same opinion and the same three views. There is always more tacit understanding than difficulty.

If you meet someone you like, you'll be thinking about him all the time, and you'll want to see him all the time.

If you want to meet true love, then first of all, the other party must love yourself very much, care about yourself very much, and two people have a common language together, so that it is true feelings.

I think true love is when two people feel very happy together, take care of each other, support each other, solve difficulties together, and share happy things with each other, I think this is true love.

I don't think too much or too little love is not good for a marriage.

1. Too many times of love is not conducive to marriage.

People's energy is limited, if you have talked about too many times in love in your youth, then this person's career must not be very successful, people who love brains are generally emotional people, and if you want to achieve great success in society, you need to be rational. When managing a marriage, too many times of love will also cause a certain dilemma, first of all, from the spouse's side, even if the spouse doesn't care too much, after being known by friends, this love experience will become a point where everyone attacks you together, after all, now the society's requirements for women are still as reserved as possible, as much as possible to be a good wife and mother, too many times of love will make people feel frivolous. There are too many things that people can't control, especially the gossip of others, don't underestimate this, where there are people, it is a small society, in a society composed of people, three people become horses, and other people's words are easy to slander you.

2. Too few times of love is not good for marriage.

Zhang Ailing said that it is necessary to become famous as soon as possible, I think it is the same when you fall in love, you need to talk about a real love when you are the least stressed and the most relaxed, love at that time is very pure, and there is no purpose just because I like you. A person who has been in love for a few times may also be uncertain when he gets married, and after getting married, maybe he will know that this person is not the person he wants the most, or after getting married, he suddenly met a person who she completely fits the image of Prince Charming, and it is a bit too expensive to wake up at this time.

So I still feel like I've been in love two or three times and know what kind of guy I really needThis image is not to stay on the fantasy, it is really suitable to feel with your heart, and finally meet the most suitable person at the right time and place, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, and marriage is even more so, and cherish it, marriage can be better.

It should be, after all, after so many relationships, he must be a veteran, and he has a better understanding of feelings.

A woman who has more love experience may understand men better, but she will not know more about marriage, and generally people who are happier in marriage will understand marriage better.

I think such people don't understand marriage even more, because if you have too much love experience, it may mean that every relationship is careless.

The fact that Chen Yihan has had 47 boyfriends does not exist, it is simply a rumor and a fake.

Haven't had a boyfriend for 47 yet, it's just a rumor, it's just hype.

Chen Yihan really had at least 47 boyfriends, and finally didn't want to play anymore, so she married her current husband and had children.

I don't think Chen Yihan has really had 47 boyfriends, although she has been in a lot of relationships before, but she doesn't have so many.

does not support Chen Yihan's concept of love.

Although she is known as a young girl, she always expresses herself with her so-called true temperament. But in essence, he is a selfish person who only thinks about himself. She keeps changing boyfriends, just because it's fun and boring.

And she doesn't care about the man's feelings at all, she only cares about her own happiness and goes crazy.

Such a view of love is poison in **. Not to mention that she always goes to be a junior for others. If it were a different person, he might have been scolded a long time ago. It was because of her cute appearance and energetic appearance that people forgave her. Maybe this is the appearance is justice.

The biggest problem with Chen Yihan's concept of love is that as long as I am happy, the other party can do whatever it takes. If I'm happy, you have to be nice to me, whether you have a girlfriend or not. If I want to be happy, you have to be happy with me. If I'm not happy, you have to make me happy.

This kind of behavior of completely ignoring the other party is like a wayward child, and the whole world has to follow her steps and follow her heart.

In other words, she is not really temperamental, but simply self-centered, and thinks that everyone has to revolve around her.

This deformed view of love is collectively called a work, but a masterpiece within a work. Something that ordinary people can't stand to do.

In fact, there is no love history to some extent, but a love law like Chen Yihan who has no sense of responsibility and no responsibility is really terrible.