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Yes, many men say that a woman's heart is like a needle under the sea, which cannot be touched or guessed, but in fact, men sometimes like to express their thoughts euphemistically. When you don't love it, you won't say things like "break up" very directly, because many men are reluctant to be the one who takes the initiative to break up in the relationship.
Even if you don't love it anymore and have another woman in your heart, you will only use other ways to force the woman to take the initiative to break up. For example, when you are tired of your relationship, you will say, "Calm down for a while." If you really give the other party time to calm down, thinking that sooner or later you will find out that you are good, then you are too stupid, the man said "calm down for a while", in fact, it means a breakup.
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He decided to leave you, but he didn't want to break up directly, and he was afraid that you would be stalked, so he used each other as an excuse to calm each other down
The man really wants to break up with you, but he doesn't want to tell you directly, for fear of hurting you. So give each other some time to calm down, maybe wait for you to calm down before mentioning the breakup, and you will feel better. In this case, the guy has a slight sense of guilt about the breakup and is still taking care of your feelings.
But if you blindly pester him and put pressure on him, it will reduce his guilt and speed up the breakup. Or, he just wants to drag it out like this, until you can't stand it anymore and take the initiative to break up, then he can not bear any responsibility.
A few methods: 1. Don't harass the other party during the cooling-off period.
Calm down, as the name suggests, is to calm down. During this period, don't harass the other party, don't ask the other party to get back together, don't put pressure on the other party, don't force the other party to make decisions; Don't intimidate the other party, and don't find friends and relatives to persuade the other party, what the other party needs is to be calm!
2. Reflect on the reasons for the breakup and your own problems.
During this time, don't do useless redemption, because if you don't realize the reason for the breakup and can't find where his heart knot is, any redemption you do will have no effect.
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If you haven't had true love, you may break up; If he is truly in love, he needs time to adjust himself and will not break up.
This mainly depends on what you know about him, if you really love you, then your boyfriend says to calm down, it's not that your boyfriend wants to break up, but because your boyfriend has grown. has become very mature in thinking, knowing that the problem cannot be solved by quarrelling; That's why both parties will calm down, and then resolve the dispute between the two couples. However, if you can't feel his love for you in some small things in your daily life, then it may be that calming down means breaking up.
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Know what you're doing wrong.
The first step to making up for a mistake is to know that you are wrong. Sit down, think about it, analyze your feelings, and think about when your relationship starts to slip. Then ask yourself if you're willing to salvage the relationship, and if you want to succeed, remember that you have to know how to compromise and change.
If you still love him, then wait for him to understand him, don't bother him, and then try to use this time to change yourself, make yourself perfect and fresh, and then let him come back to you, if you don't love him anymore, then end it early.
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I think it represents a precursor to a breakup, because no boy will hold back and not contact the person he likes, if the boy says calm down for a while, then it is a cold and violent precursor to a breakup, so girls must be mentally prepared for a breakup when they encounter this situation again.
1. Calm down for a period of time is a precursor to a breakup.
In fact, there are many couples who break up because the other party proposes to calm down for a period of time, and in the end, the two of them are gone, and they break up with each other by default. Love is the two sides are connected to each other, share with each other, daily life also talk to each other, if someone between the two parties proposes to calm down for a period of time, then the couple has less emotional exchange feelings, and it will gradually fade, and such a relationship is difficult to maintain, over time is to break up, so the boyfriend proposes to calm down for a period of time, which proves that the boyfriend no longer wants to maintain this relationship, and hopes to break up in this way.
Second, calmness is the embodiment of love.
If your boyfriend asks you to calm down for a period of time, it proves that in this relationship, the boy has a mentality of giving up, but he is embarrassed to say it because of the feelings, so he will put forward the statement of calmness in this form to let the girl experience life without the boy by her side, and gradually the relationship between the two will become weaker and weaker. And this is a manifestation of boy's dislove, because if a boy who loves you very much, he is reluctant and will not have no contact with you, he will want to be by your side all the time, after all, no one who loves each other can't help but not look for each other, if you can't help it, it proves that you don't love. From this, it can be seen that the boyfriend said that he wanted to calm down for a while, which means breaking up.
3. Saying that calming down for a while for no reason represents a breakup.
If a boy says calm down to his girlfriend for a while because of work pressure or a lot of things to deal with, then it shouldn't mean to break up, but if in normal life, a boy says to a girl to be calm, it can be seen that it means to break up, which is just a euphemism for him to mention the breakup in another language. Therefore, girls must be psychologically prepared for a breakup.
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When a boy proposes to break up with his girlfriend, he generally does not consider directly letting his girlfriend calm down for a while, but directly breaks up with his girlfriend in front of him. Since both people want to calm down for a while, calming down will not hurt the feelings of two people for a couple, but will go through a period of calm. As a result, the relationship between the two people will be considered, and they will also think about whether the two people are suitable for being together, and if they are not suitable, they can also consider breaking up, after all, the couple's personality together is very important.
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It does mean a breakup, and the boy may have no love for you, and it is almost difficult to get back a boy in this case.
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It's not that he wants to break up, it's just that he wants to give each other enough personal space, so that both of them can start to think about whether they are suitable to be together.
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It may be that he wants to break up with you, but it will give you a buffer for a while. So I said something that you couldn't figure out.
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Hello answer, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Hello, the man said calm means that he really wants to be calm with you, men and women are different. So it's possible that you want to break up.
Question: We've been calm for ten days, and it's not a breakup.
The question was that he said calmly, if I can't take the initiative to contact him, then what should I do.
What to do in this situation.
Can I say something, I've been asking you for a long time.
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Calm down and calm down does not necessarily mean that you want to break up, but after a quarrel with each other, if you continue to get along, the conflict will be more intensified, and calming down and then apologizing to the other party will further develop.
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When a man says we calm down for a while, 90% means to break up. Because men are rational animals, under normal circumstances, they will not be as emotional as girls, and they will be happy and unhappy. The man is after thinking calmly, feeling that you are not suitable in all aspects, and there is no possibility of going down to say this, and this man is still a well-bred person, knowing that he will save face for girls, and he will not directly say that he will break up, and he will not directly ignore it.
It's a shame. It must have been this girl who made too much of a mistake and broke a man's heart to make such a decision.
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When a man says we calm down for a while, it doesn't mean a breakup. Just because of a few quarrels and feeling tired, let everyone calm down for a few days and see how to solve the relationship between the two parties, and not necessarily break up.
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No, he may really want to calm down, he doesn't want to make some decisions on impulse, if he really wants to break up with you, he will say the breakup right away, instead of saying calm down for a while, he is also thinking about some problems.
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Not necessarily, generally if the boy proposes to calm down for a period of time, then in this case, it is very likely that the boy really wants to calm down and seriously consider how the relationship between you should develop.
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Not necessarily, it can only be said that what he has experienced during this time has annoyed him, and he wants to calm down by himself, and then make a decision to see if it is suitable to be together.
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This man said that we calm down for a while, which means stop quarrelling, and his words also mean that everyone is not calm and irrational when they quarrel, and he doesn't want to quarrel, so he asks himself to calm down with you, which can also be understood as a truce, not necessarily just wanting to break up, but he doesn't want to quarrel anymore is absolute!
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In fact, calming down for a while is already a breakup. Because if two people can really solve this problem, then they must be unwilling to leave each other, unwilling to separate, and unwilling to calm each other, because after calming down, in fact, two people have already thought very clearly, it is impossible to be together, so if two people can say calm down for a while, they are basically ready to let go of each other.
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Not necessarily, depending on the actual performance!
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When a man says let's calm down for a while, doesn't it mean a breakup? This is not necessarily, because he said that when we calm down for a while, we love each other very deeply. If he said to break up, he should have said at the time that it was worth breaking up, such a person.
New to the kids. Because after all, if you have feelings, I will say this if you don't have feelings.
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Lovers quarrel and the man says let's calm down for a while. In fact, this is a man's excuse. It shows that your three views do not agree, so there is no way but to say cold. Recently. It's about to break up.
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Yes, eighty percent of them are precursors to a breakup.
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I think that when a man says something like this, it means that he is cold to you, and there is a possibility of breaking up! A man is a sign of disrespect for you.
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It's definitely not like this, maybe I just want the two of you to calm down for a while, so that you can think about it well, and you can calmly deal with such a problem, and I don't want to break up with you.
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When a man says that we are calm and have a sense of breaking up, unless there is another black swan event that changes his opinion of girls, he will get back together.
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Personally, I feel that if a boy says that he is calm for a while, it does not mean that he has broken up, and it may not feel appropriate. Find a suitable one, and then feel that you are really not suitable and then break up with you.
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Not necessarily, both sides calm each other, think about their own right and wrong, and when the time comes, you will know the result.
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With this meaning, the most important thing is to cool down an emotion of both of you, deeply consider whether the personalities of the two of you are suitable, live together for a long time, this is the most important thing, others don't say that the twisted melon is not sweet, so the mentality is the fundamental that determines the two of you to go on.
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When a man says you calm down for a while, does it mean that you want to break up? I think when a man says this, it doesn't actually mean a breakup, it's just that he doesn't want to be entangled with you all the time about this matter, so that's how it is.
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It's almost the same as breaking up, maybe you're tired of quarreling, or you want everyone to really calm down for a while.
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When love meets life, there will be a lot of disagreements and difficulties, and in the face of these difficulties, the two parties in love will often have disputes and sometimes quarrels. Even when he is particularly angry, he will say the words of breaking up. At this difficult node, girls tend to be more emotional and will be easy to say some radical words, while boys tend to be more rational, and sometimes propose that everyone calm down for a while, which is actually a step down for both parties, and wait until everyone calms down and will not say so many hurtful words, and then the relationship can be reconciled.
But the way girls understand it will be different, and such words will be perceived by girls as a boy wanting to break up, so the differences will be further deepened. In fact, the calm down here for a while is just to ease the originally very tense atmosphere, and I don't really want to break up.
In actual emotional life, the process of quarreling is originally a process of mutual injury, which is the best way to temporarily separate everyone for a period of time, in this process the original very impatient mood will slowly cool down, so that we can rationally look at the differences that have been generated, and work in the opposite direction to resolve these differences. Therefore, it is a very good practice to calm down for a while in the process of quarreling, and it may be that the girl will think that the boy is going to break up when she doesn't understand, but the final result will prove that this statement is just a means to ease the atmosphere.
From another point of view, the boy said that calming down for a while is not a breakup, which is based on the sincere relationship between the boy and the girl, and they also love each other deeply. If two people don't particularly like each other in the first place, and have even expressed their willingness to break up many times, a period of calm at this time really represents a prelude to a breakup.
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