Is it really happy after a breakup, and will it be unhappy for a while after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Unhappiness and even pain. Unless you haven't fallen into a mad love and haven't poured your true feelings into him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes. It doesn't matter if you've ever been in love or not.

    Be happy after a breakup.

    Happiness is the only option.

    After the breakup, your sadness, your sadness.

    There will be no one to share it with you.

    Look at the point and treat it happily.

    Others say that crying is also a day, laughing is also a day, the same day, how will you choose to spend this day?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't break up, you will be unhappy, and after a breakup, you must know how to do the end, and you will naturally be happy if you have a new beginning.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What do you think? Breaking up is painful for both yourself and him, because after all, there are so many good memories of being together.

    But we have to face the reality at the same time, since we are separated, it is to give ourselves and each other a chance to seriously find our own happiness, isn't it?

    Since we are tired of each other, then breaking up is a relief, it will be painful at first, but slowly it will get better, time can ** all wounds.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I used to be as confused as you, it was really a great blow to me at that time, I missed him day and night, I cried inadvertently when I thought about it, I couldn't sleep at night, and I often ran to a corner where no one was there and cried. Hit him ** and he wanted me to forget about him, find someone better than him, and said that I didn't deserve him like this, and he was sorry for me. But I'm still in a lot of pain.,I want to cry when I dial his **.,I was already in tears before I spoke.,I pretended to be very happy and asked him how his love life was recently.。。。

    I still think of him a lot, but not as strongly as I used to ... I think the best healing medicine still takes time. You can try to be with another person, the person you love doesn't love you anymore, and no matter how hard you try, you can't get her heart back...

    That's all we can do, we have no choice! ~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Absolutely. There will be a sense of loss in the last few days after a breakup.

    I often think about it when I sleep at night.

    But time will dilute everything.

    It's not forgetting.

    It's just not so sad anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After a breakup, you will be in pain, you will miss, you will cry, and after a long time, the memories will be diluted, and slowly you will be relieved, and there will be a new beginning, and the past is just good memories.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you have true love, you will not be happy, and wait for time to dilute everything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course not! It will be painful, it will be sad, it will regret, as long as you move the true feelings, it is impossible to forget it easily.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you have given real feelings, you should not be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's very free after a breakup, but it's also lonely and lonely, and sometimes when you see someone else as a couple, you will suddenly miss your previous girlfriend, so if you have a girlfriend, you should cherish him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's painful to be together, and breaking up is a relief, and vice versa.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't love, you'll be truly happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, people have to look forward. Slowly learn to let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just adjust yourself.

    Of course the mentality will be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How can you be happy.

    We have had fond memories of each other before.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you see him with another person, you feel super sour in your heart! Generally, when they are separated, they act like strangers, and hide when they see each other. I don't want the other person to see me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If both parties are in pain together, breaking up is a relief.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Breaking up isn't the only way to make you happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Find your new home.

    You'll be happy in a few days.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe adjust yourself a bit.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For this problem, it is certain that you will be very unhappy for a while after a breakup. After all, a breakup, for whatever reason, is a bad thing. There will always be times when I am sad and sad.

    When women choose a partner, everyone will think that it must be based on the criterion of being rich and handsome.

    In fact, when women judge a relationship, they often consider whether this person is suitable for themselves, and giving such a judgment requires a lot of complex perceptions and standards.

    In this era, when the vast majority of women choose men, they not only need material requirements, but also need spiritual harmony and can give themselves positive and enterprising guidance.

    Choosing a partner is equivalent to choosing the state and a way of life in the second half of your life.

    With people who have a sunny mentality and are more positive, together, you will be sunny every day, work hard, and gain a lot of energy full of vitality, on the contrary, with a negative person, you will be depressed and desolate every day.

    My dorm friend's boyfriend is a particularly negative energy person, he is restless every day, everyone goes to eat together, he will lose his temper and scold because the food is not served in time, and he will also be spicy and salty, he will burst into foul mouth, complain about the time of a meal, and spend the whole lunch time in his noise.

    Another time, everyone drove out to play together, there would be traffic jams on the road, he would scold all the way, especially disappointed, quarreled with my friend, never compromised, played a game can lose his temper for a day, shirk responsibility when encountering things, and when he encounters problems, he is not trying to solve the problem, but how to escape, as if he is unhappy every day, and the whole world is sorry for him.

    So my friend is also discouraged, depressed, and unhappy every day. Later, my friend couldn't stand it anymore and separated.

    When I met a boyfriend, it was completely different from the previous one, this boy was positive, optimistic, with him, happy and hard work every day, and his state was getting better and brighter day by day.

    When everyone chats together, she will say very emotionally that it is really important for two people to be happy or unhappy together. When you are with him, whether you have more smiles or more tears, you have to consider it yourself.

    With a person with positive energy, even if life is full of ups and downs, as long as two people face it positively, no matter how hard and tired they are, they will have the courage and energy to persevere.

    Positive energy represents a state of mind full of sunshine. It is like a magnetic field that gives a powerful attraction to the other person's heart. Everyone has energy in them.

    Optimistic, positive, and uplifting people, full of enthusiasm, hope and faith. Such people have a positive magnetic field, and when we communicate with them, we will feel happy, uplifted, and trusting.

    The ancients had a saying: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." Energy is contagious, and if you want to make a difference, if you want to make a difference, then the first thing to do is to approach people who are full of positive energy, because they can make you realize that you are still young, that you are lucky, and that your life is still full of hope.

    So, this is a normal phenomenon.

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