Is it necessary to see each other for the last time after a breakup?

Updated on society 2024-07-11
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After breaking up, the two of them can meet and say goodbye, so they can get together and disperse, so that there is a beginning and an end. After all, the two people used to be together, loved each other very much, and had a relationship, if they were separated, it was impossible to say that they were like enemies, so this kind of relationship can still be maintained.

    Although two people can't be a couple, they can still be friends, which is equivalent to a kind of politeness to friends, they can talk to each other, give each other a blessing, hope that she will have a better future, meet each other for the last time, and let yourself have no regrets about this relationship.

    It depends on the situation, if everyone doesn't like each other and they break up peacefully, it's okay to meet each other. If it is a unilateral breakup, you don't like him anymore, or he doesn't like you, there is no need to meet, which is good for the person who is forced to break up, this is a long pain is better than a short pain.

    If you still love him and he still loves you, it will be necessary to redeem it.

    For a breakup without feelings, it's better not to go to the meeting, it's useless.

    No. Hello, from the moment of the breakup, the relationship is destined to have no results, so you don't need to see the last side after the breakup, and you don't need to say goodbye well.

    1. Instead of not being able to let go of this relationship all day long and being sad about it, it is better to spend time on changing yourself and making yourself excellent, so that the road of love and career will become smooth, and when you really have a new love, the so-called can't let go and let go.

    2. Don't hurt yourself anymore A relationship is scarred and can't go back to the past, don't think too beautifully, the fact is that the most cruel ending you can think of is waiting for you, whether a person has feelings for you or not You can feel it, sooner or later you have to let go. So, let those who don't know how to cherish our good go, free and easy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I feel necessary. Because when I saw the last face, I talked about all the questions that should be said, and it can be regarded as an end to my relationship. This is an explanation to oneself and an explanation to the other party.

    It can be regarded as a final goodbye to this relationship, and after such a formal goodbye, no one should be embarrassed, and no one should look back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, it is okay to say goodbye to the last side after the breakup, after all, it is necessary to draw a happy end to this relationship, although it may be strangers in the future, but see you one last time, hug again one last time, and say goodbye well!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After the breakup, of course, there is a need to meet for the last time, because you can say goodbye at this time, otherwise you may leave some regrets in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since they all broke up, I personally don't feel the need to see each other for the last time, and if we break up, we will break up. What's the use of meeting again? On the contrary, meeting again at this time will make both parties even more awkward.

    So I personally think that after the breakup, there is no need to see the last face. The last side at this time is no longer meaningful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think that if two people have broken up, there is actually no need to see each other for the last time, because there is no point anymore, so what difference does it make if you don't see each other? Meet two people for a meal, and then chat very awkwardly for some days, in fact, I don't think there's any point, there's no need to meet again, even ordinary friends can't do it, why do you still meet?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are sure that you want to choose to break up, there is no need to see you for the last time. Because if you see the last person, it will only make the two people feel uncomfortable inside, or you can think of the happy time and happiness of the two people together, so don't meet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After a breakup, it is generally necessary to see each other for the last time and explain things clearly, so as not to cause misunderstandings, so that there is an explanation for both people!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's necessary, if you really think clearly and decide to break up, I don't think there is any need to see the last side, and the decision to break up must go through several entanglements in the heart before you finally want to give up this relationship, as the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, since you have made up your mind, goodbye to the last side has no other benefits except to increase each other's sadness, so forget about each other. Of course, I want to play a breakup cannon to say otherwise. ‍‍

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's actually okay to see the last side after a breakup, and see the last side after a breakup, and go their separate ways in the future. In this way, there will be a new life, which can be regarded as a confession of the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, after the breakup, if you still want to give the other party a chance to redeem, then it is necessary to see the last side, otherwise it is not necessary.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether you can see each other for the last time after the breakup mainly depends on the negotiation between the two of you, if you feel that there is such a need or it is better to meet each other, maybe you will save each other after seeing this side.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the breakup, there is no need to see the last face, because seeing one side is not necessarily the last face, although the world is very large, it is easy for two people to meet.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's necessary, because both of them have already broken up, so what if we see each other for the last time? It's just to add to the troubles, it's better to do it crisply, never to see it again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    They have already broken up, so there is no need to see each other again, because there is no common topic, it will be very embarrassing, and breaking up is like a stranger, it is better to forget it completely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't see each other for the last time after you break up. I don't think there's any need to see each other again, now that we've broken up, you two should be completely separated. If you really want to meet, you won't break up, so you should think carefully about this issue when it's good, and breaking up is not just a matter of splitting up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are two sides to this question: if the relationship between the two is very deep, they will not break up because of trivial things, since they have broken up, there is no need to have feelings, therefore, there is no need to see the last side after the breakup; After the two break up, if one party is soft-hearted and has a good nostalgia for getting along, there is an idea, at this time, they will want to confide in each other, and there is no need to be an enemy after breaking up, and they can see each other for the last time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to see one last person. chose to break up, there is no need to meet again, love has come to an end, it is meaningless to see or not to see, so why bother to see the last side and leave deeper harm to each other?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think there's any need to see each other again after a breakup. In the future, they will each live their own way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think it's necessary, what do you say when you meet, will both parties be sad, maybe people have come out, and you will only make people more sad.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary.

    Because the two have broken up and have nothing to do with it, it is superfluous to meet again.

    It's useless to dwell on it, so it's still important to be clear about your attitude.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on the wishes of both of you, if the trouble is ugly, then there is no need to see each other for the last time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think there's any need to see the last person after the breakup, and it's best to make it clear before breaking up if you have any problems.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no need to build a last face, unless you really can't let go of him, and you still have nostalgia for him, then you can meet once, so that you don't have any regrets, if you really break up, it's impossible to get back together, so it's easy not to meet, which will make you more reluctant, and even have more regrets.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello, happy to answer your questions, since the breakup has been broken. This is the end of everything that has been done before. What is the difference between seeing and not seeing? Choose to leave silently, and choose to be okay from now on. It's the best, don't do it again.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think it's necessary to see this last side, because we have already broken up, so let each other break off cleanly, seeing this last side will only break my own connection, and also destroy my feelings.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, if both parties decide to see each other for the last time, maybe they still have nostalgia for this relationship and want to save it. Don't say anything about breaking up, have a sense of ceremony, see the last side, say goodbye or something like that. A breakup is a breakup, don't procrastinate, delay yourself and others.

    When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed.

    Now that the decision has been made to separate, it is better to be chic.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There's no need, they've all broken up, what are you still nostalgic for, in fact, it's already the last time when you break up, and what you need to say and do can be done, and you don't need to have the last meeting again.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is necessary.

    Deciding to break up is just to determine the behavior, but the heart is not saying that a breakup can be relieved, so seeing the last side is a kind of relief, a psychological certainty, a kind of comfort that has been taken seriously in this relationship, and the last time I feel her feeling by his side, so as not to affect the future relationship.

    Meeting and saying that you break up is the last bit of respect for this relationship and each other, after all, if you can look into each other's eyes and calmly say that you break up, then it can be regarded as an iron determination to end this relationship and say goodbye to the past sonorously.

    How to deal with a breakup:

    Pick the right moment to break up. Choose the moment when you want to decide to break up, don't hit the other person when they are very happy, or the other person is busy with something very important, and this is not the right time to talk about breaking up. To choose when the other party has no important work to perform.

    Don't see each other at the beginning of the breakup. Just after breaking up, it's better for two people not to meet, because they have broken up, and there is no point in meeting, if they meet by chance on the street, it's okay to smile at each other.

    The party who has been broken up cannot retaliate. Since the relationship has come to an end, they should let go of each other, although they have broken up, after all, two people have also been together, and they can be regarded as people with fate, and the party who has been broken up cannot retaliate against each other because of a bad mood.

    A breakup is a breakup, don't drag your feet. After the breakup, don't pester the other party anymore, don't find all kinds of reasons to meet the other party again, it doesn't make any sense, it can only make the other party hate you more and think you're boring.

    Be honest with each other. When you want to break up with the other person, you should also face the other person sincerely, always maintain respect for the other party, take into account the feelings of the other party, do not slander the other party, and always maintain respect for the other party.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I feel that before breaking up, I should see each other for the last time and my past, say goodbye, get together and disperse, after all, two people have loved each other, and this is also to understand their feelings.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The question of whether to see each other one last time before breaking up? Everyone is different, but my personal opinion, since we all broke up, don't see each other for the last time.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It doesn't matter if you don't see the last side before you break up. So both of them are going to break up, and in fact, there is not much affection anymore. There is no need to see the last side at all. I don't think it's good, so it's better to let each other leave a better impression.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Before breaking up, if you are hesitating, you can try to meet one last person, and it is more important to communicate clearly than regret later.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You should see each other for the last time, and tomorrow you have to explain everything before, and after you make it clear, the two of you will not be in touch, which is good. After separation, it is necessary to do not disturb each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Two people who don't love each other don't care about each other anymore, and they don't care about each other, so there is no need to continue to meet, and everything about each other doesn't need to be cared about anymore and then understood!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Two days ago, a friend chatted with me and said that he broke up with his girlfriend, he himself was in Hangzhou, and his girlfriend came from Shanghai to see him for the last time, and asked me what should I do now, to see him or not?

    To see or not to see, it is nothing more than a multiple-choice question, and there is a candidate A and a person B, which will not be discussed here. But why do you want to see the last one, it's because of the sense of ritual at work.

    The sense of ritual, the fox in "The Little Prince" says that "it is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments". I would like to start by talking about "ritual" and "feeling".

    When it comes to rituals, I think about it, we all live under various rituals.

    From the time we are born, there will be a 100-day feast after 100 days to tell our relatives and friends that a new life has come. By the time we were one year old, we had our first birthday.

    From the day we just put on our bags to the moment we step out of the university campus into society, the beginning of school requires an opening ceremony, and graduation requires a graduation ceremony.

    From the time we got married and had children to the time we were dying. A wedding, a funeral.

    Sometimes you have to send a circle of friends before eating, or you feel uncomfortable eating, and eating is the same as not eating.

    "Sense" is the direct response of objective things in the human brain through the sense organs, which is also the manifestation that distinguishes humans from other animals.

    The feeling that the ceremony gives us is formal, slightly serious, and inviolable. It can make people involuntarily integrate into it.

    It's like a funeral, a ritual that is not only for the dead, but also for the living, so that the living can alleviate the pain of the dead and let them continue to live through this form.

    Another example is a college graduation ceremony, so that graduates can involuntarily recall their college life, recall the classes they have skipped away, the courses they have passed, the love they have talked about, and finally use a drunken vomiting to draw an end.

    The necessity of a sense of ritual.

    The necessity of a sense of ritual is real.

    reminds me of an issue of "Wonderful Sayings" where the debate topic is "Is a wedding really necessary". Mr. Ma Dong said during the debate, if you go to work in a company, you have to have a ceremony, and HR will come to talk to you, instead of just finding an empty seat for you to sit down. This kind of ceremony will make you feel that this is a very formal company, and you will be able to behave well in the future.

    Now let's go back and talk about why we want to see the last side after the breakup, this last side is to say that the two are still on the last side of their relationship. The last side is like a year-end summary, and you will begin to recall all kinds of experiences together, happy and unpleasant. The road we have walked together and the scenery we have seen are like giving an explanation to ourselves and this relationship.

    Of course, there will be people who insist on not seeing it, feeling that it is not happy enough to drag the mud and water.

    Here I would like to ask all the guest officers, if it were you and broke up with your lover, would you see each other for the last time? Ask yours

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