How to look at marriage positively

I think there is a fundamental difference between marriage and love, when in love, two people, in addition to emotional needs, for the life planning of both parties, are staying in each other's lives, it can be said that love is a matter of two people, and has nothing to do with the family.

But marriage involves family building.

Regardless of the need for children to intervene after marriage, even if two people live together, in any aspect, it is inseparable from the link of family construction, for women, marriage is not only to find a partner for themselves to respect, but also for the future life can be guaranteed, so that there is a person who can always be with you on the road to the future, if on the road to marriage, there is no good choice of the right person, then it means that this marriage is a failure for her.

In the same way, marriage is only a choice for men, a sense of responsibility and a sense of mission, shouldering the responsibility of maintaining the original family relationship, passing the family to the hands of the next generation, marriage for men, more of a role in family inheritance, but this also means that "marriage" is not as simple as imagined.

The final direction of a marriage depends on the results of the joint operation of both parties, so whether it is for men or women, it is a two-way choice process, in this process, there are many factors that need to be considered, such as character, family conditions, family environment, assets of both parties, occupation and other issues, are the results that people value.

But there are also some people, marriage as a child's play, the view of marriage is still at the personal level, so that many people have suffered a lot of losses after marriage, no matter what reason come together, if you want to manage a good relationship in marriage, in marriage, two people to learn to be humble and understand each other, if there are problems to communicate in a timely manner, if you really get along, or can not be integrated, then timely stop loss may as well be a good choice!

From the perspective of social relations, our parents and elders are basically married people, and the older generation basically chooses to get married because of survival or the times or values, and they hope that we can get married, because marriage is two people working together, and it is more important than a person fighting alone. For example, two people can struggle together for life, someone brings water and medicine when they are sick, and someone soothes their souls when they are in pain. For them, they have chosen marriage, and most of them have chosen marriage, feeling that marriage is a secure mode of survival, so they hope that we will also choose marriage.

Based on the fact that most of the friends around you choose marriage, marriage has also become a choice for most adults.