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In marriage, it is very normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and the elders of two people will generally persuade and not dissuade, and want to adjust the relationship between two people. But if when you quarrel with your wife, your mother-in-law always brokers two people to divorce and wants to provoke the marriage relationship between the two people, in fact, the husband can choose to negotiate and deal with it. This is a family conflict, it is an emotional problem, so it is not a crime.
In fact, the husband can calm down and have a good chat with his wife, if his wife is on his side, the two of them can go to the mother-in-law to have a good talk. <>
After all, the life of two people is between themselves and their wives, and they must not destroy the relationship between themselves and their wives because of other people. First of all, as a husband, you must respect your wife's mother's family, especially her parents, and in such cases, your husband should visit her in person. As a husband, he should take responsibility for the family, and he should also take responsibility if there is a conflict.
You can go and talk to your mother-in-law yourself and figure out why the other party doesn't like you so much. <>
If you really don't do something in your life, you can ask your mother-in-law what mistakes you have, and then correct them in the next life. I believe that as long as I work hard to correct myself, then my mother-in-law will gradually accept herself, and this son-in-law will not stir up the marriage relationship between the two people. After all, most parents want their children to be happy, as long as they can make each other's daughters happy, I believe that the mother-in-law will no longer deliberately make things difficult for herself.
If the other party just wants to break up with her daughter without any purpose, in fact, the wife's choice is particularly important at this time. The husband must not force his wife to choose between himself and her mother, because there is no choice. The husband should be considerate of his wife, because it is the wife who is most uncomfortable in such a situation.
In fact, as long as the wife's heart is on her side, even if the mother-in-law is deliberately making things difficult, it will not have any impact on her life, as long as the husband and wife can live a good life.
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When two people quarrel, as a mother-in-law, don't intervene in the middle, let alone sow discord, after all, you also want your son-in-law and daughter to be in harmony, if you always intervene in the middle, it will make the relationship between the husband and wife worse.
If it is said that when the husband and wife quarrel in the marriage, the mother-in-law will always sow discord next to her, this is not a violation of the law, after all, this is a housework, and housework must be handled by yourself.
Of course, I think that if the two are quarreling, the mother-in-law not only did not persuade peace, but also sowed discord on the side, then as a son-in-law, I think you should think clearly, it is very likely that this mother-in-law does not look down on you at all, otherwise he would not use this way to sow discord to make your relationship worse and worse.
After all, as an elder, he must want the two to be in harmony, and it is impossible to interfere with the two husbands and wives often, and also sow discord.
Of course, it's not that the mother-in-law can't intervene when two people quarrel, of course, because the mother-in-law must also feel sorry for her wife, so sometimes her daughter does something bad, she will also educate, or if you have something bad as a son-in-law, he will also educate, I think this is the right of the elders.
If it is to provoke the anger of both parties, then I think this should have other purposes, or the mother-in-law looks down on her son-in-law, and she doesn't want the two husbands and wives to continue to live at all, or maybe the mother-in-law sees the son-in-law with better conditions, just wants the two of you to quarrel and then it is best to divorce, so that the daughter can find a better one, in fact, there is really this kind of mother-in-law.
I just say that the mother-in-law sows discord, this is not calculated, all you can do may be to sue for divorce, if you don't want to live with your wife anymore, of course, if you still have feelings for this person, then I think you two couples should go out to calm down, or you can go out for a trip, and then the two of you have a good talk.
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It's not illegal, but the mother-in-law's practice is particularly immoral, and it's also very incorrect.
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It is not a violation of the law, because these are not enacted in the relevant laws, so sowing discord is not a violation of the relevant laws.
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Don't break the law, but it's against morality, and as a mother-in-law, don't get involved in things between the little two.
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Theoretically, this situation is only civil in scope. Therefore, it is not illegal for the mother-in-law to sow discord.
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If the male copyist has not been attacked.
Wrong, if the woman goes back to her parents' house for no reason and never comes back, it is the woman's fault, she just doesn't want to live with the man. Considering that there is also a daughter, it is recommended that the man have a good talk with the woman, meet her reasonable requirements, and persuade her to come back and live well.
If she insists on not wanting to live well, then divorce! The man alone cannot sustain the marriage. Such a woman is not worthy of love anymore.
Be brave enough to say no to unbearable living conditions! The most painful thing is not the tragic encounters, but the "acquiescence" to those encounters.
Whenever you build your emotional life on the weaknesses of another person, it means that you are completely in the hands of that person, which means that you are empowering the other person to continue to mess up your own life in this way. You have allowed your past to hold your future hostage.
In fact, we are not victims, and we are always free to make choices about the actions of others and choose our own way of responding. Our society has always placed too much emphasis on the victim mentality and the mindset of condemning others, when in fact we all have an innate ability to be the masters of our own lives.
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This kind of bai woman left decisively, considering that she still has a daughter, so it is better for both parties to talk about it, for the sake of the future of the child version. In order to give the child a complete home, if the woman still has no intention of repenting. That can only be ruthless. This is just a personal opinion. The specific decision is still based on your own situation. I wish the family happiness.
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Don't be impulsive, think about it for the sake of your child.
If you really can't go on any longer, you can only say goodbye.
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I went to my mother-in-law's house to pick it up, and your wife didn't file for divorce. If the woman sues for divorce, the court may not accept it. It won't be a marriage for sale.
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It is difficult to break the official bai
Housework, I don't understand why you du, I just think that zhi marriage is a matter for the two of you
It takes two individuals to operate each other, and the family looks.
There are no strengths or weaknesses in the court, just respect each other and be humble to each other. Take it back and do it again to show her, as long as you are really good to her and be the best person for her in the world, are you still afraid that she will run.
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Tell the other person's parents directly that this behavior is against the law;
Article 1: This Law is the basic norm for marriage and family relations.
Article 2: A marriage system of freedom of marriage, monogamy, and equality between men and women shall be implemented.
Protect the legitimate rights and interests of women, children and the elderly.
Family planning is practiced.
Article 3: Arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.
Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited. Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.
Article 4: Husbands and wives shall be faithful to each other and respect each other; Family members shall respect the old and love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.
**Derivation.
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It's not interesting, you just make it clear, if you want to leave, the child will give it to you. and broke off the relationship with the woman.
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That's amazing.
It's the first time I've heard of such a mother-in-law.
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<>After becoming a mother, my heart became very soft. As long as I want to know about children, I am becoming more and more "glass-hearted". Xin's father said that no one wants to get divorced, but there are many things we can't do and can't stop it.
No matter what, life still has to be lived, but it is unfair for parents to divorce their children.
The next day, Xin's father said to me, "Do you know what the biggest problem in their marriage turned out to be like this? I shook my head and waited for him.
Husbands and wives are generally arguing at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and there is no problem with their relationship between husband and wife, but how can two people get along without a little contradiction and quarrel. There may be arguments over trivial matters in life, but when the quarrel is over, it will be over. Things would have been simple, but with the involvement of parents, the incident would have become quite responsible.
Xin's father analyzed with me very seriously.
I thought it made a lot of sense, and I said approvingly: "Yes, it's obviously not an emotional problem, but now it's so serious that it's going to divorce, is it the woman's mother's problem?" Dad Xin nodded and continued
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