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Yes, people are social animals, and they also need companionship, especially when they are older, they need a companion by their side who can talk and chat with you, eat together, and exercise. When I was sick, there was a person who served tea and water, and it was still very desolate if I was alone.
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Yes, because in his later years, there is no companion and no children around him, and there is no one to talk to, let alone something, and no one cares about him when he is sick, so it is very miserable.
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will be miserable, because in her later years, she is alone, there are no children by her side, and her family is old and has her own life, so she will definitely not be able to take care of her, so she will be very lonely.
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An unmarried woman is still very desolate in her old age, because other old people have children and grandchildren in their later years, and they come back to gather together during the New Year, full of laughter, but there is only one person in the old age of an unmarried woman, and they all seem to feel sad.
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If you don't get married for the rest of your life, then when you are old, there is no one by your side who can accompany you, and you will be lonely for life. It's miserable.
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People who choose not to marry in their lives will actually be very lonely rather than miserable in their old age, after all, ** still attaches great importance to the lonely and widowed elderly. It may be difficult for us to understand the thoughts of those who never marry in their lives, but there are indeed many people in life who choose not to marry for the rest of their lives; Will their old age be miserable? Will it be abandoned forever?
No, in fact, those lonely and widowed old people who have never married in their lives are still valued by the town government, and they will be very lonely but not miserable in their later years.
1. People who do not marry in their lives, have no grandchildren and children, and their later life will indeed be very lonely and lonely, which means that they will have no partner, no children of their own, and even no descendants in their later life! For these people, their old age is absolutely lonely, and it is lonely to have no family and relatives of their own; Perhaps some lucky people will meet "other people's children" who care about them in their lives, and they can also have a life full of love, but most people who choose not to marry in their lives will spend the rest of their lives in a simple house in their later years, lonely and lonely.
Second, the state attaches great importance to the lonely and widowed elderly in life, and will also regularly locate and give subsidies, people who do not marry in their lives are not necessarily miserable, and their own life alone is not miserable? In fact, it is not necessarily, in many big cities, ** pay special attention to those lonely and widowed elderly people in their lives; They will regularly visit the lonely elderly, or will distribute some living materials, so it can be seen that the old age of the lonely elderly is not necessarily miserable, but more likely to be lonely. Moreover, some lonely elderly people who have no one to take care of them at all will be placed in nursing homes, and their old age may be surrounded by a group of parents-in-law and enjoy the most unforgettable old age of their lives; Of course, we do not rule out that the lonely and widowed elderly in backward areas will spend the rest of their lives miserably.
People who have never married in their lives are lonely in their old age, but whether they are miserable or not depends on chance.
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Not really. I don't think it's okay not to get married in my life. It doesn't make people think that old age will be miserable. But if it gives people this feeling, it must not have saved enough money.
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No. In fact, with the development of the social welfare mechanism, we can save more money when we are young, buy insurance when we are old, and live in a well-served nursing home, which can solve many problems. After all, even if we have children, we often hear stories of unfilial children.
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Maybe, but I think young people are not doing very well even now, it is better to live well in old age, and get married as it happens, the most important thing now is to make money.
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If I didn't get married in my life, I don't think it would be miserable in previous years, because I can be very happy living alone.
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No, because since I am not married, I will save a lot of money, and it is possible to go to a welfare home in my later years, which is also a longed-for lifestyle.
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Not necessarily, it mainly depends on the individual's attitude, if you have savings and property, and have a big heart, you will be very comfortable and happy.
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If you don't get married in your life, you will have no descendants to provide for your old age, and when you are old, you can only go to a nursing home, which is very miserable.
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Married or not, whose old age is not bleak?
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I don't think so, and I also think that such a woman must know how to invest in herself, so that she can become better and live a very comfortable life in her later years.
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If they are very rich in material conditions and very rich, then no, they have enough money to settle their old age, have family and friends, and will be very comfortable; But when there is nothing, you will feel very lonely, and there is no one to take care of you, which is more miserable.
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I don't think women who have never married in their lives will not be miserable in their old age, and they have their own rich spare time, which I think is also very good.
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The evening scene of unmarried people is not necessarily miserable, the key is to plan and be prepared. In fact, no matter who it is or what kind of emotional state, the evening scene will have a certain degree of desolation, which cannot be denied.
Only when people have no concern for the world can they take a road of no turning back. For unmarried, that's probably the case.
They didn't want to look back, they just wanted to live a life without regrets and regrets, marriage and family are not unimportant to them, but unnecessary.
Everyone has some insistence in their own hearts, and they have their own lifestyle and pursuits, whether they are married or not, as long as they are worthy of my heart, they can be regarded as a life without regrets and regrets.
We don't have the right to judge anything, after all, everyone has the right to control their own lives, even if we don't agree, we must choose to respect.
Nowadays, the pressure of employment is high, but the price of housing remains high, in this case, many young people have a problem with their own food and clothing, let alone marriage. There are also some young people who may no longer have confidence in love and marriage, so they also have the idea of being unmarried.
So, will the really unmarried live a chic life? Not necessarily! According to statistics, most of the unmarried people will regret it in their middle and late years.
People are always emotionally lonely, especially when they reach middle and old age. At that time, the parents may be gone, the brothers and sisters have their own families and lives, and the former friends will be immersed in making money and raising children.
Being alone in middle and late age will inevitably feel sad and lonely. Most unmarried people will have some psychological problems in their middle and later years, and they will envy other people who have children and daughters, and they will be enthusiastic about destroying and demolishing trouble.
Whether at home or outside, when you see a harmonious family, you will always feel sad and tearful.
Most of the unmarried people lived a chic and casual life in the first half of their lives, and they would travel everywhere and live a full and comfortable life.
However, in old age, most of the unmarried people will live a miserable life, and some even become very pitiful because they are not in good health and have no one to take care of. Marriage and childbirth are major events in life, and marrying a wife and having children is considered to be complete when you marry yourself.
Of course, it's okay for you not to get married for the rest of your life, but you can't live without a woman for the rest of your life, right? This woman has to be the same as you, she also wants not to get married for the rest of her life, and the two of you will fall in love for a lifetime, and no one can care! Brother, it's very hard to live alone, you need someone to help you and accompany you, you have to help you go when you're old, you have to have someone to serve tea and pour water before you get sick, even if you die, someone has to bury you, right?
Since you already know what kind of problems you have, then you should work hard to change yourself, all say that three points are destined to rely on yourself, you are short, poor and bad-tempered, I believe that as long as you really work hard, these are not problems, there is a saying that there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people, come on, believe in yourself, and have confidence to overcome everything.
Let you say, these two can happen to multiple people, but it may also be a man who has these two advantages, of course, he likes and does not deceive people, and he does not beat people, both of which are considered good men, real men.
Eh, maybe what I said was a little heartless, I thought I wouldn't get married, no matter what my family said, my left ear was near, the right ear was out, I think it was completely my own business to get married, my parents gave a suggestion at most, all you don't want to get married, you can take not getting married as the premise, it's hard to guarantee that you won't meet what you like in the future, right, this kind of thing is not something that people can budget, if there is really no feeling, it's not a big deal not to get married, I feel comfortable, do whatever you want, Eat whatever you want, how nice it is...
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