I would like to ask for advice on how to improve my relationship with my classmates in my tertiary s

First of all, I personally think that it is necessary to maintain relative respect and politeness between people, and when it comes to the problem of getting along with others, I think you have to depend on the situation, just like when you were in high school, your classmates had a good relationship, probably because you have a tacit understanding between you, have the same hobbies, and have common goals, so you talk, but in the junior college, you just haven't met each other tacitly. Boys who love sports and have their own interests and hobbies are easy to establish good relationships with others, whether they are boys or girls, they will be attracted to your charm. You don't need to think too much, be yourself, have a good personality, a good temper, even if you don't like to talk, someone will take the initiative to talk to you, want to be close to you, since you ask such a question, it means that you are a person who is willing to establish a good relationship with others!

Secondly, things gather people in groups, don't think about having a good relationship with everyone, as long as they don't hate you, you have some of the better ones, and often the more you want to do perfectly, the easier it is to do wrong things.

In addition, from a girl's point of view, boys who don't like to talk are more mysterious, even if people don't talk to you, maybe someone is silently paying attention to you!

What kind of relationship do you think is good for classmate relationships?

Personally, I think that the so-called half of the society in the university, the superficial things between people, are no longer the friendships and feelings you used to know, and most of the things that exist are just some superficial politeness and perfunctory.

In a real university, since you have only been admitted to a junior college, then you should change yourself well, do your best, whether it is within two years or after graduation, their group of people is no longer your opponent, then you are the best answer to deal with the relationship between classmates, do you think?

Correct your attitude, respect others, learn to empathize, adjust your mentality, and value harmony in everything.

Actively help other students to speak and pay attention to the tone of voice.

In fact, getting along with classmates in college is mainly to grasp various opportunities to show yourself first, and then when others are familiar with you, then through communication with them, they will get along with them, they will know you unconsciously, know you, understand you, and understand you, so that your relationship will not be as strange as at the beginning, not as plain as at the beginning. I don't spend a lot of time with my classmates in college, except for studying, I basically have my own things, go back to the dormitory, go to clubs, and so on. Everyone has their own time, everyone has their own space, everyone has their own circle, and it is not required to be able to be friends with everyone, at least to be able to be a comparative classmate relationship.

How to deal with the relationship between classmates, in fact, mainly depends on yourself, on your own heart, whether you want to do it, whether you want to maintain it, and whether you want to express yourself!

Classes at university are generally not held in a fixed classroom, and the classes are not too long. In this way, it is easy to lead to unfamiliarity with Tongrongxue, and even the situation that has not even spoken. College is a good time to cherish, and we should learn to get along with our classmates, so that life will be fulfilling.

When you see a class, you should greet each other actively, after all, they are all students in the same class, and it is normal for classmates to greet each other, so that they can also get to know each other and even become friends. Only if you take the initiative, the other party will respond positively.

Help your classmates. When you change dormitories, you need to help your classmates and actively carry things. If you encounter problems in learning, you should also actively help.

As classmates, it is necessary to help each other. Let's go shopping. It's okay to get along with your classmates not only in class, but also in your studies, in your life, eating together, shopping together, these are all okay.

Learn to get along with your college classmates and be proactive, so that you can gain the approval of your classmates.

Classmates are treated according to the etiquette of classmates, don't care too much about the other party's economy or the current conditions, how to be the same in the past, how to be now, and treat it with a normal heart.