The child is more than half a year old, I think my husband s thinking is too extreme, and now I want

Landlord, this kind of thinking is unacceptable, once it occupies your mind, you will be unable to extricate yourself and be very painful! Method: 1. Think more about the days when you were happy together in the past; 2. You sit together calmly and communicate sincerely; 3. If your husband has been in this situation recently, analyze the reason, or understand the real situation in good faith; 4. If you feel that your husband is obviously doing something wrong, you can remind him, try to correct him, take your time, don't be anxious, don't get angry; 5. After communication, tell your husband why you can go together is because you love him, he can let you, understand you, tolerate you, protect you, and the two of you can "stand together through thick and thin"; 6. Have time to communicate more with your husband and exchange your views, ideas, and practices on some things, so as to lay the foundation for avoiding quarrels in the future.

Divorce is the next step: 1. Children; 2. House; 3. Psychological pressure; 4. Your own psychological shadow; 5. Who can grasp the quality of the next marriage; 6. Divorce makes women age faster (in a bad mood); 7. Life is too short to withstand the toss. Therefore, because of divorce, the above situations have abounded, and it is not uncommon!

This is your "run-in period", I hope the landlord is cautious, and I wish you a happy husband and wife and a family reunion! Don't forget to thank you!!

1. On the conditions for divorce.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted.

2. About child support and child support.

For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

3. On the division of common property.

The joint property and debts of the husband and wife shall be jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and shall generally be half of the person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

4. About the divorce procedure, required documents and fees.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; If one party does not agree or repents of non-performance after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce shall be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, or if the defendant's whereabouts are unknown or imprisonment for more than one year, the divorce may be filed in the court where the plaintiff is located. The first instance is generally 6 months, and the second instance is 3 months. If the court does not leave the first judgment, it can file a new lawsuit after half a year, and the court of the second prosecution should generally rule away.

If the litigation fee for litigation divorce does not involve the division of property, it is generally 50 yuan, and if there is a division of property, the fee shall be paid according to the proportion of the property, which can be referred to the "Litigation Fee Measures".

The gods and horses are all floating clouds, ask if there is a wood in the feelings, and you can't afford to hurt the people who have feelings.

Divorce is still cautious, not to mention that your child is only more than half a year old. There are two kinds of divorce, one is divorce by agreement, you can both sit down and negotiate, reach a divorce agreement, and then register with the Civil Affairs Bureau; The second is to file a divorce lawsuit in court.

Calm down, the children are so old, divorce is not a trivial matter, think clearly, think about it clearly, you should know when you are in love, what did you think at that time, think about it now, think more about the advantages, as long as you don't do anything that violates the bottom line of law and morality, and when you are older, you have more experience in dealing with things, and you will be more mature.

A man's radical thinking means that he is not mature enough, and he can still have time to grow, if he is still like this after 30, he should get a divorce.

First of all, think about the way out, do you have your own place to live?

Do you have time to take care of your children independently?

Sit down and talk, and if it really doesn't work, forget it.

Although the child was born by you, you might as well raise it, it's no problem, since the relationship is not good, is it okay to live like this for the rest of your life? The child belongs to you, will you definitely give the child happiness? are all divorced, you might as well come to a thorough one, give him everything he wants.

Why get married if you have a bad relationship? Why have a baby? Do you treat marriage as a child's play Do you know how much your divorce hurts your children Children need to be accompanied by their parents in the process of healthy growth Although divorce is very common now, at least it is rare to see children with happy families breaking the law and committing crimes on the news Now the children of single-parent families are too pitiful It is recommended not to divorce Feelings should be cultivated slowly.

Peck it yourself. For the sake of the child or not to leave, the life should be good, both of them have to give up some of themselves, consider the problem from the position of home, think more about each other, and take into account each other's feelings, so that there is no bad life.

If you love your children and understand each other and live together, you can start from the economic conditions if you want the custody of the children, such as salary, and ask a lawyer to agree on the child's future living environment.

Legally, the child will now be awarded to the mother whether he wants it or not, and besides, why can't the child be considered for the child at such a young age and give him a complete family.

Put it down, someone has already taught her a lesson for you, why do it yourself, and ruin your character for such a person.

If your husband is not a matter of principle, for the sake of the children, let's keep going!

You should follow your own wishes and do whatever you want, kid? Is it necessary to get a divorce?

It's not good for anyone to leave when it's time to leave.

The first is that your husband is wrong, he shouldn't not love his children, and he shouldn't take your feelings into account, but I don't think even that's the case for divorce. He has a big temper, but have you seriously thought about why he lost his temper? If you put yourself in your shoes, what would you do if you were him?

Of course, you'll definitely say that you won't lose your temper and take care of everything, but after all, things are long gone, and you can't guarantee that you are doing everything right. He must also have good qualities that you don't have. Trying to understand is the best way to solve the problem.

Also, what you said is inconsistent, you mentioned earlier that he would tease the child when he came back from work every day, but at the end you said that he was angry when he saw you and the child. Of course, you are angry and can't take it seriously, but it can be seen from here that you have a preconceived prejudice against him, and you don't give yourself a chance to reconcile, you just want to be serious and-for-tat with your husband. How can this be done?

In a family, there is no right or wrong thing. What if you're all right? If you are divorced and have a child, will it be better to find a man than you are now?

No matter how bad he is, there is nothing wrong with him after all, if he has a bad temper, you can be gentle with him and use your tenderness to influence him, and you can coax him more if the child is noisy. Don't always think that you will be wronged by doing more things, on the other hand, if you change and let you take care of the children and you go out to make money, he will definitely not be as good as you, but you will definitely make more money than him? If you believe in me, you will live a good life, and your temper will definitely get better, and the child is his own, and he must love it very much, but men sometimes have a rough mind and are not very good at expressing themselves.

You can't ask him to be Lin Daiyu and Wang Xifeng, right?!

Supplement: So what do you want? Divorce?

It's that he's not good, but if you think about it, even if you're a princess, you have to marry someone, right? Unless you are determined to be celibate, will you definitely be better than the person you are now when you remarry? You may feel better than him now, but that's the way it is, when you lose it, you will regret it if you want to cherish it.

He is also a person, and he is also flesh and blood, why doesn't he love you and your children, have you ever thought about it? Some men are more careless and not very expressive, so you can take the initiative at this time. In real life, how can a family have to do this and that?

Even if you are better than him, make more money than him, and are better than others, so what? Think about it, if you left him, would all this happen again? What will the people around you think of you after a divorce?

Will all people understand? There are some things he can do for him if he is not divorced, and you have to deal with it yourself after leaving, taking care of the children every day in addition to your career, dealing with a lot of troubles, and forcing laughter in front of everyone, just think about this kind of day, right?

Hey, it can only be said that it is your misfortune, what can you do, the conditions at home are good, just like that, don't worry about anything else, you can look at it. Besides, what to do with the children after divorce, if you take this how to remarry, you will definitely not be able to let go of the children.

First of all, be yourself, you have to be independent, and when he feels that you no longer need him, he will be panicked, but he will think about what he did wrong, and maybe he will change something.

But as a woman, it is very important not to expect too much from your husband, the more disappointed you will be if you expect too much, and many things you get angry about will not change the reality, so it is better to accept it first, and then find a way to make things go in a good direction.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you will know what to do.

Keep your eyes open before marriage, and it's rare to be confused after marriage.

Didn't you think about what happened to him before you got married and had children, messing around, even if you don't get divorced, discord will hurt your children! There are a lot of good men in the world!

Hey, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, I suggest you ignore it, if the child grows up in the future, if you ask about the father, what do you say? And single-parent families have a bad impact on the physical and mental health of children, and are prone to discrimination and bullying, if you leave, just find one, but I think there are any conflicts between husband and wife that are irreconcilable, and we should pay attention to the way. I hope it will help you, I hope to adopt, thank you.

If you really can't get by, just leave while the child is still young, so it's good for the child and you, this is my personal suggestion, you refer to it!

If you have children, don't leave. All for the sake of the children.

If you have this kind of thought, just leave!

Could it be that because your family's conditions are better than theirs, so you psychologically form a feeling of superiority, so you often talk about him and make him feel that he has no dignity in your family? If that's the case, even if this man is really bad in some aspects, maybe he hasn't stepped into society for a long time, and men have psychologically matured later than women, but such a big man really needs a little dignity, especially the support and encouragement of his wife, since he chose to be together, I believe there is still a point where he can get along together, I think men love face very much, you should pay attention to the way when you preach, your parents may be willing to help, but because you help him, you have to preach him, Of course, he can't accept it psychologically, he feels inferior, he can't raise his head, you are her wife, you have to take care of his psychology, it may be better to help him in another way, divorce is not omnipotent, and may not be able to solve the problem fundamentally.

Let's separate, children under the age of 2 are mandatory for the woman, and there is a law to follow. A woman's psychological maturity is earlier than that of a man, and you are three years older than him, of course, like bringing a son. One misstep becomes a thousand years of hatred.

You can ask the lawyer, he will tell you what to do, if you don't love your husband, you can file for divorce, the law will sentence you to divorce, for the sake of the children, please be cautious!

The two of them need to understand each other and communicate with each other when they live together, and if you can't do this, I think it will be a problem to marry someone else

It's not a big problem, why do you have to leave, sometimes, the family doesn't need to care so much, as a mother, the palm of the hand is meat, the back of the hand is also meat, if she can help, she will definitely help.

If you really want to get a divorce, you can force a divorce if you are away from home for a long time and have a certificate.

Ten years of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you will also be a mother-in-law in the future, learn to communicate, be tolerant, love Wu and Wu, if you pay, there will be gains, don't care, life is short.

Wouldn't it be nice for you to leave your children at home and the two of you go out to work? Why don't you leave Ni, your husband must also have a lot of advantages! Or you would have married him in the first place!

I still quarreled with my husband today, just for a meal of ribs, he thinks about everything to, the second is him, and his daughter doesn't want to

How old is it, your husband should be very innocent

In this way, I also divorced, and my brain was in water.

As you said, divorce is a normal option, but it may not be the only solution.

Supplement: The in-laws have no responsibility or obligation to help you bring the doll, helping is love, and it is normal not to help. Don't dwell on it, it won't help you.

Find your lover's problem, don't get involved with your in-laws, they have no responsibility and obligation in this matter.