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Influence children with sincerity and patience.

It is the greatest merit of a parent to enable a child to become a virtuous person who can contribute to society in the future. Now that you have become the mother of your child, you must love, care and educate your child with sincerity. The best way is to teach children by example and show them how to honor their parents, care for others, be considerate of others, and encourage their children's progress.

Since you have chosen marriage, it is not a question of whether you want to or not, but a question that you must face and do, because it is your responsibility, your role and duty. There is no child in the world who cannot teach well, the key lies in one's sincerity, patience and hard work.

1.If none of you are willing to bow your head and retreat, then you can only fight to the death until one of you dies of natural old age, so that neither of you can be wronged.

2.A simpler but more likely way to arouse public outrage is to persuade your husband to immigrate with you. If she can't catch up there, she can't do anything about you.

The way to compare everyone's happiness is: you see what she lacks to make up for her, take her to South Korea for plastic surgery if she is not beautiful, find her a job without a job, give her a job without a boyfriend, and ask a neighbor friend or something to have a relationship with her if it is inconvenient for you to come forward, and then do this. In other respects, after she has her own life goals and life experiences, she will naturally no longer be entangled with you.

3.There will be nothing special, when your own daughter grows up, if you have wronged her in any way, she will definitely have to live with you more than your stepdaughter. After all, Cinderella's mobility and threat are much lower than those of the princess, and no matter how fierce Cinderella is, she only has those few steps.

It's hard! The main problem is still the child's mother, your unilateral efforts with your husband are useless, as soon as the child returns to her mother, it will be finished again! I have personal experience, and fortunately, my husband later sent his daughter abroad

It is best to influence children with sincerity and patience, relax your heart, and God is watching it.

My husband always contacted his ex-wife, and always said that for the sake of their children, I feel so uncomfortable, we also have children, what should I do.

Hello! Hello! I've kept you waiting.

Divorced and restructured family relationships are more complex than ordinary family relationships, and there are many factors to consider, especially when it comes to children. Your husband always contacts his ex-wife about the children, which makes you uncomfortable, do you think that the children may be an excuse? I think there are several possibilities for your husband's behavior, one is that the child's affairs are not easy to solve, I don't know how old the child is, if the child is still in primary and secondary school, and the growth needs the father's attention, your husband is not responsible, and you can also see that your husband is a responsible father.

It is recommended that you ask him more about the child, show that you care about the child, and your husband will feel that you understand and will give you something accordingly. The second is that your husband feels guilty about the child and is trying to compensate for it. In this case, while showing your support, ask your husband to share your child's responsibilities, such as checking homework, such as what happened to your child at school.

It is not easy to reorganize a family, so that your husband can see your efforts and feel your feelings. Hope mine can help you!

Some people don't have a backache when they stand and talk, and they talk about the Tao, but it's not for them to face it anyway. It depends on the size of the child, whether you have known her before, and how close you are to the child. Personally, I think that if the child is not big and has a good impression of you, you can take the child outside with your husband, find a place to meet Huai Chafan, and then hand over the child to her, and leave with your husband by yourself.

Remember that usually your husband can take care of the children, but now you must not let them play with the lead hail, or you are nothing. Of course, if the husband understands the matter, he will definitely not leave you and go to play with them. I think if this ex-wife wants to be strong, Ken Qingwu will definitely wait elsewhere, instead of coming to your house to see the children, so you don't have to worry about cooking for her, she can take the children to eat outside, at most they will meet and smile and nod their heads, which is considered to say hello.

As for treating like a friend and guest, that's a big deal.

Your husband is very close to his ex-wife because of his children, what should you do, so to sort out this problem and what to do specifically, we must first know whether this happened before you got married, or after you got married, the nature is completely different, and the way to deal with it is completely different.

Then I will make two assumptions, the first is that it happened after you got married, and you didn't know it before marriage, then this nature is obviously a deliberate concealment or deception, because before you get married, out of the man's sense of responsibility, you have the obligation to fully inform you of all the circumstances, and you also have to consider whether it is the possibility that there is a problem in the relationship between you, because there are cracks in your relationship or various reasons in the family, so that he remembers all the beauty of his ex-wife, and eats back grass, Even if the child comes out as a shield, maybe it's really because of the child, but there is also an element of use, then as a bystander, it is recommended that you observe properly, and then give the man two choices, the first is to ensure that he has contact with the child at a fixed time, but he is not allowed to have too much contact with his ex-wife, and the second option is divorce, at this time the man makes which choice, which attitude towards you is clear at a glance.

The second is that his frequent contact with his ex-wife happened before your marriage, and you are also aware, then at this time you have to seriously ask yourself in your heart, why did you choose not to care before marriage, but you were particularly concerned after marriage, what is the reason for your concern, will it be because the man's feelings have changed, so that you have to pay attention to this matter, or because you yourself pay too much attention to this matter or the man, then I am still the same old saying, It is recommended that you take out some energy to put some energy into your social circle, interpersonal communication, and enrich your spiritual world or mental world, which is beneficial to both parties, and you may not care about it for a long time.

Personally, I think that if this kind of thing happens, then you still have to choose to forgive, but at the same time, you must also warn your husband to control his bottom line.

In such a situation, you should talk to your husband about it, because it is better for the children to have such a situation, but it is a great harm to you, and you can also choose to divorce.

You should have a good chat with your husband and tell your husband that you don't want your husband to do this. I hope my husband can take care of the family more.

gladly accepted that since he had found a man who was married for the second time, he should have thought that something like this would happen today. After all, the other party has a child, and can only understand the other party.

Be sure to strengthen communication and understand your husband's true thoughts, such behavior is very abnormal and will not be beneficial to you.

Don't think so, in fact, you should think about this problem when you marry him, because it is a son, it is a child, no matter who he marries the child, the child is his, he must take care of it, because he is the father of the child.

The child is small, and he definitely doesn't like to see anyone other than his mother touch his father, especially if you are a stepmother, he must be suspected of intentionality. No way.

Either you endure it and have a child of your own with this man and have your own family, or you think clearly, if you can't stand this thing, just divorce.

When you and your husband get married, you have to think of this step, this is also the difficulty of being a stepmother, you don't have to worry about the child, you don't see each other for a long time, how can you not kiss when you meet, not to mention a boy, sooner or later with your father, you also hurry up and want one, maybe with your child he loves him more.

It will take a while, and when you have a child, your husband's attitude will change, so bear with it for the time being.

I think it's a bit too much for your husband to treat you like this, it's right that you are good to your children, but you are her wife, she treats you like this, I feel uncomfortable when I hear it, you should be a father and be good to your children, but you are his wife and can't judge you so unfairly!

And rightfully so. You don't have to be jealous. If your husband doesn't ask for a divorce, you still insist. Maybe in the future he will be just as good to you as he is to his children.

Isn't he sick, so why should he get a divorce? You don't want him at all.

The double-row keyboard warrior Lan Lan Lan is down-to-earth.

Summary. Because he wants you to have a harmonious and close relationship with the child, but the method chosen is not very good, any relationship that needs to please will not last long, because of inequality, it is recommended to have love over time, do not rush to one step, the child grows up, sensible, and knows who is good to him and who is bad to him.

Why did my husband ask me to please him and his ex-wife's children, but if I go to please them, who will please me.

Because he wants you to have a harmonious and close relationship with the child, but the Fang Huiran method chosen is not very good, any relationship that needs to be pleased will not last long, because of inequality, it is recommended to be in love for a long time, don't be urgent to take one step in place, the child has grown up, sensible, and knows who is envious of him and who is bad to him.

Feeling uncomfortable is a normal person's reaction, or make it clear to your husband about your feelings, don't argue, otherwise this situation will always bother you.

But if I please his child, who will please me, has he thought about it?

It wasn't born to me.

In this way, I will be very shameless in his house.

He didn't think about it, children are also innocent, in order to promote family harmony, superficial work can be done.

Are you thinking about breaking up?

He knows that he thinks about his child, why don't he think about it, I go to please his child, and no one will please me.

He knew that he told me to please his child, why didn't he ask him to please me, after all, I am also a human being, and I need to be cared for.

It's not pro, it's so easy, it's because he didn't think about it thoughtfully, he didn't think about you, you can communicate well in private, don't quarrel first, find a suitable way to deal with it, and satisfy both sides.