Teenagers are indifferent to fame and fortune

Let me tell you a story, when I was a child, my mother was my homeroom teacher, and the whole class chose me to be the class leader but my mother didn't let me be, and when I grew up, I complained a little about my mother, saying that I didn't have the opportunity to practice at that time. But in fact, although it is a bit regrettable, now I feel that it is nothing, and now that I have grown up, the people who have mixed well in society are those who did not have cadres on duty at the beginning. And those of us cadres on duty are too superstitious about order, thinking that it would be better to get more oil and water under order, but later we couldn't keep up with the times one by one.

So you feel that you are unlucky, and I feel that you are lucky, you can encounter an environment of unfair competition when you are studying, which allows you to have a deep understanding of this from an early age, and you can adapt more when you grow up. So you should be grateful for the teacher's unfair treatment of you, because he let you know in advance that fame and fortune are all illusory, and the world is never fair.

Finally, I wish you to be as indifferent to fame and fortune as possible, and do a good job in the work assigned to you by the teacher, not for the teacher, but for yourself and your classmates. At the same time, try to enrich yourself and make yourself more socially competitive, not just class-competitive. In fact, you should think about it, there must be many people in the class who work harder than you, and everyone is so miserable, you should be content.

Of course, those who are miserable now may be more competitive than you in the future. It's as simple as that.

Please forgive me for being tempted to say that you seem to be a somewhat vain child, and I have suffered the same grievances, and even more, but I wonder, have you forgotten the parents who supported you behind your back? can buy you such a good thing. Why do you ignore your parents' feelings?

I'm also a child, and I don't know how much more I have to suffer than you.

I really hope that you will break free from this shadow as soon as possible.

Hope to be in touch with you.

A word of comfort: I didn't even be a group leader in elementary school. Not even the Zhang Progress Award. I used to tell myself that the award certificate was sold at the school gate for 5 cents a piece, and I wanted to buy a few by myself. Ha ha.

The above is a very crooked practice, and we should change our thinking. It is recommended to buy the kind of look that the proverbist explains! I'm serious!

If I had encountered this now, my thoughts would have changed (after understanding a few of the Analects): I shouldn't have bought a mobile phone, I wanted to buy a book of a saint, (because it describes his life's insights!) Definitely know more than the elementary school teacher) will also think that playing with mobile phones is a waste of time, and playing with mobile phones is a fool's practice.

It's a bit of a shame for me. If the teacher is knowledgeable, he will educate the students in the shortest words, rather than using sarcasm and comparisons to ridicule the students to achieve the purpose of education.

I'm in my third year of junior high school now, so I guarantee that you will get along well with every student after reading the Analects! Every student loves to play with you. I only say students, because I haven't learned how to get along with teachers, teachers are not very knowledgeable, most teachers if they know more, they will not be teachers, but to find high-paid ones, which is more realistic!

First, we must achieve the supremacy of faith, there will always be something to pursue in life, and if a person does not have a lofty goal in his heart, he will inevitably value the fame and fortune in front of him. To be indifferent to fame and fortune, selfless dedication, there must always be something willing to dedicate and sacrifice for. If you lose your lofty goals, you will naturally value the fame and fortune in front of you.

Second, it is necessary not to compare with others, because young friends often have a sense of frustration, loss, and unfairness because of comparison with others. Therefore, if you want to be indifferent to fame and fortune, you must learn to compare correctly.

The third is to control material desires, fame and fortune itself is not the ultimate goal of life, the pursuit of fame and fortune is mainly to satisfy desires. Therefore, if you want to be indifferent to fame and fortune and selfless dedication, you must start from the root and control your material desires. As the saying goes, "There is nothing in the world that is more dangerous than anyone else".

The stronger a person's materialistic desires, the stronger his idea of fame and fortune will be. If the desire for material things is lighter and the desire is less, it will be easier to be indifferent to fame and fame, and reach the realm of "people are self-exalted without seeking quality".