For my family. Please help me, I really don t know what to do

This is a problem between couples.

If one of the two sides doesn't want to go on anymore.

No matter how hard the bystanders tried, it was useless.

The question is not which woman how.

It's your father, whether he still wants to continue with your mother.

Did none of these things happen to your mother and find out that there is a problem?

The real problem is with your father.

If he loves your home.

There are people in this family who make him reluctant.

He wouldn't be so delusional.

Don't always put the blame on a third party.

I also despise third parties and destroy other people's families, but why does she exist?

It's not your father's reason yet.

Otherwise, she wouldn't exist.

It depends on your age. Your father is 40-50 years old, too.

At such an age, it is not responsible to deceive the family.

The selfish ones only think about themselves.

I really don't know what he thinks.

Now there are so many such female miscellaneous?? I rub it, it's all a special offense.

Just go to her and tell her that she is now influencing your family, you love your dad and love your mom even more, so hopefully she can opt out on her own...

Doesn't she love your father? Then your father's money is controlled by your mother, love your father and let your father be with her by himself, don't give him money, I tell you, this woman can't stand it in less than a month, and begins to complain about your father, a man can't stand a woman's old ink, complaining about this and that.

Life is personal. You should probably ask your dad what he wants in life, you probably don't know too much about your dad, so you can't prescribe the right medicine. Everyone has a sense of right and wrong, but why do they do it wrong?

There must be an emotional reason that touches him. Don't blame, forgive, encourage, always be more effective than scolding.

Marriage is a matter of two people, seeing that you said a lot of your father's no, your parents' married life is not harmonious, I want to ask your mother has made any efforts for her marriage? Have you ever wondered why your father met other women online and if your mother is also responsible? Did she give the care and love she deserved as a wife?

It is said that flies don't bite seamless eggs, and a man who is immersed in the warmth of the family will naturally not go to other women to find tenderness.

You are studying in South Korea, because your family also has the ability, since you have the ability, if you have the money, you will ask someone to investigate the woman, but don't let your family know when you investigate. Because your dad is now fascinated by that woman, he won't listen to anything you say, and the only way is to find out if that woman is not, so that your dad will die.

I don't know either, but you can disclose it by **.

Only with self-confidence can you live happily.

The first condition of self-love is to eat a good meal, get a good night's sleep, and strengthen your body first, regardless of the reason.

Be kind to yourself no matter what happens.

Happiness is actually very simple: someone loves; There is something to do; Something to look forward to.

Waiting, maybe just to wait for that sentence: "No matter how busy you are, I have to leave time to accompany you." ”

Let go of you, not because I don't love you, but because I love you too much.

One day the rabbit was watching TV to the wonderful place, when he suddenly heard a knock on the door, and walked to open the door but saw no one. "Hello, can you give me some water to drink? Then the rabbit noticed that there was a snail at the door.

No! The rabbit kicked the snail away with an angry kick. A few years later, the rabbit was watching TV alone at home again, and the knock on the door rang again.

The rabbit ran to open the door, and the snail said, "Why are you kicking me?" ”

The highest level of liking is that you may die for her, and the highest level of love is that you have to live well for the person you love.

Life is not perfect and you need to create it yourself.

Don't envy the superficial scenery of others, in fact, everyone has their own inner suffering.

Don't wait for a smile to show charity;

Don't wait to be loved before you love;

Don't wait until you're lonely to understand the value of friends;

Don't wait until you have the best job to start working;

Don't wait to have a lot before you start sharing;

Don't wait for someone to hurt before begging for forgiveness;

Don't wait until you're separated to think of redemption.

Don't wait, because you don't know how much time it will take.

It is obvious that he is a filial son, but in dealing with you and your family, he did not do a good job, and cared too much about his family and ignored your feelings. You can try to talk to him, and it is best to discuss with you about certain things, so that you can feel that he cares about you and solve the problems of the family. In fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is trust, and it is really inappropriate for him to deal with the problems of his family and you, which is easy for you to misunderstand.

He only feels that your investment is an "angel investment", then he is really wrong. Love is not gratuitous, it needs to be maintained and operated by both parties. It's better for you not to live with your family, you can have a good chat with him and be separated for a while, so that he feels that life without you is not good.

The six-year relationship is not said to be over, and it can be ended. May you be able to resolve all kinds of contradictions in life, and I wish you all the best in growing old together and being blessed with the sky.

Have you two talked about these things? If it's useless to talk, or if he argues with you as soon as you say this, I think you might as well leave him.

His heart is not set right in your affairs and that of his family. I don't even think he loves you. Because, in fact, there is no contradiction between loving you and doing things for this family.

If he loves you, he will see you as his family, and he will see your car, your money, as his own car, his own money. Then he will feel sorry for your car, and he won't drive it if he can; He will cherish your money and work hard to do business without losing money; He will love you with all his heart because he sees what you have done for him and for his home.

Obviously, he didn't think so, he didn't think of you as his own. If that's what you say, I think he's more like he's using you as a tool to help him support his family.

You might think it's cruel to say that, but that's how it feels to me.

Finally, think about how good he has been to you in the past six years, compare whether it is more good or worse, and then make a decision. After all, love is best known only in your heart.

If you decide to leave him, then walk away in style, don't go and settle accounts with him for these six years, it's useless, you can only make him hate you;

If you decide to follow him, then you have to learn to be patient, and be patient that he values his family and ignores you, and only in this way, you can't change him.

Use it, use it, and use it, aren't all your own people's.

Like is not the same as love, ordinary friends also like each other to become friends. It's just that do you feel that someone who doesn't care about your feelings deserves you? If you want to find it, it is more reliable to find a man who cares about you and does not break his word. Don't waste your youth on people who don't value you, don't know.

I already know what to do, just go down, because in this way, you will come out, love is not a person's business, he can't give you happiness, we shouldn't be him, why bother yourself, the person who loves you is reluctant to make you angry, for a person who doesn't love you, it's not worth it, love must be happy, it will be happy.

Classmate, I have the same hobby as I used to, and my brother is a person who has come over and will say a few hungry words.

This is mainly caused by your boredom in school, that is, school learning is not attractive to you, in school you feel irritable and bored, you love to play online games or casual when you go online, people who love online games have a sense of pride, that is, in real life a lot of things are not satisfactory, but in the game may call for wind and rain I have a sense of achievement. But if you think about it, the game is not about experience.,To equip it, you have to fight monsters and fight violent deaths to rot Ming.,It's something to pay.,It's to buy.,Then it's on the set of the online game company.,It's nothing more than these two.。 It's the same in real life, isn't it, you have to pay to get it.

If you go to a technical school, then pick a technical class you like, and there are more foolish ones in life, study hard, and the books are on. Extracurricular online learning, with half of your enthusiasm for playing games, you will definitely be able to learn well, no matter what field a person has strengths over others will be respected by others, and there will also be a sense of accomplishment that you are the boss in the game, and the sense of achievement in the game is gone when you close the computer, and it is different in reality.

Okay, for the right of your parents, for the right of your youth, take a good look at what I said, I typed these words for half an hour, in order to get the right of me, you look at it!

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