What should I do if I am opposed by my parents, and what should I do if I am opposed by my parents?

A tangled life, hehe.

Actually, you don't need to worry too much, what is not difficult? What's more, it's something as difficult as love. Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

This one is clear. But love is the foundation of marriage. So, manage your love first, when the two of you are like glue and take care of him so well that he even feels that he can't leave you for the rest of his life (which is impossible).

His parents also feel that only you can take care of him completely, only when you can manage him well, try to use the spirit of "endure humiliation and overcome all difficulties" to contact his family, and use your best actions to gain their favor with you, as for what they are afraid of when their children grow up... It's just an excuse. They're just not happy with you at the moment.

Be clear about that. If you think it's the point to solve it, to prove that the child won't be a drag, then you're stupid. Once solved, there will be a whole bunch of new problems that you need to solve.

As mentioned above, the point is that they are not happy with you! Age, marital history, appearance, family background, occupation, personality, etc., etc., as long as they are satisfied with you, nothing else is a problem. (For example, if you are Lin Chiling, even if you have 3 children, I don't think they will be able to object to **.)

So be sure to highlight your own points, downplay your shortcomings, and let them tolerate your shortcomings for your strengths!!

Wishing you happiness!

If you have any questions, you can send me a private message and give you a detailed answer.

If so, you can only discuss with your previous husband what to do and how much money to pay. How much money to give to the children, you can take each other with the children.

It's hard to say about this relationship problem, it mainly depends on your boyfriend's attitude, after all, the two of you will live together in the future!

If two people love each other, in the face of love, parents can only suggest but not decide. After all, love and marriage are free, voluntary, and protected by law, and no one has the right to interfere with the freedom of love and marriage between the two of you. What's more, love emphasizes that feeling is fate, and the feelings of two people have fate, which is something that others can't appreciate.

To put it mildly, whether the shoes are suitable or not, you know. Although parents will not harm their children, it is the other half, not the parents, who will accompany you for the rest of your life.

So, when your love is opposed by your parents, the first thing you need to determine is whether you love each other? If you confirm that your love is sober, not blind, for the sake of the lover who has made your heart pound, you must have a firm attitude and tell your parents: my love should be my own decision, I truthfully report to my parents is a respect for my parents, I hope that my love can be blessed by my parents, but it is not up to my parents to decide whether to love or not.

Arranged love and marriage have no future.

For example, when a poor boy falls in love with a goddess, the goddess's parents generally consider that this is not a good match, and the more substantive consideration is that this poor boy and my daughter are married, so that my old face will be put aside? Will relatives and friends gossip about our family? They think more about face.

If the goddess meets a rich and handsome person, whether they are in love or not, their parents will feel: En, a good match. This man is good, and the reserved parents don't say it, they must think in their hearts:

I am definitely enough to meet in front of relatives and friends, who can't boast a few words when I see it? And when Gao Fushuai messes around outside or treats his daughter badly, parents often say: Aren't others looking at you very happy?

As a result, many parents' excessive interference in their children's love and marriage has become a family face project!

If a person loves you, he doesn't want to lose you, and he doesn't want your relationship with your parents to be antagonistic, in fact, he is very helpless and helpless, and at this time, your attitude determines everything.

Falling in love is a beautiful and realistic thing in life! It is a decision made by young men and women after a certain period of time to run in with each other, adapt to their personalities, and mature consideration in many aspects such as character, cultural quality, sense of responsibility and family environment!

When encountering the opposition of one parent, first of all, the two should calm down to find the main reason for the parent's opposition, the parents have rich life experience, and they have a farther and more thorough view of the young people's character, character, work and behavior than the young people! In these aspects, young parents should sincerely communicate with both parents and take the initiative to seek their opinions!

Young people want to make their marriage a complete and happy marriage, so both parties must think independently about each other, do you know what your own strengths and weaknesses, what potential to improve and ensure the happiness of the future family and each other? Are the personalities of both parties inclusive and complementary? Can you make both parents feel at ease to hand over their children to you?

After all, how do young people face the rest of their lives? Whether you plan to prepare for the dry and accept the baptism of life together!

On the one hand, parents should help their children check and give positive guidance to young people in the realities of love and life. It is necessary to pay attention to the quality, character, morality and sense of responsibility of both parties, and the material requirements such as power, money, and gift money cannot be put in the first place! Attention should be paid to the emotional and enterprising development potential of young people!

Therefore, when the other party's parents oppose the relationship, it is necessary to pay serious attention to their own shortcomings, improve their own abilities, and at the same time, young people should sincerely communicate and recognize the character qualities of both parties. The two sides communicate with the parents of both sides, so that the older generation of parents can see the future and hope of the young people.

If you are opposed by the other party's parents, you can believe that you can have a marriage certificate with the other party.

I didn't read the title for a long time.

The two of them want to be happy together, but the union of the two causes the misfortune of their relatives, so can the happiness of the two be considered happiness? Can you continue to be selfishly happy?

Maybe there are reasons why my parents are against it, so I feel that a marriage that is not blessed is still unhappy, because after all, marriage is a matter of two families, not a matter of two people, this involves two families, because after all, after getting married, maybe the two families will have some movement, or what? If I don't be blessed, I may not feel very happy in my future life, at least not from the heart, but I personally feel that I should think about it again.

To know why the other party's parents oppose and whether the reasons for the opposition are reasonable, from the other party's point of view, you have to see whether you have the ability to change the other party's parents' attitude towards you, and whether it is necessary to change the other party's attitude towards you.

If you are opposed by the other person's parents, you can try to please them and do what they like, and try not to make them feel too disgusted with you.

You have to put your parents first and don't let them worry. The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time. Persistence, one day they will accept it.

Believe in yourself, believe in love. True love, how can it be in the morning and twilight? They do it for your own good.

Don't get into trouble with your parents. I trust you and will do a good job.

If you are opposed by the other parent, then you should try to get the other parent's consent to be together.

If your partner's parents don't agree with you, it depends on the reason, if it's because of money, it's not a big problem, if it's something else, it's hard to say.

Well, there's only one way. Convince each other's parents. Otherwise, there is no other way. This one. That's all it can be.

If you are opposed by the other parent, you can do the work through the object, so be patient.

If you are opposed by the other party's parents, you must have your own shortcomings, and you must make some achievements to make them see each other differently!

What age is it now, you can make your own decisions, and parents can only refer to it, not be the master of their children