Why have they all changed? Can anyone tell me?

Socially caused.

Because unmarried children don't know what to feel like under the care of their parents, it's easy to recklessly invest in their feelings. However, society is dark, and the consequences of recklessness can often only be borne by oneself.

Therefore, some people will learn from the pain and make up their minds not to make it, so they may use their identity or tone to warn you not to make the same mistake. It may be done in the wrong way, but it must be well-intentioned. You don't think too badly of them, think about it from their point of view, if it were you, what would you do?

There are also people who have been assimilated after some dark things, and their own thoughts have begun to darken. Therefore they hate those who are happier than themselves, and take pleasure in striking them. This kind of can't be called a friend, it's better to stay away.

In addition, those friends who complain to you depend on whether you are sincere or not. Some people say that when making friends, you have to make sunshine, because friends with a gloomy mood will affect your mood, which is very reasonable. If you genuinely treat them as friends, you should understand their pain, listen to them within your ability, and empathize with them.

If you really can't stand their complaints, then leave them, because it's not your fault, no one likes to be a dumpster, right? That comes at a cost, and it will make you feel bad.

Since they are all laymen, I deal with them in the way of laymen. Friends are looking for high-level ones, and with such friends, one or two are enough. As for them, ignore them if you don't like them.

Maybe the married friends have a bad temper because of the pressure, and the friends who are not married I don't know, maybe they have become irritable because of the bad situation.

People are changing all the time, and some reasons may be very strange, or even a matter of one sentence. Therefore, these things cannot be understood by others, but I see hope or despair in this sentence. For example, the teacher said that you are a material that can be made, and as long as you put your heart into it, you will definitely be able to get into a good university.

At this time, you will feel confident and motivated to attend classes every day.

However, if an authority person says that you are not suitable for this profession, that you do not have this talent, that everything you do is so mediocre and without any bright spots. There's no way you're going to make a name for yourself in this business, so it's better to wash and sleep early, and you'll have to move bricks tomorrow. Do you feel an unquenchable anger in your heart at this time?

Then it slowly transforms into lasting pain, an inferiority complex that feels very incompetent and pitiful.

These are some very common languages, and the so-called language is the sharpest**, and that's it. You can eat more food, and you can't talk nonsense, otherwise the possible consequences are unimaginable. This is often the result of our changes.