What should I do if the girl I like is not with me because of low self esteem?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then you have to have the ability, that is, you have to be talented, generally girls like talented boys, and then you have to have a talent that you think you are good at, and then, you then you have to muster up the courage to get up, and then go after it, and then if you can't catch up with him and confess, if you can't catch it, forget it, after all, people don't like you, you can't force it, this, it depends on how you think.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Favorite girls.

    Because of low self-esteem. Not with you.

    In this case.

    As long as you're right on girls.

    Show enough sincerity.

    Enough care and care.

    Let the girls. Feel the affection and warmth you bring to her.

    Words like this. Girls will become confident.

    will be willing to be with you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The girl you like, he himself because of his inferiority, don't be with you, you should solve him, because enlighten him, if you really love her, you take her out of her inferiority, you have to move forward with him, make him lively, make him confident, slowly he will change, and he will thank you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is a good girl with brains and self-knowledge, although World War II did not go ashore, but the knowledge applied is enough to cope with the needs of various jobs, she loves you deeply will not want to drag you down, and if you like her, you can also tell her bluntly that you will not marry, if you don't teach the current knowledge reserves are enough to be based on the world, making money to support my family is my business, and it will make you happy for a lifetime.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is a TV series "Chess Soul", which is quite long. The shooting is very good, and the rating is good. It tells the story of discovering an ancient chessboard by chance, so as to meet Chu Huan, the first person of Go in Nanliang who has been entrenched in the chessboard for thousands of years, and gradually became interested in Go under his influence, and inspired to become a professional Go player.

    Among them, it talks about a pair of Go lovers, Shen Yilang and Bai Xiaoxiao. Shen Yilang's family was poor and relied on work-study to realize his dream of playing chess and becoming a professional chess player. But Shen Yilang has a heavy mind and poor psychological quality, and he usually practices to be one of the best, and he plays abnormally every time he takes the big exam, and he doesn't pass the exam several times, Bai Xiaoxiao deliberately loses to him in order to fulfill him, but he still didn't pass the exam.

    Later, the big teacher sent Shen Yilang to study in Japan, and Shen Yilang returned a year later and successfully debuted as the first place in the fixed stage competition and became a professional chess player. Bai Xiaoxiao was sincerely happy for him when she heard the news that he had set the last paragraph, and the two were reunited again at this time.

    The girl you like may be a bit like this Shen Yilang, with poor psychological quality and heavy psychological burden, the key is to see your persistence and her own adjustment of mentality. You can encourage her more, if she insists on going to graduate school, you can give her some review suggestions, be a sparring partner or something, and guide her not to take the graduate school entrance examination so seriously.

    In other words, if she still didn't pass the three battles, would you be with her? That's exactly what she wants to know.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think if you really like him, then you must care more about him, and if he says that he is not with you, then you must be separated from him.

    You have to give him enough security, and then you have to give him enough encouragement to continue to go to graduate school if he wants to go to graduate school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since it's true love, what are you hesitating about, just tell her that you don't care about it, don't let go of the person you like easily, especially the wishful ones, good fate is hard to find, and cherish it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to encourage and enlighten her to slowly get out of her inferiority complex, bravely face the real life and accept the reality!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I feel that with your IQ is already very high, there is no need to ask other people's opinions, you can do whatever you want, as long as you don't regret each other, I hope that there are lovers who will eventually become married, I wish you happiness. Come on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell her clearly that what you like is her person, you want to be with her forever, and she is not inferior in terms of feelings, it all depends on your attitude.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are already together, you will not feel inferior, unless you really feel your dislike for her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are able to confess success to this girl, then your low self-esteem will get for a short time**.

    If your confession is not successful, then your low self-esteem will be aggravated for a short time.

    If the confession is successful, and you are together, her family does not agree that your low self-esteem will worsen for a long time.

    If the confession is not successful, your efforts in your career will make the people around you more and more recognized by you, and your low self-esteem will be for a long time**.

    If you confess successfully, get together, get married, and have a good relationship with the opposite sex in her life, your low self-esteem may continue.

    If your confession is not successful, your progress in your career will not only be recognized by the people around you, but she or she will even show a good impression of you, and your low self-esteem** situation may continue forever.

    Your love is a bit superficial, what type of person the other party is, whether it is suitable for you or not, you don't know, do you figure this out first?

    Also, put more thought into your career!

    If you bloom, butterflies will come.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to say to you, you'd better not open this mouth, you can't do it, one, because your family conditions are not good, two, you are not a very good person, her parents will not agree, and also, today's girls like tall and handsome, boys with a comparable family background, do you think you are all in line? If the confession is rejected by her, you will feel embarrassed to see you in the future, and maybe you may resign!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can't overcome your inferiority complex, don't pursue it, and if the status of both parties is unequal, you won't be happy even if you come together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be bold to pursue and confess! Maybe you will fail, but at least you have worked hard and have no regrets!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is first of all a good match, only on this basis can we carry out a closer relationship, if only by a momentary impulse is not a good result.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You pursue, as long as you work hard, you will not lack anything.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People have to face a lot in their lives, if you like it, don't think too much, after all, it is the result you want, face it sincerely.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She is your important person, so first of all, you have to help her through the current difficulties. There is no inferiority complex in love, don't be afraid, and don't let yourself regret it in the future. Come on. o(∩_o

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Silently pull her into your chat blacklist.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It comes from the fact that you have hidden too much in the early stage of the women's sedan hall Shengfan Zhaotou.

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