Which is more poignant, we never were together or we weren t together ?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's all very sad, it's all the pain of love. It's like a crush, but it pays more than a crush, and it's a fruitless giving.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's more sad that we haven't been together, after all, if we've never been together, our hearts won't be more lost, and the ups and downs won't be so big. And it's miserable if you're not together, and when you think you're going to be together, you won't be together, which will be even more sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The former is even more sad, so I haven't experienced what it is really to be together together, it's just perfunctory on the surface, I've never been careful, I've been played, pitiful, hateful and sad The latter is even the most likely not to be together, a single page has had the beauty of being together, and I have experienced the feeling of love, real.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's more sad that we are not together, because after working hard together, we can't be together in the end, our hearts will be hurt, we will be sad, we will be reluctant, we will never be together, we will not be hurt, and nothing bad will happen.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's more sad not to be together, the guy I liked sang in a bar and was poached by the agency, we liked each other for three years, we tried to be together, but in the end we didn't get together. It's never been more tactful to be together, but not being together is like giving a death order.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The first, because the first one has already been together, and the love is deeper, but the second has never slowly faded, and it will not be as unforgettable as the first. It's like when I have a girlfriend with my boyfriend, I know I like him, but it's too late, and it's useless to say anything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We have never been together, which makes people even more sad, listening to this sentence, you know that you should have been by the side of the person you like, but you have never had the opportunity to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I still think it's more sad not to be together, some time ago I saw my best friend going around with a boy for five years and still not together, until the boy sent her a wedding invitation, she cried and told me that they were not together and would not be together in the future. If you are never together, at least there is the possibility of being together, and not being together directly erases all possibilities.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I remember that in "Farewell My Concubine", Farewell My Concubine fell in love with Duan Xiaolou, and Duan Xiaolou loved Juxian. Although Juxian hanged herself in the end, she was far less miserable than Cheng Dieyi. Everyone has seen the movie, and Cheng Dieyi's fate is far more regrettable than Juxian.

    So, never being together is more sad than not being together in the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Which is more frustrating if you don't eat the ice cream yourself or if you take a bite and fall on the floor? I think it's definitely the second one, because you've tasted its sweetness, and how sweet it is to be as painful as it is.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think the former will be more sad, I had a crush on me at the same table in high school, I'm embarrassed to say, but there are a lot of little secrets between us that only the two of us know, everyone in the class is heckling, he will say that we are not together, although it sounds very uncomfortable, but he will still be nice to me, and then he has a girlfriend, and he told me that we have never been together, not that we are not together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, "we have never been together" is more poignant, which is a regret that has not yet been obtained.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I went from elementary school to college, nine years, and I liked a boy. In the end, I didn't get together, it was an unforgettable pain, I didn't want to mention it, I didn't want to meet again, because I couldn't hug you when we met again. Never together, there is a faint regret in my heart, as well as the beauty that will always be fixed, and the blessing from the heart after finding the love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I talk with her until 2 or 3 o'clock in the evening every day, and I have to go to class at 8 o'clock the next morning, and I have to go to the gym after class, but I never feel tired, I am a thin house, I sit in front of the computer for a day without eating, and that is the only girl who makes me seriously think about the future and pay for it. Then somehow she disappeared out of nowhere, and I felt like we weren't together, and she told me we were never together. I think the former is more sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A new father who was told that his life was coming to an end, his wife delivered his seven-month-old son to her husband, and the man passed away peacefully with his newborn son in his arms. If his wife hadn't chosen to give birth early, the man wouldn't even be qualified to see his son, so it's even more sad that we've never been together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think the meaning of these two sentences is similar, after all, they are not together, and I feel that the relationship between the two people is not so deep.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not together, is to get after the loss.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I feel that it is more regrettable not to be together in the end. Because people who may never be together are just the white moonlight that they can't get forever in their hearts. You don't really have memories, you don't feel sad, you just never get them.

    And you are separated halfway, you have experienced so much, there are too many good memories in between, and your time and energy have been spent on each other. In other words, a score of 59 may be more difficult than a score of 0, and the most painful thing in life may not be that you have never had, but that you can almost have it.

    If fate comes, we will follow it. Fate is gone, and we don't have to care, let alone scold each other for getting off halfway. Instead, we should be grateful that he is willing to accompany us on a ride.

    So let's not give up on a relationship that doesn't work out anymore. If you really, really like him, then work hard and leave no regrets. As Eileen Chang said:

    Love is a lifetime of suffering, and not loving is a lifetime of regret.

    I've never been together, and I'm unwilling. You've never been with that person, and you're very unwilling. It is in vain to pay so much, and an obsession will be formed in my heart.

    That's what I did with the girl. I said we could spend a day together, and it made me feel so much better. But, even then, no.

    It's like when we were kids when we saw a delicacy and wondered what it tasted like. If we don't eat it, we will miss it for a long time. Later, when I got rich, I ran to buy it and found that someone had already bought it.

    I feel sad and sad in my heart, and time can never be turned back.

    When you're serious about a relationship, but end up breaking up, it's hard for you to like someone else in the future, and you don't want to take the time to get to know each other. It's like you're almost done with an essay and the teacher says you're scribbling and tearing up your homework and asking you to rewrite it. Although you memorize the beginning and the content, you don't bother to write it, because an article consumes all your energy, only needs an ending, and you have to start all over again.

    In the end, if you are not together, it is not only the past that is sad, but also the present and future, and it will also have an impact on the feelings for the future. However, there is still sunshine in the dark, and at least those good memories will keep you coming back for years to come. It may be painful to look back, but people who have never been together, no memories.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Never being together will definitely feel particularly regretful, so in life you will feel special disappointment because you have never had each other at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's a pity that we didn't get together in the end, because there was a time between them.

    Those memories that were once together, even if they are full of traces of the old man walking in time, are inevitably remembered in a familiar scene.

    Each other has paid sincerely, and they fantasize about being able to do that until they are old, but in the end, the two of them still deviated from each other's trajectory and still failed to reach the end.

    I've gained and I've lost.

    For a long time I'd rather never have him, because there would be no loss.

    People who feel more regretful that "we have never been together" have many missed stories;

    People who feel more regretful that "we didn't end up together" have many stories of loss.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Never being together, will become even more regrettable. Because this will lead to you never being able to understand the other person. I will regret it very much in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's a great pity that they've never been together, because two people don't have any good memories that make them miss this person.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I agree with this statement, and it's very regrettable that we never got together and didn't end up together. We will always encounter this or that kind in life, and love is undoubtedly one of the most important experiences on the road of life. When you meet someone you love, whether it is two people who don't get together, or who hurt each other after falling in love, this is undoubtedly a sad thing.

    Missed love is always regrettable, and there is no point in discussing why it was missed. I once missed out on a relationship because I didn't have the courage to confess, and I watched the girl I liked go their separate ways with me. I've always regretted it, always thinking that if I had mustered up the courage, the two of us might have ended up differently.

    I once fell deeply in love with a girl, and she loved me so much, but the two of us still didn't end up because of the long-distance relationship. When I lost this love, I really cried bitterly, and for a long time afterward, I couldn't accept this ending, I couldn't get out of the shadow of falling out of love, and I didn't want to continue to believe in love. I've always felt sorry for this, and I always feel that if I could have been more persistent, we might have been able to move towards happiness.

    If you ask me which of the two is more regrettable, I don't know how to tell it myself. Because missed love is always heart-wrenching, no matter what the reason, missing it is missing it.

    It's regrettable that we never got together and that we didn't end up together. These two regretful things will undoubtedly become a pain point in every memory in life. We may not be able to let go of it for a long time, but all these regrets are of our own making, and we are not qualified to regret it at all, and there is no reason to fantasize about the past.

    All this can only be attributed to the immaturity of the year, but all this is irreparable, we can only accept this ending, and learn a lesson from it, hoping that the next time we meet love, we will not leave regrets for ourselves.

    On the long road of life, no one can spend this life perfectly, and we will more or less leave some regrets. After going through these regrets, I hope that all of us can avoid falling into the same pit again, otherwise we will always hate ourselves.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, I don't think it's a pity to be together and not to the end after being together. On the other hand, I personally think that it is more uncomfortable and regrettable to not be together in the end than to have been together. Because after people live together for a long time, there will be an inseparable relationship between two people.

    But if you say that you are separated at this time, it will be lost forever in your life, but this kind of memory will always appear in your mind, and that feeling is really sad.

    Anyway, I just feel like the last two people are not together, and this feeling is painful. Because of a relationship, it is very, very difficult to know each other and love each other from the beginning of two people's encounters. The head is full of the shadow of the other party, the other party's voice and smile, and I feel that I want to be with this person all the time, and I am thinking about things related to this person.

    So if you end up separated, it's really hard to get out.

    But if you've never been together, although you'll miss this person very much, and I hope to be with him, but after all, you've never really been together, and you don't have so many memories, so you won't be haunted by dreams. Because that feeling is actually not so strong, it is a hazy beauty, and there is no unforgettable lovelorn, if the two of us do not contact each other for a period of time, we will not feel so sad, we can live our own lives as well, if it is a long time, it will slowly fade out of their sight.

    It can be said that they have never been together, and the hurt on both sides is not so deep, and it can also be said that there is no harm at all, because I have never promised you, how can you say that it is the harm I brought you? And in the end, they were not together, they gave a very warm true feeling, and it was paid by both parties, and they will never forget it in this life, it is a lingering thought.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Both of them are particularly regrettable, obviously the two of them love each other very much, but they can't be together for various reasons, and they haven't gone on after being together, which is a pity.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, I feel that both of these things are very regrettable and may be remembered for the rest of my life, so I feel that both of these things are very difficult.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, it's all very regrettable, because the end result is all the same, and it didn't come together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's more regrettable and hurtful not to be together in the end.

    There will always be some regrets on the road of growth, and the missed love may be a common regret for many people. If you had to choose between never being together and getting and losing, I think the latter would be more sentimental and regrettable.

    There will be regrets if you have never been together, and you will lose it when you gain it. I once liked a girl in college, I pursued my own pursuits, and I confessed several times, but I still didn't get together with her after all. I've always felt that this incident is one of the regrets of my life, but as time goes by, as I meet the people I love again, this regret is slowly fading.

    But the regret of gaining and losing is completely different from this regret that will slowly dissipate, and my first love and I belong to the former. Two people once loved each other and paid for each other wholeheartedly, but in the end, due to various factors, they didn't come to the end, and the moment they lost, I felt that my heart was empty.

    I thought that this kind of hurt would be forgotten in time, but now many years have passed, and every time I think of that emotion, I will communicate with you in my heart, and I will feel like going back to the past and changing all this.

    I think it's even more regrettable not to be together in the end, and the heart that has been given will never be taken back. Pursuing someone or having a crush on someone is like an arrow being shot, although it carries your heart, but if it does not hit someone else's heart, it will naturally fall to the ground, and we can go to that position and take the arrow back. But the two people have come together, and the arrow with your heart has been strung together with the other person's heart, and the two hearts have been blended with each other, and if they are forcibly separated, they will naturally be drenched in blood.

    If you haven't gotten it, you won't know how painful it is to lose, two people have never been together, and the regrets in life will be very light, and they will slowly disappear with the course of life. It can be gained and lost, but it can bring great harm to both people, and some people, after loving once, will even feel that they will never be able to fall in love with someone else.

    We always expect ourselves to have perfect love, but in the end, love will always be unrecognizable by us. No one wants to be hurt, but harm may have existed from the beginning.

    If it has been determined that they can't be together in the end, maybe never starting is the greatest kindness to the two people.

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