Should I do this? 10. Should I do this?

See if you are an only child, if so, then you can only listen silently, don't answer the phone, don't express your own opinions, because it is Chinese parents who have a very strong desire to control their children, they think that you are born to him, you should listen to him, follow him, but this does not mean that you let them manipulate, but that if you talk back to them, everyone will think that you are not filial, and if you talk back, they will make them sick, or you will suffer yourself. If there are other brothers and sisters, you can stay away from them, you can use a cold attitude to them, after a long time, they will feel, gradually compromise, don't quarrel, because it is useless, it will not solve the problem, and it will intensify the conflict.

The situation of each family is different, the situation of the parents will not be the same, the situation of each family is different, but it can be changed, you are in your twenties, you can talk to your parents about what kind of ideas, what kind of opinions you can put forward to your parents, so that they understand that you are an adult, no longer a child in your arms, you have your own independent thinking ability and judgment ability, so blindly complying will suppress your development.

Hello, judging from your description, it seems that you are having some trouble communicating with your parents and elders. Parents seem to be more aggressive, they don't want you to challenge their statements, they just want to hear a positive response, and your inner thoughts don't have a chance to be expressed, which may cause emotions to be suppressed in your heart for a long time, and there is nowhere to release them. Try to sit down with your parents and talk calmly about something you don't like them to meddle in, or if you have any other ideas that you would like to bring up to them.

If the original family still causes you a lot of trouble, I recommend a book called "Nonviolent Communication", and you can also listen to lectures on the original family and communication, or participate in some offline group activities in psychology, I believe it will help you deal with this problem.

Two sentences:1Don't try to prove or refute anything with "say", have an idea, and talk about the result directly.

2.Learn to "listen" to what they are really trying to say behind their words, rather than just noticing the words they are addressing.

Let them know that you have grown up, and the next time you eat, you will lift the table in front of the whole family, and when you lift it, you will have to scold "eat a few handfuls of food", and then cut your fingers with a knife in front of them and say "it doesn't hurt at all" so that they don't dare to mess with you.

No, it shouldn't. It shouldn't and shouldn't.

Don't be discouraged. You have to listen to your parents, but you also have to make your own decisions.

My father sometimes did the same, but I listened to what he said and didn't argue with him, because he always thought he was right, and he didn't listen to what others said.

Have you talked to your family, talk openly and honestly, and make it clear that you can be independent.

Mi's parents are very traditional, but this kind of education concept is not ideal, and it is difficult to think of ways to change them, only to change from themselves

This shows that you are not mature and have no ability to be independent. When you have the ability to do that, no one cares about you.

It's so big that you can be independent.

1111 Oh no, won't this be? It's so simple.

In October, you can buy two ice creams, and then buy some ice cream that you can lick for your parents, and keep the rest for a few yuan to use later.