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I can understand your parents' mindset and how you feel about them. Although your parents don't talk much, they believe that they will be a traditional parent. In their time, they had already had children in their 20s, so when you were at your age, there would be a sense of urging you to start a family.
They feel that they can't help you too much financially, and they are worried that you don't want to have a girlfriend because of financial pressure, so they have the idea of going out to work, hoping to reduce your burden. At this point, your parents are very good and understand you, but they don't understand that the times are different, the pace of society has changed, and the concept of marriage and love has also changed. Talk to your mom about it:
Tell them that if you really want to be good, you don't want to go out to work and make money, but to take good care of your body, so that you can struggle outside without worries. As for the matter of marriage, fate will naturally appear, if you find one casually, it will be more troublesome to meet the wrong person, so that they don't have to be anxious for you, and you don't have to urge, if it is suitable, tell them as soon as possible.
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Let's understand my parents. They are also thinking about you as children, for your sister's tuition, for your house, they are anxious. If you are really filial, stand up for yourself, don't let your parents worry about you, if you can't, let your parents do what they are willing to do when they are happy.
It's not easy for anyone to live.
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Dear Parents:
I would like to say to you very much for your continued care and support. It is your selfless dedication that allows me to take fewer detours and suffer fewer setbacks on the road of growth. From the pressure of studying when I was a child to the path of life when I grew up, you have always been my strong support, and I can rely on you at all times.
I am deeply grateful for your love and teaching, which has played a vital role in my life's path.
Now, as an adult, I realize that I need to learn to think for myself and take responsibility. However, that doesn't mean I don't need your support and encouragement. I am eternally grateful for all that you have done for me, these are priceless treasures for me.
I will do everything I can to repay you, including bringing the values you taught me to my family and the next generation.
Finally, I would like to express my love and gratitude once again. I feel very fortunate to have such warm and caring parents as you.
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1.What was your most embarrassing experience?
2.Who do you miss the most?
3.What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
4.What is your biggest dream?
5.What's the most romantic experience you've ever had?
6.What do you think is your greatest strength?
7.What do you think is your biggest shortcoming?
8.What's the biggest thing you've ever been disappointed in?
9.What's the most fearful thing you've ever feared?
10.What's the most touching thing you've ever had?
11.What's the thing you've ever regretted?
12.What's the most proud thing you've ever had?
13.What was the most difficult moment you've ever had in the Sale?
14.What are your plans for the future?
15.What does your ideal partner look like?
16.What's your favorite trip?
17.Have you ever felt guilty about something, what is it?
18.What's the biggest setback you've ever faced?
19.What's the bravest thing you've ever done?
20.Who is your favorite teacher of all time and why?
21.Do you have any unknown hobbies?
22.What's the most touching quote you've ever had?
23.What have you ever been so angry that you cried?
24.What have you ever been ashamed of?
25.Is there anything you'd like to tell your parents that you've never been able to say?
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What I want to do the most is that my parents are healthy and can be by my parents' side to cook the food they want to eat, but what I want to do the most has been working for many years, and I have more opportunities to contact my parents, and I have four or five days a week together. It's almost the New Year, and I want to express my feelings with my parents. On the day of the New Year, I plan to prepare New Year's gifts for my parents, such as my father's new shoes, my mother's new clothes, and a big hug.
Material and spiritual gifts must be had, after all, parents are old, they do not want their children to return much money, they just want to be with their children at a critical moment and enjoy the happiness of old age. The requirements are very low, and those who are children must strive for it. Even if you can't rush home, you have to make a ** and express your greetings.
Of course, it is to give the old people at home a loving hug, and then pull calves with them, everyone sits by the fire together, knocking melon seeds, and from time to time a few words to each other. Ask about the life at home for a year, take care of the elderly's body, ask if there is any discomfort or the like. Then talk to them about their future plans and plans, tell them jokes, make them happy, let them forget what they have missed for a year, live this year happily, and welcome the new year without worry.
New year, new looks. The first thing I want to do when I go home is to get a good night's sleep, no one should wake me up, sleep until I wake up naturally, and make up for the sleep I lacked this year.
This is the happiest thing. Now that I have grown up, I feel more and more tired, and I have also experienced the hard work of my parents, the education of my children, and the health of my parents is getting worse and worse than before. What I want to do most when I get home is to be able to sleep on a hot kang!
It's been a long time since I've been home, and I miss the big pot of stew at home, the hot kang, the neighbors who can meet the neighbors, and the face-to-face chat with my classmates. I want to learn! The beauty of the times!
It was so innocent back then. This year is my first year of work, and my parents have nurtured and educated me for so many years. When I go home for the Chinese New Year this year, I will give my parents a big red envelope, which can be regarded as a small reward for their efforts to me over the years.
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1. The father of the child travels thousands of miles is worried, and he recalls the tears of his loving father. Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been in a dilemma, but I hope that my father will not be white-headed. has been in a foreign country for more than ten years, tossing and turning.
I want to go back to time and enjoy myself on my father's shoulder. 2. You need to be calm in trouble, you need to be calm in life, you can only get angry in a hurry, and calm can have good results. In the scorching summer, only when the heart is wide can the body be fat.
Work and study are very important, vegetables and fruits are indispensable, and it is good to strengthen exercise. May my friends be in good health!
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Check-in material] Chapter 3 of "Saying Yes to Wealth".
Author] Ao Nan dodge.
Title: Say yes to real parents
Word Count] 906
Exporter] Ye Ma.
Body. Accept your parents as they are and say yes to them. Transform the love for parents from blind obedience and sincerity to bright and rational, and truly grow from a child to an adult.
001 Recognize yourself.
I allow myself to be the best, I don't self-sabotage, I give the best in the life my parents gave me, I'm good enough, I'm worth it.
002 "I'm kind of like you".
Accept the fact that you are unconsciously like your parents, and release and become aware of it in acceptance. With awareness, the change has already taken place, and the next step is to consciously choose to clean up: keep it or discard it or store it in a corner.
003 Accept the real father.
My father was originally a person with very weak life energy, and with a strong woman, he was even weaker. I have always had very little contact with my father. Suddenly, I realized that I sometimes disliked my mother, and would attribute the root cause of their unhappy marriage to my mother, and I wanted to protect my father.
It's time to let go of this burden. Dad is big, I'm small, and I respect him for who he really is, and why he became the way he is. He was an alcoholic, and that was his way of coping with situations that he couldn't control.
004 Embrace the real mother.
It turned out that in order to protect my father, I fought against my mother for many years. Since she was a child, she wanted to marry far away, and she didn't discuss her work and marriage, and she didn't care about the family economy after marriage, because she didn't want to quarrel with her father because she valued money as much. I hope to stay away from her in my heart and hope that my marriage will be happy.
In fact, the more I struggled, the more I resisted, the more like her, my husband and I kept arguing during the marriage, and I always felt that we were not on the same frequency.
005 Accept your real husband.
Accept his temperament, accept the way he loves us, accept him for who he really is.
006 Giving or Burdening.
It's easier to give, and it makes us feel good. If we think about it from the perspective of the other side's hunger, it doesn't feel good to be in a state of acceptance forever. When a person always gives to us, he looks bigger than us, and he is helping us.
007 No one can give what they don't have.
Parents are the same, they have their own limitations, they can't give what they don't have, it's theirs, and there's nothing wrong with them.
008 Order.
Everything in the world grows in an orderly manner, and if the order is abnormal, there will be trouble. Love is also orderly, and love should flow from top to bottom.
009 Border.
Taking yourself too seriously can destroy your own vitality. I am not alone, I have parents, there are long ancestors behind my parents, I am the youngest, they pass on their lives to me, I feel their energetic support. Guarding the borders, parents are parents, and children are children.
010 Thanksgiving.
Let go of my pride and complaints, fully accept my real family, and thank my parents for giving me an amazing life.
Accept real parents, respect parents, do not interfere in the fate of parents, enjoy the life they give me, and create a better life.
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