After the breakup, my boyfriend said he had blood cancer, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You tell him that you are willing to spend the last part of your life with him, and if he refuses, you will feel even more uncomfortable, and tell him how much you love him.

    I think he'll agree.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He loves you, is afraid of you, and worries about him, so he is cold to you now, in order to let you live well and forget him.

    If you love each other, you should accompany him for the rest of the time, otherwise you will regret it!!

    I hope you will consider it carefully!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Be by his side. Tell him that you're with him not just for him, but also to make yourself happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it's true, I'll accompany him.

    If it's fake, he'll slap him twice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I never thought that this would happen to me, but whenever I see these news, I also think about what I would do instead, I can't say how I did it, but I would definitely not agree to break up with him. Although cancer is terrible, I don't want to leave the person I love because of fear, although I don't know how long he has to live, then I also hope that in his limited life I will be the one who will accompany him to the end.

    I can understand breaking up with my boyfriend because he has cancer, after all, not everyone has the courage to persevere to the end, and of course he doesn't want his beloved girlfriend to be dragged down. This kind of thing happened unexpectedly, and it was not easy for a girlfriend to make decisions under the pressure of the family, even if they broke up, they had to stay by his side and take care of him in another relationship.

    I believe it would be better to have you by your side in his most difficult moments, and with your encouragement and support while battling the disease, maybe a miracle will happen? Now cancer is not an incurable disease, we must relax our mentality, even if the world is not beautiful for you, you must give back to the world with the most gentle attitude.

    If you are very entangled in whether to agree to his request to break up, it means that your heart is shaken, and I don't want you to choose to stay and take care of him because you are afraid of the world's eyes and the accusations of others, and you must follow your heart's choice. In fact, it doesn't mean much to him to break up, it's true that you still have love, the situation of both parties is very difficult, we might as well wait and see if there will be a turnaround, if you are ready to accompany him through life and death, don't let go of his hand, okay, respect your choice.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, as a woman, I will subconsciously think from a female point of view, if I am in love with a boy and I have cancer, I don't know what the outcome is, assuming that it will not be long, I may wish that he could accompany me for the last paragraph; Assuming that it will drag on for a long time, I may leave him, not because I don't love, but because of love. I think responsibility is one of the most important qualities of a man, and if you really love this girl, you will think about what it will mean for her later life if she agrees to marry and have children. <>

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, the death of a terminally ill lover is indeed a tragic fate, but it is not a fate that you should bear. Anyway, it's hard for me to imagine that if I were terminally ill, my family would persuade my girlfriend to marry me without telling my parents, because that would break the moral bottom line of me and my family. For you, I can only once again responsibly and sincerely advise you to break up.

    If you really can't bear to break up, my advice is to accompany you and not get married. <>

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If love doesn't ask, it will definitely accompany you to the end of the day!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I really love him, what he said I promised him, but after rethinking it, I don't want to try anymore, he told me to be young and find a good life, I said okay, but you know what? I won't be able to forget you for the rest of my life, and I won't be with anything anymore, Yang.

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