I like my boyfriend, and after he proposed to break up, he said we could be very good friends

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's impossible to be friends when you break up, unless you haven't really loved each other.

    As for whether you can reconcile, it depends on what you broke up for, if it's not a matter of principle, try to make amends, since you love him so much.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Girls should also learn to be independent.

    Nothing short of a man?

    The man who said this is very fake!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think it's necessary, the breakup will definitely hurt for you, but if you barely stay with him, it will hurt even more later. Two people need to agree when they are together, but if they want to separate, it is enough for one of them to agree. Think about it yourself, I think no matter how strong the liking is, it will naturally fade after a long time, I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That being said, you have to think about it, don't be too blind, there are a lot of practical problems with breaking up, maybe it's better for you to be friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since you've broken up, it's best not to have any illusions, that will only hurt you, I'm a typical example, go find your true love, I can vouch for it, he already has a new girlfriend, and he won't contact you in a short time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I advise you not to think about it, if you have other ideas, then you will have a hard time even being friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are a couple of couples who can really be friends after a breakup, and he just comforts you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, you can't be friends after a breakup, because you have hurt each other, and you can't become enemies, because you have loved each other, you can only become the most familiar strangers

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't kid yourself, by his side?

    Is it okay to be the third child, your self-esteem allows, there is no need for people to live so lowly and look down on themselves.

    He wants to be friends with you, that is, he wants you to be the third child, and he will not find another man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you have proposed to break up, there must be his reasons, if you really like him, you can ask him why he proposed to break up, is it your reason or he has his own difficulties, if it is irreparable, or don't reluctantly become boyfriend and girlfriend again, it will be very painful for you to him if it goes on, it is better to be a friend than to be the most familiar stranger, you have to be rational, there is no grass at the end of the world, the old relationship does not go to the new relationship can not start.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't take his word for it, he must have said this to get you to agree to the breakup. There are different opinions on the Internet about whether two people who used to be lovers can be friends after breaking up, and some people think that two people who have truly loved each other can't help but be friends; Some netizens said that only people who really love can endure their inner love and be friends with each other. Personally, I think that at this time, you should let go, since two people have broken up, you should be like strangers, and don't think that you can be friends with each other.

    After the breakup, the two people should have broken off contact, although the words are very simple, but for the two people who were once very sweet and have good memories, it takes certain things to come out of this relationship, and it is also this time to calm down.

    You can't be friends with each other, and if you still like him, you can't have "as long as you can be by his side, no matter what your capacity." "It's very dangerous to have such thoughts, because you still haven't come out of the relationship, and the other person has started a new life.

    Long pain is better than short pain, and it is not as good as a short pain.

    It's hard to do, but it's also one of the most effective. Since you broke up, be a stranger, if the other party really loves you, you will not be willing to propose a breakup, nor will you say that you can be best friends.

    The above is just a personal opinion, there will always be many problems in love, and this is also a test of two people and this relationship between two people. is still resolute not to be friends with his ex, to avoid a series of troubles, and at the same time to break the thoughts of the two people. People who offer to say they are friends after breaking up may be just a euphemism, or they may be leaving a "spare tire" for themselves.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People who have really loved each other can't be friends, he may just be temporarily unaccustomed, without your care, to satisfy his own selfishness to show you that even if you don't want you, you have to possess you, then do you still love him, if you still love can be properly retained, if the other party must break up, then the breakup is also chic, and there is no point in continuing to be friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can ask the other party what the reason is, and if the two people really have no feelings, they can directly choose to refuse.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First ask your boyfriend why he broke up, and then tell him that since he wants to choose to break up, he won't even have to be friends in the future, and it's best to be strangers, and not disturbing each other is to respect each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, after mentioning the breakup, your boyfriend said that you feel good, which means that he respects your decision to break up and feels that the two of you are not as suitable as they were at the beginning.

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    Hello, after mentioning the breakup, your boyfriend said that you feel good, which means that he respects your decision to break up and feels that the two of you are not as suitable as they were at the beginning.

    If you don't have to talk about it anymore because the two of you are no longer suitable, this is a peaceful breakup, and it can be regarded as a good memory <>for both parties

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  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Many male friends and girlfriends have been together for too long, and they will propose to break up, saying that they will be best friends in the future.

    But most female friends still can't forget each other, so they still like each other, and at this time, you can directly ask the other party what is the reason for the breakup? If it's not your own problem, then force yourself to let go of your liking for your boyfriend. <>

    In a relationship, male friends say that they break up more often, and most of them are because they have other girls they like, or they can't stand some of their girlfriends' practices. But female friends are emotional animals, so I think the main reason why my boyfriend proposes to break up is that because I haven't done a good job in some places, I will still have an attitude towards my ex-boyfriend as if I didn't break up, which will not cause ripples in the other party's heart, and at the same time make the other party more tired of himself. Therefore, female friends can only make reasonable behaviors after understanding the reasons, if it is because of their own personality or not suitable to be a girlfriend, then at this time they should reflect on their behavior.

    In addition, if the other party says that he has met a new girl, then it is not his problem at this time, there is no need to like the other party anymore, and you can say goodbye to this relationship. Because if this relationship continues to be saved, then the boyfriend may like other female friends in the future life, so the best way is to cut off the relationship between himself and his ex-boyfriend. Expand your social circle, and wait until you meet someone of the opposite sex who likes you in the future, then it's not too late to start a relationship.

    Finally, I want to say that everyone will look at the topic of breakup, after all, two people's three views do not agree, and family backgrounds do not coincide, there will be a breakup. There are still some people who will break up when they are about to enter the palace of marriage. So you have to think about it, and since you like it, you have to go for it, but the result may not be particularly good, so you have to prepare for the worst.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then break up, the breakup proposed by the boy is a real breakup, and the breakup proposed by the girl is waiting for the other party to stay, like him can continue to like it as a friend, or find a boy with the same interests and hobbies to change his mind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can only forget about him. If a man doesn't love a woman, no matter how much the woman tries to move him, the man will never fall in love with the woman.

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