What would you do if you were in such a situation?

Updated on society 2024-07-07
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I've been in a similar situation to you. In the past, when he opened his own store, he was beautiful, but he was paid yellow by his parents. Now, I work in a factory and only earn a few hundred yuan a month. I hated it, but I can't hate it now.

    What can you do to a parent who has only a primary school education and doesn't know anything other than factory work? What can you tell them? Reasoning, they are still only at the first level, and when it comes to development, that is something they don't understand.

    In their minds, all they have to do is to work honestly and earn money that seems safe to them ...

    A word of advice to you, if you can't get back up in failure, then don't let it happen. If failure has already come at this point, either you stand up or you become an ordinary person.

    So, don't resent anyone. Learn to be strong.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Always respected, loved, and helped my father. So it should not be intentional, right? So, because of a single mistake, does it negate the love, help, care, and nurturing of the previous twenty or thirty years?

    You can do it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Fish, I want too; The bear's paw is also what I want; You can't have both, and those who give up the fish and take the bear's paw are also.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A question is that your money is important or is your dad important !!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then it depends on why! Since he has always been good for you and you respect him, you need to communicate with him! There is no knot that cannot be untied!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Slim the family. Amitabha.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In this case, you need to follow your own heart, and try to see the advantages of the other party as much as possible. Let's take a look at the circumstances under which a breakup is necessary. Couples must break up, the premise must be that the damage to you is more than you can bear, this injury has caused your spirit, the depression in your heart makes you unable to resolve, unable to live and work normally, so that you have a feeling that life is worse than death, and this pressure affects your normal life and work, affects your spirit, and makes you have a kind of burden, which overloads your ability to cope.

    For example, if you are together, the other party is very picky, likes to calculate, impatient, even if it is his fault, he will never admit his mistake, only others admit his mistakes, he is always right, he can't listen to the advice of others, he always feels that other people's persuasion is redundant, he is short-tempered, hurtful in his mouth, and he doesn't listen to his words, this kind of person is domineering in life, and you will quarrel or fight with you if you are not satisfied, this is a very difficult to change character and a person with a bad temper, and in such a situation must break up. Because you don't have the warmth of love together, you don't have a sense of security to rely on, such a person is of low quality, you can't reason with him, and you will do something to others if you don't go your way.

    Seeing a**, at noon, a cleaning uncle squatted on the side of the road outside the building to eat, the broom was put aside, did not affect anyone, at this time a man rushed out of the building and kicked the uncle's broom out, and knocked over the uncle's lunch box, at this time a passer-by who couldn't stand it ran over and kicked the man who kicked over the uncle's lunch to the ground. When we applaud passers-by for seeing injustice, we will think that the angry man must have encountered something to do this, so it is very uncomfortable to get along with a person with a bad temper.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I would advise you to take the following steps::

    1.Stay calm: No matter how rude or unfair the person's behavior is, we should remain calm. An emotional reaction can make the situation worse and may even lead to arguments or conflicts.

    2.Try to communicate with the other person: If the person is unreasonable, we can try to communicate with him.

    Politely tell him that this seat was booked by us and ask him to change to a different seat. If he refuses or has a bad attitude, we can try to explain the situation of the seat and try to convince him to change to a different seat.

    3.Seek help from the crew: If we are unable to resolve the issue, we can seek help from the crew. The crew usually has the experience and methods to solve such problems, and appropriate measures are taken to ensure fairness and order.

    4.Protect your own interests: If the person refuses to cooperate, we can ask the crew to provide alternative seats or assist in resolving the problem in order to protect our own interests.

    In any case, we should stand up for our rights, but at the same time make sure that our words and actions do not affect the rights and interests of others.

    We can show our patience and calmness to other passengers to set a good example of how to deal with similar issues in a way that is reasonable, fair and not too aggressive.

    In short, when dealing with similar issues, we should always remain calm and rational, respect the rights and feelings of others, and try to solve the problem in a reasonable, just and not overly aggressive way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If I were a tree kitten and I met a woman like Xinxin, I would divorce Zhai Xinxin immediately.

    As a person who has had a family and love, Zhai Xinxin does feel very painful and helpless, I will try to communicate with him honestly to understand his inner world, listen to his thoughts and needs, and try to establish good trust and communication between the two of us, so as to find a more suitable solution for both of us.

    I need to learn to let go of the past and accept the reality, facing the future I will not always be immersed in the shadow of the past, otherwise I will not be able to move forward, I need to learn to accept the reality and let go of the obsession with the past. and hatred, start your life again, so that you can find your own interests and hobbies, devote yourself to work life, and let yourself regain happiness and satisfaction.

    In addition, I will remain calm, I will not be swayed by my emotions, I should try to avoid emotional behavior, I will not take too emotional or angry, I will not make drastic decisions, I will calmly think about the consequences of each choice, weigh the pros and cons, and find the most suitable solution for myself and the other party.

    At the same time, I will also learn to forgive myself, let go of past mistakes and mistakes, and start my life again, I need to start from a human point of view, try to understand the other party's heart and way, maintain a calm and confrontational mentality, let go of the past, accept the present, and argue about the future, so that I can regain happiness and satisfaction after experiencing pain, so that I can make my life happier and sweeter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this case, as a parent, first of all, Liang Shen will think deeply and analyze the root of the problem, clarify the thinking, and then adopt some feasible strategies

    Find help from family membersIf possible, I try to adjust my or my spouse's working hours and try to take care of the children on my own. If that's not possible, I see if there are other family members, such as grandparents, uncles and aunts, who can help with babysitting at certain times.

    Making the most of your family's resources is the first step.

    Community Resources: If family resources don't meet the need, I consider community resources. For example, local children's daycare centers, after-school activities at school, etc., may be a powerful help for me to take care of my children.

    I will try to understand and compare these services and choose the most suitable one for my child.

    Hire a babysitter or childcare worker: If I can afford it, I would consider hiring a professional nanny or childcare worker to take care of the children. During this process, I will be very careful with the selection process, because it is not only about the safety of the child, but also about the environment in which the child will grow up.

    Flexible work arrangements: I try to talk to my employer to see if it's possible to adjust my working hours or if I can offer some opportunities to work remotely. I recognize that this may not always work, but I think it's worth trying.

    Develop your child's self-care skills: Depending on the age of the children, I try to develop their self-care skills. I teach them basic chores such as making beds, simple cooking, and how to stay home safely.

    This strengthens their independence and also relieves me of stress on myself.

    I know I'm probably going to be under a lot of pressure until I find the best solution. I will try to be calm and patient, and I will be open and honest with my children to let them know that I am working hard to solve the problem in the imitation scum, and I will try to make sure that their lives are not affected too much.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I would refuse to pay.

    Unacceptable. Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

    As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

    If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

    As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

    Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

    The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

    Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

    However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

    1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I was very shocked to hear this story, and I thought that if I had encountered this situation, I would do the following:

    1.Hold your horses. First of all, I will keep my head calm, not too excited, and not too strong negative emotions towards my friends.

    2.Get the facts. I will take the initiative to find out the facts, to understand my friend's real thoughts and behaviors, to find out why she is doing this, whether it is unintentionally or deliberately tricking me into consumption.

    3.Direct communication. If my friend acted unintentionally, I would communicate directly with her to express my dissatisfaction and disappointment, and hope that she would take the initiative to bear some of the loss. Silver-based shirts.

    4.Seek legal help. If my friend acted intentionally, I would seek legal help to protect my rights. In this case, I will choose to take legal means to solve the problem through legal means.

    5.Maintain friendships. Either way, I want to be able to maintain my friendships with my friends. After all, trust and mutual understanding between friends are the most precious treasures.

    In general, if I encounter such a situation, I stay calm, understand the facts, communicate directly, seek legal help, and hopefully maintain my friendship with my friends throughout the process. I believe that through continuous communication and communication, the trust and understanding between people will become deeper and deeper.

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