Am I right to do this separation from my girlfriend ?

Updated on society 2024-07-07
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When encountering such a thing, you must not separate. If you separate, it is a sign that you are getting farther and farther away from her. Because when she needs care and care the most, and you are not. Over time, she'll think of finding someone to replace you!

    If you still love her and don't want to lose her. Let's go back. In the event of a quarrel due to some discord.

    You only use one action. It's all in one sentence. Go up and hug her tightly.

    Then say softly, I'm sorry. It was my fault. I love you so much.

    I think even the most stubborn girl will be touched when she hears the words I love you. People have feelings. If you insist on it, you have seen.

    kept arguing with her, and she became even more energetic. Because she believes she's right. But there is a good saying.

    I want to get away with it. Retreat. You give up.

    Sign that you love her. She will love you in the same way. If this girl can't do that.

    I don't have to say. Dump someone.

    Those who know how to give deserve to be rewarded. Brother Tai wishes you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not bad to try the life of the two people who don't live together, if they are not together, they will reduce quarrels over trivial things, in addition, see if they will be very disappointed if they are separated, feel what they have lost, what they need in their hearts, and whether they want her or not, you can experience it. If you don't feel it anymore, or you're happier, then break up, sooner or later, or you plan to live like this for the rest of your life, which is more important for a lifetime?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be tolerant. Brother, learn to be tolerant.

    After being together for a long time, you will be a little bored, but you also have feelings, and a real breakup will hurt each other. If so, try it apart for 2 months?

    You're all going to regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I have to say that you are a master in love and a dwarf in economic strength. When others talk about love, they want to prepare a wedding house and a wedding car, how do you pay the rent are stretched, you are shy, and you want to share it with your live-in girlfriend, how can you be embarrassed to speak? May I ask you, is your monthly salary not enough to pay for the house, electricity and water bills, if you say that the economy has been tight in recent months, do you have no savings at all, and you are a moonlight family?

    <>However, if it is unreasonable, cohabitation under the marriage law is a violation of the law, and you dare not afford to raise a girl, what qualifications do you have to cohabit? As long as you get your marriage certificate and you are poor, we will bless you and give it to you, this disgraceful thing is really shameful. If you still encounter such a stage of difficulty,will not take the initiative to ask the woman to bear the expenses, but will borrow money from the womanAnd he will also honestly tell the woman about his economic situation, express the reason for lending money, in order to obtain the woman's understanding, that's all.

    If this girlfriend really loves you, it's not a problem at all, love is mutual, and when you encounter difficulties, you can best see a person's character, if you can't help you get through it, if you really have difficulties, you can directly tell your girlfriend that it's a bit difficult to pay rent recently. I think she'll offer to help you, but don't say anything like that. Such a woman is not worthy of your cherishment, whether it is love or marriage, any unbalanced relationship will not last long.

    The premise is that you have always been good to her, or usually willing to spend money on her.

    If you are a little careless, you may leave, and I personally feel that you should communicate well with your girlfriend, and if your girlfriend has the financial ability, you can share it. If two people share happiness, there will be two happiness, and if two people share hardship, there will be only half of hardship. You should cherish your girlfriend who can go through hardships together, such a relationship foundation is better!

    borrowed loan sharks or various online loans. In fact, sometimes contradictory with my husband, many times he likes to carry it alone, I think the person who loves to talk about his own difficulties or pressure the other party to understand your situation, and will understand your difficulties better! More tolerant of you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that if you live with your girlfriend, of course she should share the rent of the chain, after all, the two of you don't have any relationship with each other in this aspect of marriage at the moment, so I think everyone needs to bear this cost together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, it should be apportioned to. Even though she's your girlfriend, she's also responsible for some of your expenses. It's fairer to do that.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I personally think that girls should pay the rent, but it's better for boys not to let girls share the rent by themselves, if the girls don't say it, we can go out by ourselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Living with a female Zhaomeng friend, I think she should still share the rent, although the relationship is shared by the clan Li Qiao, the disturbance but the responsibility is still to be shared, so the relationship will be more meaningful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, because two people have not yet reached the point of talking about marriage, it is best not to have too many entanglements in terms of money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I believe everyone should be familiar with long-distance relationships, some people may have experienced it, and some people should be experiencing it. It is undeniable that a long-distance relationship is indeed painful and difficult, but because of the deep love for each other and the dedication to this relationship, even if the long-distance relationship is difficult, everyone has been persevering. So how to solve the long-distance relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

    Or how should a long-distance relationship get along? I have summarized a few points that I hope will be helpful to you who are in a long-distance relationship.

    1. Be sure to communicate more.

    Communication is very important for two people in a relationship, especially for people who are in a long-distance relationship, communication is also the most important thing. Maybe some small things can be solved with a hug, but because it is a long-distance relationship, there is no way to hug, and it will become a big problem. Then at this time, you must communicate well with the other party.

    No matter what, as long as you say it, then the other party must be able to understand, so you must communicate, you must say it.

    2. Be sure to accompany each other more.

    3. Be sure not to disappear for no reason, but to respond to everything.

    Because it is a long-distance relationship, many times two people do not know each other's life on this day, so you must pay attention to it at this time, and you must not disappear for no reason. Maybe you have something to do, so at this time you must take a minute or two to talk to the other party, even if you don't have time to say it, you must tell the other party when you are busy. Responding to everything is the most important thing to pay attention to in a long-distance relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I usually call him **, the two of them talk about food, talk about parents, and make do with feelings, so that there won't be too much generation gap.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This situation is not allowed to occur on its own. In the case of separation, you may have to break up or quit your job to decide together, because separation will lead to many changes, and it is impossible for you to deal with it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    We often agreed to meet once a week, so we could sort out a lot of things.

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