My girlfriend is older than me, and my feelings for me are weak, so I need to save it 20

It's simple, don't give up if you like it, leave if you don't like it, and you'll find a better one.

It is not so easy to maintain a long-distance relationship, you have to control the other party's heart and reason for the other person. It's not that simple. If you feel tired, sit down and think about what you want, no one knows yourself better than you, right?

I wish you happiness.

What's going on?!! It's a sibling relationship and a long-distance relationship! According to common sense, if the sister and brother are in love, the sister will be more active, and this kind of relationship will enter the next stage, but the sister and brother love meets the long-distance relationship, I think it is time to test common sense.

If she says that her feelings for you are getting weaker and weaker, then it can only mean one problem, she didn't receive it before she considered it, and now she is in a different place and her mind is also open, and she suddenly feels that you only belong to her brother, and she needs to be more mature to rely on, so the relationship fades. If you are still reluctant to give up on her, I don't think there is much chance, and if there is a generation gap in love, it will be much more difficult than before. So friends, please solemnly grasp it, if you feel that you have no bottom in your heart, you will resolutely let go and forget, if there is still a possibility of redemption, then ask the next step.

I hope my advice will help you!

The biggest reason for many breakups because of long-distance relationships is distance! Relying on **and** alone will not give the other party comfort. You should know that. A lot less intimacy means a lot less sweet memories, which is often important for a girl.

Is it possible to spend more time with her? Give more surprises, more encouragement, and more confidence to each other, so that you are both more determined! You know, love is such a thing that sometimes it's so annoying, and sometimes it's just a doze and you think it's gone.

So don't kill it while it's asleep!

I really hope you will keep going! If she still loves you

It's easy! Listen to me!

First: It's better not to develop a long-distance relationship with the children of this poor family (netizens don't mind), no matter whether you succeed or fail, you are a failure!

Second: This long-distance relationship is time-consuming, it is not easy to solve the problem, and the problem is solved most thoroughly in person, you will not run for a problem! It's not worth it! And I don't understand what to do if I don't solve it!

Thirdly: if you really love her, then you should make a decision no matter what, without hesitation, no matter what method you use to get the result and reason!

And finally! Brother, I send you four sentences:

1) The wind eats up the grass;

2) Rabbits do not eat the grass next to the nest;

3) Good horses don't eat back grass;

4) Where in the world is there no fragrant grass; Remember!

If you have a chance to stay together recently, you can redeem it. If there is no chance, it will break up sooner or later. It's inevitable.

To sum up, it is recommended to go with the flow, and there is not much value in recovery. Reason: Read the original text again.

Not necessarily. If it changes, forget it.

Time is the best medicine, find something that interests her and talk about it. Take the initiative, boy.

Why Redemption? What happened before? This is done differently.

But there is one point, that is, to always care about each other, if the other party thinks you are annoying, you will pretend to be pitiful or something, in fact, girls also like their boyfriends to be coquettish to themselves, or do something to make the other party feel that you care about yourself. But the feelings are fading, after all, she may be too disappointed in you in her heart, you have to take the initiative.

Try to do something surprising to her, or test her to care if she cares about you.

Then it's really gone... Women are generally gone, they really don't, and sometimes they are dedicated and intense.

There are many ways to save love, but you also have to analyze it in detail according to the breakdown of your relationship, set up a plan to save love that is suitable for you, and there are many ways to save your relationship, which can help ......

The twisted melon is not sweet, the relationship is expensive in the love between the two, if one party has no feelings, it is better to break it, but if you still like her, go and please her, you should know her better than netizens, come on!

If you really love him, you should redeem your lover.

My girlfriend and I have known each other online for more than two years, almost three years, and now the relationship is very good, we have had your situation before, and I feel a little confused about the relationship, but fortunately, we have not given up, since you want to love, you have to learn to keep it fresh, keep it fresh for your love, the reason why you feel tired may be because you have passed the freshness and mystery at the beginning, and now talking and chatting feels like a routine without the original feeling, so at this time you have to think about how to continue this relationship, Then you should think about how to make the chat that has become routine interesting and deepen your feelings, this is my experience, if you want to talk about it in detail, continue to ask.

Online dating is inherently empty, no wonder you feel tired of each other, besides, how can love always be in love? Who can tell you sweet words every day? I feel that my relationship has faded in just three months, so if I really want to get married, how can I endure the dull days in the future?

Take your time, take a break when you're tired, it's not a big deal.

If it changes, it changes, even if it is redeemed all at once, it will still be divided, most of the women in online dating have a very heavy romantic plot, and this kind of plot will make people pay attention to the feeling. I don't feel that it's useless for you to redeem it.

Hey, I've tried this too.

You both need some time to think about your own feelings, and if your love doesn't stand the test of time, there's no point in continuing to be together again.

If you really don't want to be separated, try to remember how it was like to be together, re-enact the scene of chasing her again, and you can also make some romantic things, give some small gifts or something.

You can calm down for a while, such as not contacting for 2 months, and see how each other reacts. Perhaps, after 2 months, she will feel that she can't do without you, the best way.

If you love together, if you don't love, you leave each other, because when you are together, you love each other.

Calm, the relationship needs to experience dullness, after all, we will live together for a lifetime in the future.

The relationship also has to go through a run-in period, maybe you choose to go through this kind of run-in, but don't give up lightly, it will be fine after a while.

How do you measure your relationship for 3 months? People itch for seven years, and you only itch for 3 months? Let's find out why.

A third person appears? Or do you guys simply not fit? Or do you care enough?

If you really don't love anymore, you will be sad to be reluctantly together.

Let's communicate well, if you love each other, there is nothing that can't be solved.

Does she really love you? Three months is not long, and it is short. It is necessary to consider whether her heart belongs to you or not. It's better to give up if it doesn't belong to you, or it's you who will get hurt in the end.

After a long time, the strangeness at the beginning will be gone, and when it becomes familiar, everything will feel dull.

If you want to divide it, you have to be fast, don't procrastinate, it's useless to wait for a woman to change.

It is said that men are amorous and affectionate, and women are infatuated and ruthless. I think your girlfriend is much more realistic than you, and there are a few women who are unrealistic now.

If it's me, no matter how much I love me, I won't keep it, since I want to divide, either I don't love you anymore, or it's not suitable, anyway, there must be a reason, it's better to make yourself better, find someone you love and love you-

If you think she can, keep it, and if you don't think it's okay, don't keep it.

When a woman tells you what you said above, I won't repeat it, it's already very clear to tell you her intentions, in fact, I can see from your words that what you say about your relationship is very good, just your feelings, not from her feelings, just ask, how can the other party who has always been very affectionate, how can it be suddenly, pay attention, is to suddenly tell you that you are not so loved, tired, and then there is no love, this, I think the onlookers can see clearly the meaning of the underlying expression.

I'll try to find a few breakpoints, compare them yourself, and see if it works.

First, you just finished your college exams, and here you just graduated from college? Or have you just entered the entrance exam? After graduating from college, then the stay of both of you and the future work environment will cause each other's sense of crisis, which also shows that the economic strength of both of you is not strong, because this is a very real problem, love bread can no longer be eaten in reality, you need to plan your road in the next few years, and have a plan to bring her some confidence.

I just entered college, then, such a breakup rate is quite high in the cases I have done, and there is basically no room for recovery, after all, we said that it can't be called love, it's just that the two parties have a good impression of each other and chat, and in this case, I think you want to continue your relationship, you need to do a lot, and in the end it may even delay your studies. It is recommended to talk to your girlfriend again, tell her what you think, and then ask her about the future she wants. If you can give, say a specific plan, time, maybe you can save some, you can't give, just let go, this relationship doesn't belong to you.

Secondly, women need to care, my personal feeling for you should not be too concerned about some of your girlfriend's actions, behaviors, when a person changes, especially feelings, can generally reflect some details from daily behaviors, actions, and words, and grasp them at the beginning, improve them, and change them, and when these behaviors reach the middle and late stages, and then make changes, then, not to mention that you need to pay several times the original price, and the effect is obviously not to achieve the expected effect.

Let's talk about it once. Whether you have just finished the university entrance examination or just been admitted to the university, and then go with the flow, let go of the one who should let go, and continue to continue, the road behind you has just begun, be yourself, and use your strength to prove it like her.

Probably really don't love it.,Feelings are a wonderful thing.,Yesterday I was happy with my boyfriend.,Today suddenly I don't like him.,We've been together for more than a year.,I also want to get married.,As a result, this sudden change.,It's too unexpected.,No sign there's no other thing.,It's sudden.。。。 I broke down today, I cried all day, how can I say that I don't have a good feeling.

The manifestation of immaturity of the mind, in fact, the real sense of the feeling is inherently bland, and the real sense of the feeling is beyond the material level, which is a common psychological state. In real life, it is difficult to do, especially the love between men and women, because no relationship can surpass human nature, for example, selfishness in human nature, love is the same, in fact, both sides are trade-offs.

If you can't let it go, it is recommended to change the state, find something else to do, divert your attention, so that it will be good after a while, love is only a small part of your life, not the whole thing.

But women are also quite troublesome, maybe they say it on purpose, in short, it is recommended that you go with the flow and not get caught up in it.

Of course, it's easier said than done, it's best to change the state, don't think about it every day.

good luck for you

Hello friends.

Actually, this situation is quite easy to happen.,You talked about it in high school.,The relationship when you're young is generally immature.,It's not real love.,At the time, it was fresh and fun.,After a while, the heat dropped, and I felt bored.。 I don't know if the two of you have been admitted to the same university, if you don't see each other, it will definitely be difficult to maintain the relationship, maybe this is the case when she said she was tired.

I've also experienced such a stage before, but I don't know why I feel that my feelings are weak, and this is also the case when I break up with my ex-girlfriend. The so-called twisted melon is not sweet, if you have no feelings, it is not interesting to continue to talk about it, it is better to break up peacefully and find your true happiness.

Good luck.

People are higher animals with feelings, and people get along with each other to pay true feelings, think about if a person treats you well, understands you once, and helps you once, you may not be moved, but if it is twice, three times. Or even for a lifetime?

Be romantic, say something sweet, care more about her, and give some points.

Try to let go and give each other some space, maybe it will work better!

Well, that's right, this is a confrontational period in love, and if you get through it, you will never be able to separate again, you have to hold on.

It's just a stage to pass.