I m 4 years older than my girlfriend I m 93 and she s 97 and just a few months talking about the rel

Emotional love is reluctant to hurt, because I have feelings for you, so I don't want you to be sad, so I am reluctant to hurt your ......

Feelings are to leave silently when it is time to leave, no one is deliberately trying to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Feelings are waiting, when I have feelings for you, I would rather wait like this stupidly all the time, I can wait desperately for ......

Feelings are giving up, and if you have feelings for you, I hope you can be happy, so I learn to give up ......

Feelings are love and hate.

As deep as love is, as deep as hatred ......

Feelings, she is the most complex and simplest thing in the world;

She is the easiest thing in the world to have, and the easiest to lose;

He is the most lovable and the most hated thing in ...... world

Feelings: The greatest weakness of humanity!

Feelings are the bane of contradictions!

Feelings are the wealth given by God, and what is the point of living without feelings. What people pour into them is emotionally invested.

You have problems inside and out, what's the use of insisting on you alone? It's better to let it be, it's not a big deal to break up when you should break up, don't force it if you don't have enough fate, you will live happily if you look down on everything.

Her parents are not satisfied with you, so even if you have a good relationship with her, it will be difficult for you to marry her in I think it is better to stop the loss in time There are cracks in the relationship.

Summary. Hello, even at the same age, girls will be more mature in thought and behavior than boys, not to mention that your girlfriend is two years older than you, so what your girlfriend said is not wrong.

My girlfriend is two years older than me, she is 19, I am 17, she thinks it is wrong for the two of us to be together, because she feels that age, time, and people are all problems, because my mind is not as mature as hers, more naïve, my girlfriend is much better than me, she thinks I am naïve, immature, can't speak, anyway, I just think I'm not good enough, I haven't reached the way she wants in her heart, we've only been together for three months, I've been slowly changing, but I can't change so fast, She wants me to become mature all of a sudden, which is very powerful, and she also hopes that the other party can teach her what she doesn't know in her relationship.

Hello, even at the same age, girls will be more mature than boys in terms of thinking and behavior, not to mention that your girlfriend is two years older than you, so what your girlfriend said is not wrong.

You really need to change, or your girlfriend will be getting farther and farther away from you, and what she is saying to you now, which is that she is not mature enough to dislike you in Lushou, and she also wants you to lead her in thought and other aspects, and you will not change so quickly, you need to have a conversation with your girlfriend about this.

Tell her about your distress and worries, and tell her that you will do your best to meet her requirements.

And the specific promotion method is mainly in the body and mind, you need to do more sports, at least let your smiling appearance look like a limb, but also let your girlfriend have a sense of dependence.

In addition, in Si Zen, you have to build yourself into a mature person, that is, an adult, an adult who can take charge of himself, and only when you can be alone, your girlfriend will look up to you more and more.

But she now definitely felt that we had no results, and that it was wrong for us to be together, but we had only been together for three months.

What has the other person done to you now, and has he done anything that makes you feel more and more distant from her?

It must be very wise to break up in this state, and the short pain is better than the long one! Otherwise, if you are married now, you will probably push on women if you have something wrong in your career or missed any opportunities in the future. At the same time, I feel that there should be more than just a simple question between you that you are afraid of delaying her, there must be many other factors, think about it carefully!

Since you care so much about age and future, I advise you not to delay others, after all, the four-year-old gap exists objectively, don't suffer from gains and losses in this matter, she is dead to you and feels hopeless and will find her happiness again.

You didn't do it right before, because you knew that she was 4 years older than you, and you still had to make friends with her, and you had some bad intentions. Now because she is 4 years older than you can't accept it, I want to break up with her, no matter how high-sounding your excuse is now, what you are doing now is right, after all, older women can't afford to delay, although it is a little painful to fall out of love, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, which is beneficial to the woman. You really don't love her enough, and if you love enough, you won't break up just because you're 4 years older.

But since you don't love each other enough, let people go clearly, and no longer take it personally, which can be regarded as if you still have a conscience.

It's obviously not enough to love her, you're just lonely because you don't have her, that's not love at all, if you love, you can't accept it if you break up, like you said, just break up, don't delay her, it's difficult for a woman to find a marriage partner after 30, unlike men, 35 can be found casually if you are not married.

You can talk to her about what you think and ask her what she thinks. This kind of thing involves two people, and isn't it a bit inappropriate for you to make a unilateral decision alone.

If you feel comfortable together, it's a good fit, it's natural. It's not impulsive together.,Then you can consider continuing.,If not.,Then let it go.,Maybe each will find the most suitable one for their own memory.。。 Let's think about it.

Not making this decision will affect your life later in life.

If you really love her, you will show it with your actions. No one said that if you get married, you can't break in.

Struggle, why not fight with the woman you love. It's great to be happy every day, to have infinite strength every day, and to have a woman behind you in your most difficult time!!

But you hesitate, full of excuses, stop being hypocritical, that is, you don't love anymore!!

I can see that you still have a little conscience, so take the initiative to disappear completely, don't hesitate, you will kill people!!

Tell her clearly, if she thinks you are worth her waiting, I believe she will wait for you.

I have a colleague whose wife is five years older than him and lives like an ordinary person, and I have never seen a quarrel.

I don't know how long the two of you have been together, but you have to understand that love will fade away one day, it will become another stage, family affection, maybe a woman older than you can now give you a lot of love, care, and understanding than girls of the same age, you love her, but at the same time you also have to love your own parents, you are only 24 years old now, your girlfriend is 31 years old, divorced, do you know why she divorced, at least you should ask this matter clearly, I think you should not be in a hurry to get married at your current age, But what about your girlfriend, a woman is 31 years old, should she have a baby, should she have it, and can you give it? Even if you give, well, you think about it seriously, your child may not be sensible when he is young, and when he is older, he looks at the father or a young man, what about the mother? He is already old, so he must ask, how are you going to answer him?

I don't know what you think, love is bound to be beautiful now, but with the passage of time, it will really become withered and boring, so you have to find a way to save it, but that requires you to have a strong sense of responsibility, when you are 24 she is 31, nothing, but what about when you are 34? She's 41, which isn't terrible, but he's already 51 when you're 44, and he's 61 when you're 54, you're still middle-aged, and she's already getting old. Friend, I think you still have to think about it, can you afford this responsibility?

Can you really stay the course? I don't think you're very old, don't be in a hurry to talk about marriage, you can clearly say that your mind is not particularly mature, if you marry her, and then you regret it, she was divorced once, do you have this certainty to say that you only love her for the rest of your life? You may say yes now, swear by it, but when you're older, you'll really understand.

If you think you can, then cherish her, take her alone, and your parents will agree after a long time. Think about it.

If you really love each other, age is not a problem.

If you love, you will insist on finding the reason for your love rationally Try to make your parents understand your emotional world In fact, choosing does not need too many people to understand Because no one will think about and bear the consequences for your purpose There are many people in this world who are getting married and divorced and you are just one of them What about the choice Tomorrow is still full of hope When you escape in front of the choice The light is not there is the theme of your tomorrow Rationally insist on your choice Think about what you need What you have and how many things you have to cherish and cherish Tomorrow in the future ! Actually, no one knows, if you think about what you can get tomorrow, give up, if you choose to accept your heart, just do it, buddy, support you.

It's okay to play, just get married.

In the past, I always thought that age was the gap and distance was the problem, but in this era, as long as the two people really love each other (sincerely), everything is not a problem.

Hold the hand of the son, grow old with you! Don't give up at the moment of holding hands, no matter how difficult it is, two people hold hands and work together. People's hearts are flesh and blood, as long as you and her prove that your love is innocent and love each other, your parents will agree.

They don't approve of you just because they love you too much and don't want you to feel unhappy.

Here, I sincerely wish you happiness!

If your mind is mature and you are sure that you really love her, she can also face the rumors and gossip with you in the future, and share the joys and sorrows, then don't care about the world's eyes, bless you.

Boldly love each other, there are lovers and eventually there are families.

Hehe, parents don't agree that attention is based on reality. You should think about why your parents don't agree and what are the reasons.

Don't say love, are you willing to die for him? A marriage that is not blessed will not be happy.

If you really love each other, age is not a distance, but you have to solve it on your parents' side, and do your best to convince them.

First of all, I think it's a bit short to talk about marriage after half a year together, and the emotional foundation may not be enough, so it may be better to spend more time getting to know each other.

Secondly, what I heard was only your side of the story, I was not a participant in the incident, so I don't know who is right and who is wrong between the two of you, if it is really as you said, your girlfriend said before that the bride price is in charge of their family, and when it comes to really talking about marriage, it is indeed her fault, and it is inevitable that there will be a quarrel.

In addition, since you have come to the step of getting married, you must be ready to face all challenges, a bride price of 100,000 yuan may be a lot of pressure on you, but since you want to be a husband and wife, two people should face this problem together and find a way to solve the difficulties, instead of breaking up after a quarrel.

I am not afraid of 10,000 people blocking it, but I am afraid of surrendering myself. After this incident, I think you should be glad that you are not married to her. Two people come together to form a family and live together, they will face a lot of difficulties, "100,000 yuan bride price" is just one of many difficulties, and the other party just because of this problem easily gave up on you, then even if you get married in the future, when you encounter greater difficulties after marriage, she will not choose to bear it with you.

Such a woman is not worthy of you, you deserve better!

One of the three ways is to let go, the other you have these bride price, the third can convince her and her family, let them believe that you will be good to her but it is difficult, the current situation is that she is older than you, I think the chance of keeping it back is not very good,. Adjust your mindset so that you can take the next step.

You should work hard, and if you really love him, borrow it, as long as you are together, you can slowly pay it back in the future, if you give up, it will be a pain in your life.

In the same situation as you, the woman asked for more than 100,000, three times as much as on our side, I can't stand it, their family chooses not to give in, and in the end they can only choose to break up.