The 40 year old leftover man thinks he is high, and he has a house and a car, are he afraid that he

As long as he can accept that the little girl doesn't like him for himself, he will definitely not be afraid of not finding the little girl.

This article is very realistic.,In addition to the age factor.,The older the adult, the more complex the psychology.,The real feelings are getting less and less.,If I had a daughter, I wouldn't recommend that she find someone much older than her.,Because even if the other party is rich.,People's money is not blown by the wind.,And it's not stupid.,The rich pay attention to the portal marriage.,The woman's conditions are generally about the same.。。 Almost too much to marry into the in-law's family will generally look down on the woman and her family, the woman has the right to speak at home, after a long time, the bamboo basket is empty, no one can bear anyone, unless the woman's emotional intelligence is particularly high, and the food is set to the husband and her mother-in-law's house, otherwise the bamboo basket is empty. A man's high marriage hurts his self-esteem, and he generally marries a low marriage.

Maybe his point of view is wrong, now is not the previous society, love does not necessarily depend on material interests, it is still necessary to reflect on it.

Since you know that you are suffering from age, you should "learn from each other's strengths" and "save the country by curves". If you can't use fame, fame, or appearance to attract a woman's attention, then use companionship to gain a woman's favor, otherwise how to say that "companionship is the most affectionate confession"?

I hope that the older leftover men here can see the reality clearly, face the reality, and find the other half according to their actual situation.

I think he is indeed very confident in such a man, but his self-esteem and lofty attitude, in fact, not everyone will like him, now he is not a little girl, he can look at any person.

I think it's disgusting that they think like this, and although many young girls like to be more mature, they can still distinguish between material things.

I think he is thinking too much, because the little girl now doesn't care about how much money the other party has, but depends on the other person's personality, unless she looks for those more snobbish women.

This is a wrong idea, although economic strength is important, but feelings are equally important, such an idea is only married to a girl who covets his money.

As long as you are a self-motivated person, it is still possible to get rich, but if you have already got by, there is little hope for throwing the pot to the younger generations, so let's talk about this issue specifically.

1. In this society, it is not uncommon for people in their 40s to have no house or car. In real life, it's not uncommon for people to live in poor homes and not have cars, and for the wealthy who are not short of money, 10,000 dollars may be just a drop in the bucket. However, for some low-income people, especially some particularly difficult families, no is nothing, and when it is important to be slow, they can't take it out.

Second, in fact, there are lows and highlights in life, and it is actually quite common to have no house or car. Forty-year-olds who don't have a house or a car are actually like this in most of our parents' generation. I think most people have experienced this situation, but the time period is different.

Let's talk about my own experience, I am 26 years old this year, I live in a fourth-tier city, my parents are farming, I have an old house, I have a 15-year-old sister, and my family's savings are less than 20,000 yuan in the third year of junior high school. Every year, I work seriously, I finally save some money halfway, and I have to face my children's tuition fees, and there are indispensable happy events in the middle. In the second half of the year, it will take a few months of salary to prepare for the New Year, and in the end there will be little left.

I thought that next year when wages went up, it would get better, but as a result, prices also went up. That's the reality.

3. Some people say that you are still poor at the age of forty, and you have to find the reason in yourself, but in fact, when you really reach forty, you will find that you are also so impatient. I have a colleague who is 42 years old and also has no house or car. He got married in 2006, had nothing when he got married, had a child in the same year, worked hard to earn money to buy milk powder diapers, and gave birth to a second child in 2010.

The second child was born, and the son began to go to kindergarten, and the monthly living expenses milk powder and tuition fees really wanted to be used for one cent and two cents.

In 2012, my son went to primary school, because he went to school in other places, he had to pay a cross-district fee, more than 10,000 yuan, and this 10,000 yuan was borrowed.

Poor, unhappy, stressed. A person's life is not long, but it is not short. No matter how old you can live, the age of twenty to fifty is the most precious.

Physical, intellectual, and energetic aspects reached their peak during this ** time. It will slowly degenerate until it grows old. So don't think that young adults are long, it doesn't matter.

At the age of forty, having nothing is looked down upon, and there is still no hope of realizing the value of life. Hard work or entrepreneurship is still a priority.

He will not get rich in the second half of his life, because the time for his hard work in the first half of his life has passed, and he is now middle-aged, and he has no time and energy to work.

Not necessarily. This needs to be decided according to the actual situation, although some men are poor, but they are self-motivated, so they will get rich in the second half of their lives.

Not necessarily, but in a high probability range, it is still a state of poverty, because this age has lacked the ability to fight when it was young, so it is difficult to develop.

Definitely, you can't give up hope at any time, as long as you continue to work hard, you will definitely get rich.

It is also possible, and it is possible to succeed as long as you work hard, after all, no one knows what the future will look like.

1. Older leftover women

2. Good man

3. The outside world

Many times the search for a partner is not due to their own reasons, and there are also external interferences. Many girls bring their boyfriends home, but their parents are against this relationship, and the two have to break up, which is a pity. From my point of view, as a parent, it is important to have a comprehensive understanding of the feelings between two people before making a decision.

In general, when you meet the right person, you should get along well and enter the palace of marriage at the right age.

In Chinese thought, no matter how we develop and reform with each passing day, our traditional culture is deeply engraved in our bones. In fact, in real life, whether it is an older leftover woman, a prodigal child, a divorced man or a woman, in the entire national society, in the popular mind, they all belong to the "problematic" people! Our pride is "5,000 years of civilization inheritance", so it is not easy to accept to lose the inheritance (perhaps part of it)!

In our civilization, what kind of people should do what kind of things at what time are all arranged, which is to urge future generations to progress and surpass their parents! The expectations of the Chinese people are perfect, you can tao, but to compete, you must be stronger than the next! 100-1=0, as a problematic person (including men and women), you are no longer powerful and rich, and your stain will follow you for a lifetime!

Just like when we talk about a certain ** or a certain leader, if you do something wrong, you should get out of class, and everyone who doesn't get out of class will "understand" in their hearts and then keep it in mind. "My arms can't break my thighs", then I "can't afford to provoke, I should be able to hide"! And then until you can afford it!

Therefore, what you sow, what you reap. Heaven is a good reincarnation, who will be spared by the sky! This topic is honest, and it really can't be said that Chinese men are not good enough.

Maybe it's time for them to "can't afford to mess with" women! Chinese marriage has completely slipped into a "vicious circle" in the touting and exchange of various ideas - scum hurts good, good becomes scum, and scumbag hurts another good ......Then everyone is scum! The rest of those who have not become scum or are not qualified to become scum have to take a detour.

Therefore, we are not qualified to judge others, including myself, the road is our own choice, whether it is good or bad, we can only bear it by ourselves - just like I often say with customers, "I take over something, even if it is a piece of, I can only eat it with tears in my own eyes!" ”

Ah, don't send it. If you have a car, you have to have a house, and you have to be a good man. So what are we doing with such an excellent man looking for an older leftover woman? A whole bunch of young, pretty and cute.

What age to do what, the so-called quality man. At a certain age, he has already become a father, and there are naturally few left, so he chooses to live on his own, and there are some things that must be endured.

Do you own a house and a car? The conditions are the same, easy to find.

If you want to climb high, are you willing to be a concubine? I don't want to, I don't want to lose it, how can there be so many good things? Men are not stupid.

This is because for this kind of good men, they are already famous.

A good man who has a car, a house and an industry wants to find a boss lady, the most basic thing is to go to the kitchen under the hall, know social etiquette, do finance, manage people, know human accidents, and be a coolie!

The main reason is that the leftover woman's vision is too high and she can't look down on ordinary men, so the good man you said is not necessarily her dish, it is better to find someone who is about 20 years older than her.

Older leftover women still think they are noble pearls? In the eyes of men, it's just an old sow haha, it's good to marry you, you should be thankful. Are you still eligible for a 500,000 bride price?

A woman is a flower, and a young girl is a flower that has just bloomed, "How fragrant, you can smell it for a long time, and you, an old woman, are about to wither, what is the value of making a man scarce you?" What if you make a million a year?