Why are people who work too hard easy to beat up singles?

In China, in order to find a job and then make money, many farmers often choose to leave their hometowns and go to the city to work. Although you may not find any good jobs here, at least there are more opportunities here than in the countryside, and you can earn more income even if you do some manual work. With the rapid development of China's manufacturing industry, many manufacturing plants have been born in China to promote the further development of China's economy.

And the main force in these factories is the vast majority of these rural people who come to the city in search of opportunities.

There was a long time when China's factories were very popular, and many people hoped to become factory workers, especially some state-owned factories, which were completely iron rice bowls. In addition, there are not only male employees but also many women in this kind of factory, and everyone is of the same age, all of whom are young people, so it is easier to find a partner here. But what is the real situation?

This is not easy to understand, people who work too hard often spend a lot of time at work, less contact and communication with the opposite sex, and less opportunities to fall in love, of course, it is easy to hit singles.

People who work too hard are prone to being singles because they patronize their work and ignore life events.

At the same time, there are personality problems.

The reason is very simple, it takes time and energy to fall in love, and people who are too hard to work don't know how to allocate time to fall in love, how can they find a partner.

Also, people who work with tendons have no mood, don't understand romance, don't like girls, and it's difficult to find a partner.

Because he has made a clear choice in terms of work and feelings, it is very easy to fight a single.

Because people who work hard put their focus on work, they don't have too much time and energy to fall in love, let alone manage a relationship.

Because all the time and energy are spent on work, there is no energy to fall in love or take care of the family.

It may be that he is bent on fighting for money, so he is busy with personal problems, because he wants to work hard and make himself do well, so he keeps himself busy.

In a sense, people are honest and inflexible, and they are not good at receiving people and things, so they are easy to beat singles.

According to reports, there are 18 million more men than women in the marriageable age in the country, which means that 18 million men in the country are singles and cannot find wives.

"According to the data of the 6th Population Census, the ratio of men and women born out of wedlock in the post-80s is 136:100, while the leftover male to female phenomenon in the post-70s is even more serious, with the ratio of illegitimate births reaching 206:100."

Why do so many men beat singles, is it because they like to live a single life, are they unwilling to start a family, and the bondage of marriage?

There are several reasons why a man changes from a handsome guy to a bachelor:

One is the issue of age. The current education system in our country is 12 years of compulsory education, 4 years of university, and 3 years of graduate school. Normally, people need 19 years of schooling from early childhood to adolescence.

And if he has been going to school since he was 8 years old, and he is 27 years old after graduating from graduate school, if he chooses to continue his studies after that, he will often be 30 years old when he graduates, which can be called an older youth in my country.

The second is economic issues. Many young people have taken up jobs in their first year, have a weak economic foundation, and have to be frugal in food, clothing, housing and transportation, unable to meet the rigid needs of their mothers-in-law's houses, cars, and tickets.

The third is dedication. After men enter the society, they are often ambitious, full of ambitions, and want to make a temporary stand out in their careers, but at the same time, they also need to pay the price of overtime and overload, and there is no more time to accompany the woman to spend the previous month, resulting in two people getting together less and leaving more, becoming strangers day by day, and unable to get married.

Fourth, the problem of vision. Some men often don't get married because they can't find a wife, on the contrary, they are often surrounded by some excellent women. However, out of consideration for the other party's economic conditions, family conditions, and the other party's background, a man wants to find a father-in-law who "can struggle for 30 years less", and is always in the best time to get married.

In order to reduce the empty nest phenomenon of the elderly in their later years, our country has to legislate to stipulate that children should "go home often", but for these old people, they hope that their children can start a family as soon as possible, live a happy life, and enjoy the family fun of their children and grandchildren in their lifetimes.

People who work too hard spend their life energy and time on work. is a kind of harshness to oneself, and can not care for others, lack of emotional communication, the result is easy to be lonely, lose feelings and beat singles.

Because I put my body and mind into work, I don't have the time and energy to find a girlfriend.

Therefore, I hope you will pay attention to it. Because only in this way can we really solve this kind of problem. Of course, this is both our responsibility and our obligation. So I hope you can pay attention, only in this way, can we really avoid this from happening.

Those who have no sense of responsibility, those who are not serious, those who are not good-looking, those who are particularly poor, those who have no filial piety to their parents, Ma Bao Nan, etc.

People who are confused about self-confidence are the easiest, very machismo, very self-confident, often very selfish, and have no responsibility.

Particularly selfish, particularly short-tempered, will not take care of women, does not pay attention to his personal image, looks very sloppy on the outside, has a very low emotional intelligence, and cannot chat, such a man is very easy to beat singles.

Hello, probably because I put most of my energy into work, I may use it to rest after work. Then there is little time to make friends of the opposite sex. Or they work harder at work, and generally girls don't like this type of boy very much, and prefer a boy who is flexible and takes care of his family.

This is because people who work too hard, they will put most of their energy and time on work and neglect to care for their other half, so they tend to work especially hard. I can't find a partner, because no one wants their boyfriend or girlfriend, and they just forget to sleep and eat every day, and ignore themselves.

Because I work too hard, I ignore my personal life, and I don't have much contact with the opposite sex with this kind of person, and I always work when I chat, and it's hard to find a partner, so it's easy to become a single.

There are many kinds of people who work hard, and there are the kind that are easy to beat singles, to put it bluntly, you don't have much money at home, you work hard, you have no money because you have no money, you are working hard, this kind of easy to beat singles.

Because they spend all their time and energy on work and have no time to fall in love, they are easy to beat singles. Such people are often people with strong dedication.

Working hard is either rich or has no money at the bottom, and none of them has time and doesn't want to find the latter, but it is difficult to get married simply because of economic problems.

Because people who work hard spend all their energy and time on work, and ignore the love of children. So it's not easy for them to find a partner.

Put all your energy into work, have no time, no energy and no interest in getting to know the opposite sex, and it is easy to cause what you call a single.

Because people's energy is limited, it is impossible for him to take care of them at the same time, and it takes a lot of effort and time to get an object.

What people who work too hard are easy to beat singles, because he doesn't have time to be a girlfriend, so he is easy to beat singles.

Because people who work too hard don't have the heart to talk about love, they just think about work, so they still have to pay attention to their emotional problems occasionally.

The main thing is that I'm too busy to have time to fall in love. When you're older, you'll become a single!!

The situation you are talking about, it seems that it should not be necessarily, people who work hard, should have more income, their positions rise faster, many women like it, it is very good to have money or officials, how can it be a single.

Time is spent at work, and the social circle has narrowed.

The average workaholic doesn't have time to find a girlfriend, and such a person also has the problem of not liking to make friends and being thin-skinned and blushing when he sees a woman.

There is a problem with the goal, you choose a salaryman, and you are destined to have less wealth, and love depends on fate.

Because they only have time to work, they don't have time to do anything else......Falling in love takes time and thought, right?

Personally, I think it's because I don't have time to fall in love, and when I reach the age of falling in love, I find it difficult to find.

Many people think that they can have a good talk as long as they have time in the future.

However, the fact is that after there is time, not only do they not talk about an ideal.

In love, on the contrary, it has become more anxious and eager to enter again.

Why is this in the midst of a busy work situation?

Because time is only one of the basic conditions for "falling in love", but it is the most fundamental.

The reason is the vicious cycle of singleness caused by "no time", which makes people.

Loss of the ability to "love".

Because this kind of person will not please women, and he is really helping you look forward to it

Working hard is for a better life, only work and don't live who follows you, work is important, life is more important, learn to have both.

This is not a fact, people who really work too hard will not end up being single!

It's not easy to be together, but you have to cherish the people around you and your family.

I don't really agree with that. But I think I take my work too seriously and put all my energy into it. In this way, emotions are ignored.

In this way, it is difficult to find the person you like in life. In any case, the relationship depends on the sincere understanding and treatment of both parties, and there will be more opportunities to fight for it. A happy life will come slowly.

Just thinking about work, putting love in the back of your mind, who doesn't beat singles, who beats singles.

It doesn't have to be different from person to person, it just depends on what you do.

At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, fathers and mothers definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.

First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.

The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.

Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and they couldn't say anything about this situation.

I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a girl who is willing, he may not be able to get such a high bride price. The stick is also forced to be helpless.

Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.

There are some singles who can't marry old women because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person?

There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, when he has no money, he goes to find a factory to work, and when he has money in the last few months, he squanders it, and he doesn't report when he leaves, and suddenly he doesn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him. Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.