When your significant other is full of negative energy, will you choose to stay away from him?

When the other half is a pessimist, a negative person, a person who doesn't like to face obstacles, often thinks about things very bad, especially bad, some don't believe that people can have long-term positive energy, when you meet such a partner, you must be attracted to you at first There must be advantages, but when this negative energy covers his advantages, you have to ask yourself whether you still love him.

It is a very strange thing for two people to fall in love, there must be a magnetic field to be able to come together, when two people who love each other are just together, they can't see each other's shortcomings, the lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, the feeling at the beginning is very beautiful, very happy and romantic, two people will be together for a long time before their own shortcomings will be exposed, such as boyfriends don't like to take a bath, if two people don't live together, how can you know that he is such a habit? So, when you see something you don't like, ask yourself if you can still accept his shortcomings.

People who are full of negative energy are really scary, because from time to time they will say frustrating words, swear words, and use a magnifying glass if it doesn't go well.

Amplify the inner complaints and complaints, as the other half, what we have to do is to reconcile the other party's mentality and the height of cognitive things, if you are a positive and enterprising person, you can make him infected is not bad, you can be a pistachio, the king of jokes, you can also often mediate the atmosphere, so that the other half feels that the world is still very beautiful, there are still a lot of good-looking things, and there is no need to put your thoughts in a very low cognition.

If you don't even have the strength to encourage him, it proves that you don't love him, or if you try for a while, you feel that you can't change him, or you can't accept living in a resentful and depressed environment all day long, you can choose to leave, after all, the place where people are facing is full of sunshine, as long as you see the sunshine you can display your talents, negative energy people are often negative energy in the week, so if you really can't change the other half, choose to leave!

When looking for a significant other, everyone also pays great attention to their own choices or some other factors. If your partner is full of negative energy, then many people may not choose such a partner. In fact, a really good relationship is also very good, and they also need to maintain this marriage together, so that they can be more happy.

Maybe today's young people are more realistic, they will not look for full of negative energy or do not have certain material conditions. <>

Negative energy partners are very bad, and many girls are very realistic, they say that if their other half is full of negative energy, then it is impossible to be with such a boy. Because if such a person chooses to be with him, it will also lead to a bad mood every day, and there will be a very negative energy performance. This is not conducive to a better relationship between two people, and it is inappropriate in terms of three views of personality experience.

Don't choose a partner full of negative energyIf you meet this kind of partner full of negative energy, then you also need to make a good choice. After all, it is very important to choose a reliable partner, if the partner you choose is very bad, then it is not conducive to a better life after marriage, which is also hoped that everyone can pay attention to and avoid. Try to choose a reliable partner, and also choose a partner who is full of positive energy.

Such a partner will also drive their own enthusiasm and can also make both parties more harmonious and harmonious. <>

A good eye is requiredTherefore, choosing a partner requires a good vision, which is also a very important thing. I hope that everyone can pay extra attention in the process of choosing a partner, and try not to choose those bad partners. Such a partner is very bad, and it will also allow yourself to have a negative energy performance.

Because choosing a reliable partner is also conducive to your better performance, which will also bring a good sense of experience.

Probably so, because I feel very affected by his surroundings and it doesn't bring me happiness.

When my other half is full of negative energy, I will not choose to stay away from him, I will choose to accompany him out of his current predicament, and let him realize some shortcomings in himself, so that he can change himself for me.

I will choose to stay away from him, he has a lot of negative energy, so it will also make me very unhappy, I don't want to be a resentful woman.

I will, because I am not an optimistic person, and if the other person is full of negative emotions, then it will also make me very negative, and it will also affect my normal life.

My boyfriend and I both just graduated this year, and my boyfriend chose to look for a job opportunity in the city where the university is located after I persuaded him. In fact, he was quite reluctant, saying why bother, it is very difficult to find a job now, and his parents will help him find an easy and stable job when he goes home.

I also expressed our dissatisfaction, we are still so young, we don't fight at this age, so when will we fight? Now is the best time to train us, and it can also give us a clear idea of where we will go in the future.

In fact, I can see that my boyfriend is very reluctant and complains that I am stubborn. Because he is relatively lazy, he is full of negative energy, and he doesn't have much pursuit, but since I chose to be with him, I have to plan for our future.

But the rest of my life was something I didn't expect. Now that we've moved out of the school dormitory, we've rented a house outside, and really, sometimes, couples who haven't lived together and may not know if they can tolerate each other's shortcomings.

In the first few days, with my daily encouragement, my boyfriend was quite obedient and invested in several companies, but there was no news. I applied for a sales position at a company near the house I rented.

Everyone's opportunities are different, and I know that I can't rush to find a job, so I try to encourage him to continue to invest in two more to try. He said impatiently, I have already voted, I have voted for everything, what can I do, now I can only wait for news.

For the next half a month, he basically slept in the rental room every day, sometimes he could sleep until three or four o'clock in the afternoon the next day, and when he woke up to find something to eat, he began to play games, and he played until one or two o'clock at night, which also seriously affected my rest time.

I am sometimes very angry, in fact, sometimes I am very tired from running sales, and I have to look at people's faces, sometimes my mouth is dry, and I rush home weakly, and there is no hot water, only the smell of instant noodles in the house is left.

I thought I couldn't continue like this, so I locked his computer and forced him to get up early in the morning and pull him to go for a run in the evening when he came back from work, but he didn't want to continue without running a few steps, and complained to me that his comrades had scolded him badly.

None of us have a good background, even if our parents can arrange jobs for us and help us, if we don't work hard, what's the use! Finally, when I came back from work one night, I couldn't bear it anymore and wanted to have a good talk with him.

But after two sentences, they quarreled, and I said that I could not entrust my future to such a person who knew how to eat, sleep, sleep, and only play games.

That night, I packed all my luggage, and I couldn't accept my partner's laziness and full of negative energy. Now is the beginning of life, and there is no reason to squander our youth with capital.

I like her person, I don't mind if she has positive energy or negative energy, if she has too much negative energy, then let me protect her...

I mind, very much.

Only a positive person can make his life better little by little through his own efforts. Even though we were very poor when we were together, we didn't have a car, we didn't have a house, and we lived in a rented house every day, but as long as we had a positive heart, we were able to create wealth with our hands.

However, if he is a person with negative energy, he will only complain about the unfairness of life to him every day, hate those rich people after looking at his poverty, and be indignant at those who have a golden spoon in his mouth, not only will our life not improve a little, on the contrary, his negative emotions will affect me and make me lose confidence in life.

After all, he is a person who gets along day and night, and his impression of me must be very great.

As a simple example, there was a bug in our game today, which led to a case opened after a copy was opened, and the experience of being able to open 600w directly. At first, people didn't know about the bug, but when more people had played the copy, the game company found out about the situation and shut down the copy urgently. At this time, players saw the announcement of the game, knew about this situation, and began to abuse the game company one after another, insulting those who had played the copy but did not come out to notify everyone that there was a bug.

Maybe this example is not particularly appropriate, but I just want to say that most of the time in life, we look at one thing positively and we look at one thing negatively, and the outcome does not change much. And excessive negativity will not only make you unhappy, but also make the people around you follow you emotionally. If you are full of negative energy, you complain about every thing that makes you unsatisfied, then how bad your life should be.

So I hope that my partner can be a positive, optimistic person who faces all situations. I also hope that everyone can be a vigorous person, instead of letting your youth be lost in complaining and complaining.

I must have minded.

Negative energy is really scary, your own negative energy is terrible, and it is even more terrible to have a negative energy person around you, don't think that your self-control is very strong and will not be affected by others, because you can't detect this subtle vice, and it's hard to get rid of it.

I remember that I was a person who was not afraid of hardships and never complained, but since I went to a small institution for an internship, everything has changed. There are very few employees in that institution, I went to work overtime every day, but other employees were very idle, and I didn't know until I was acquainted, it turned out that these people knew every day to complain, complain, and then complained next to me every day, and slowly I found that I actually began to complain when I encountered something, and then the whole person became very negative, until now, it slowly changed back a little, but the impact is still there.

If he was a negative energy person from the beginning, let alone a boyfriend, I wouldn't even be a friend and I wouldn't be good with him? Who wants to be with a person with negative energy as a whole and listen to him complain about this and that? Wouldn't that turn you into a garbage can?

So, don't even make friends with people like that.

If he used to have a good mentality, but only started to have negative energy because he encountered troubles, then you need to enlighten him, comfort him, take him to re-understand the beauty of life, so that he can slowly become positive again, and the other half should support him when the other party is lost and frustrated, isn't it?

I think that good love will make both parties better, otherwise, you can only slowly consume yourself, only when you meet the right person, can you celebrate every day like a holiday, but it is undeniable that this right person must be a positive person.

I really mind the negative energy of the other half, because I think that boys bear more responsibility than girls, girls have less ability to withstand pressure, sometimes it is easy to have emotional problems, and if boys can't be positive, they will be very unconfident to live.

Generally speaking, it is a characteristic of girls to complain and complain, of course, not everyone is like this, so if boys are too negative. Two people will be very depressed and decadent together, think about a scene, your other half complains about your new job and the salary level with you every day, can you accept such a person who is not satisfied with his job and does not change? If you don't change, you are content with the status quo and don't want to forge ahead, I think if the boy can't bear a lot of things and have to say it to be good, will it be too unbearable, what should you do if you get married, buy a house, have more pressure, and have children.

Of course, I'm not talking about occasional negative energy, I'm talking about people with negative energy, a person is said to have negative energy must not be once or twice, so boys can have negative energy but not often negative energy.

Girls will encounter a lot of problems in society, with the other half may confide in the other half, if you yourself are negative energy, when she confides in you, you may not pay much attention to her, or she needs your comfort, but you are complaining about your own things, at this time your relationship may have problems, she may also think that you can't stand anything at all. How to live my life in the future, I don't have the confidence to go down with you.

I can't quite accept the negative energy of the other half, he can complain appropriately, vent his emotions, or he can digest these negative emotions by playing basketball and games, but he can't always have negative energy. Because there is more negative energy, you will only become less and less confident, more and more hit, people should be positive and optimistic, only by working hard to change can there be a breakthrough, and it is absolutely impossible to lose confidence. Everyone likes positive people, doesn't they?

I hope that my future partner has positive energy points.