When parents divorce, who is the best time for children to live?

1. Follow the party that is good for the child.

Although they are both parents, they have different attitudes towards their children because of various relationships.

Some people like children very much and are happy when they see them

Some people don't like children, and they are annoyed or angry when they see children.

The divorce of the parents has already created a certain shadow on the psychology of the children to a greater or lesser extent.

Parents are better to their children, which is conducive to soothing their children, and is conducive to slowly ** the children's psychological trauma due to the divorce of their parents.

Second, with the party with good economic conditions.

After the parents divorce, the party with good economic conditions can create a more comfortable living environment for the healthy growth of the children;

It allows children to live and study without distractions, and lays a solid foundation for them to be able to live independently in the future.

When parents divorce, they should not only think about their own interests, but also about their children's current life and for the sake of their children's future life.

Children should be allowed to live with the party who is financially well-off.

3. Follow the party with the ability of education management.

The educational management ability mentioned here mainly refers to the ability to educate and restrain children.

For children in divorced families, education management is a very serious and practical issue.

If the child's education is well managed or timely, the child will be able to grow up strong and healthy

If the child's education is not managed in a timely manner and not in place, the child may go astray.

When parents divorce, children should be allowed to live with a parent who has the ability to manage education.

4. Respect children's opinions.

When parents divorce, if the child is not yet an adult or does not have the ability to decide who he lives with, the parents should negotiate and decide who the child will live with from the perspective of being conducive to the healthy growth of the child

If the child is an adult or has the ability to decide who he or she is with, parents should respect the child's opinion and listen to the child's ideas.

Who is better for parents and children when they divorce, this is not a simple question of how many "1+1" equals, but a comprehensive and highly variable issue.

After the parents divorce, no matter who the children have been with, they must be responsible for the child's upbringing and healthy growth.

It is necessary to regard the issue of children's education management as an important issue, communicate frequently, and exchange opinions frequently.

Minimize the impact of the child's divorce from the parents, and do our best to create a good environment for the child to grow up.

1. Live with your mother:

As stated in the Marriage Act, it is better for children before the age of two to live with their mothers, after all, they are still breastfeeding.

The child's sense of dependence on the mother is more intense, and if the mother and child are separated at this time, it will undoubtedly have a negative impact on the child.

For minor children over the age of two, the mother generally plays a role of companionship. Although I usually nag a little, I really want to be good to my children. But there are some mothers.

If you have no job since giving birth, and if you have to raise a child after a divorce, it will undoubtedly be a lot more burdensome.

Most fathers have always taken on the role of breadwinner in the family, and spend relatively little time with their children than mothers, while attentive men are in the minority after all. Therefore, if the child lives with his father, he is likely to ignore the child's life, fail to find the child's bad habits, and is likely to take a detour.

New Marriage Law. One of the articles reads: On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the child, if the parents agree to take turns raising the child, it may be permitted. That is, children can take turns being raised by their parents. And this provision is actually the best for the physical and mental development of children.

Although the child may be a little more tormented, the child can get the most father's love and mother's love at the same time, which is already the best arrangement for children whose parents are divorced.

If it is a boy who is best with his father, or a girl who is best with his mother, in fact, the most harmful thing is the child when the parents divorce, either lack of maternal love or lack of father's love, and the original family has a decisive impact on the child's life.

After the parents divorce, it is not necessarily the best person for the child to live with, whether it is directly raised by the father or mother, it is still the child of both parents. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers.

For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

When parents divorce, it is best for children to live with the partner who is conducive to their own development. According to the law, children under the age of two years are raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Of course, it's good for the child with the woman. As long as the divorced children are with the girl, the man who wants the child will be cautious about leaving. Divorced women with children have children, and the man who chooses a mate has to either accept it or not consider the remarried mother, so as to save trouble for the remarried mother.

When parents divorce, it is best for the child to be with the partner who can provide the child with the conditions for healthy growth. If a person who can't even support himself, it is definitely impossible to bring a growing child well, and the child needs to have a relatively stable growth environment, so it is the best choice for parents who have such ability to live with whom they lived in the past.

I think a child should have the best time with someone who loves him the most and has more financial strength.

Because nowadays, it takes a lot of time and money for children to learn.

When the parents divorce, it will be better for the child to follow the mother than to follow the father, because the mother can take care of the child wholeheartedly, even if she is going to get married in the future, she will give priority to whether the man will be good to her child. And many fathers can't do that, they think more about their future

Who is better for divorced children should be determined by comparing the conditions from many aspects. If the child is under the age of two, the mother with whom the child usually lives after the divorce;If the child is over two years old, the two parties shall negotiate with each other who will raise the child, and if the negotiation fails, the court will make a judgment, and the court will award custody to whoever the child lives with is more conducive to his healthy growth according to the comprehensive conditions of both parties;Where a child has reached the age of 8, the child's personal wishes shall be respected. Whichever rule is used to determine custody, the principle of the best interests of the child should be observed.

The child should be with the mother, it will be better, the child can not lack maternal love from an early age, so if the divorce, the child is better with the mother, it is more appropriate.

It should be with mom.

There is a saying: I'd rather follow my mother who asks for food than my father who is an official. Although the saying is not absolute, the general direction is so.

The kind of love that a mother gives to her child cannot be replaced by anyone. A child can have no father's love, no grandfather, no grandma, no grandma, no grandpa's love, but absolutely not without mother's love!

There are many parents divorced among my peers, but the difference between my father and my mother after divorce. Most of the people with the mother are more cheerful than the ones with the father. It's not that stepmothers are inferior to stepfathers.

The phrase blood is thicker than water is written about real human nature. What comes out of one's belly is the real flesh and bones. For mothers, no matter which child is their own flesh and blood, they will not love the other for the sake of one of them.

After the divorce, it is obvious that you will not lose the love of your loved ones with your mother.

In addition, in terms of the family's care of children, the division of labor between parents is obviously different, and it may be that the father is more busy with work. If a person who has become a mother is still obsessed with his career all day long, he will be said to be selfish and do not love children. If a person who becomes a father goes out early and returns late to work in his career, he will be praised as a good man and knows how to fight for the happiness of the whole family.

If the child's parents are divorced, the child will be happier with his mother than with his father. Because if the child follows the father, the father may not be able to take care of the child, and after the child's father remarries, the child will have a stepmother. The family re-formed by the father, because there is no real mother, the child will feel like an outsider, and the life will be very unhappy.

Therefore, "Dad is not as good as Mom", and it is better for parents to divorce and follow Mom.

When the parents divorce, the custody of the child can be negotiated by both parties, and if the negotiation fails, they can file a lawsuit with the court. The court will deal with it according to the following:

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, and if the mother has any of the following circumstances, she can live with her father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising the child and the obligation to support is not fulfilled, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For minor children over the age of two, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one party may be given priority if they have any of the following circumstances:

1) Song Yuchan has been sterilized or has lost fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with the child for a long time, and the change of living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of eight over that a minor child over the age of eight should live with the father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

It is better for children with divorced parents to be with their mothers before the age of two, and parents over the age of two can be.

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. In any of the following circumstances, the mother may live with the father: suffering from an infectious disease or other serious illness that has not been cured for a long time, and the child is not suitable to live with her; There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him; For other reasons, the child is unable to live with the mother.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under two weeks old will live with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For a minor child over the age of two, both the father and the mother are required to live with him, and if one of the following circumstances occurs, it may be considered first: has undergone sterilization or has lost the ability to bear children due to other reasons; The child has lived with him for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child; If there are no other children, and the other parent has other children; It is not appropriate for the other party to live with the child because it is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious illness that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild's canonized daughter or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted. <>