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Persuade again. It's possible that they won't leave. Divorce is not good for you or them. That's when it's time for you to play and let them know that you've grown up. Maybe you come out and say something that would be useful
It is recommended that you gather your parents and sit down with the three of them to have a good talk.
Not really. Based on your situation, I think I should be more concerned about you. Because although many objective conditions are necessary.
But if you don't care enough about you, it's easy to be influenced at your age. Changes in the environment at the junior high school stage will have an impact on the subsequent entrance examinations to high school and university.
If you take one step off, you will continue to deviate.
I had a few friends from junior high school at the beginning, and all of them were in the upper middle school. Not much worse. Later, after the divorce, it began to decline slightly.
So I went to a different high school with them. They are the focus of the city, and I am Pugao. After that, the gap between the university entrance exams began to become more and more obvious.
A good school will have a better learning environment and higher learning conditions. This was a factor that was only discovered to be important later.
I hope you think about it.
I'm a good example of that. Now I regret not saying a word at that time.
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Persuade them not to divorce, first separate for a period of time, you are with them for a week or a month, you see who you are better with, and you will follow whoever you want. Maybe when they want to reconcile, it may not be, the so-called "little don't win the newlywed", so let them be better. It's not good for you to quarrel every day!
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Talk to your dad!! Men need to be sensible. Maybe your mother is a career-oriented woman. Not suitable for your future growth. But if I were you, I'd find a way to reconcile them.
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With your mother, your mother is definitely better than your father, so you and your father will not be reasonable.
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Damn, it's so difficult, give you back to your father, otherwise your mother will find a stepfather, and if it's very bad, she won't beat you to death.
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I think it's better to be with my mother again.
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Persuade them to reconcile!!
Whoever you follow is not good for you!
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You'd better try to persuade them not to divorce, and you're going to settle with both.
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If the parties are already adults, the parents do not have the statement that they are responsible for custody, and there is no statement that the parents should divorce with whom they should go, and if the parents reach an agreement on the custody of the child, the parties' intentions will generally be respected and handled in accordance with their agreement, except where the agreement is seriously detrimental to the normal life of the child. If the child reaches the age of two, if the two parties agree to take turns raising the child, the agreement between the two parties will be respected; If the agreement fails, the court will decide in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.
1. Who should have custody of the children when the husband files for divorce.
If the husband files for divorce and the custody of the child is under the age of two, the custody belongs to the mother. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.
That is, whoever the child is willing to live with is the custodian of the child.
2. How should the custody of children be handled in the event of divorce?
If the parties cannot agree on the custody of the children at the time of divorce, the court will make a judgment according to the following principles:
Children under the age of two years are raised directly by their mothers.
For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.
Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.
Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that the relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.
In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.
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