Love contradictions! Look at the problem supplement

I don't have anything to say when I see the girl, this problem must be changed. As the saying goes, communication can promote the relationship between two people. If you don't communicate with others, how can you develop?

It is impossible to talk to the other party all the time, and if you listen silently, what will the other party think? You'll feel like you don't like herOr don't cut everything else.

If you want to change it, the first thing to do is to find out why you have nothing to say when you see a girl. It's because I'm too timid to speak. I still don't know what to say.

There is a stomach full of words that I want to say, but as soon as I see people, I feel shy and excited, and the words come to my mouth and swallow againOr is it because the other party is a stranger, afraid that he will say the wrong thing, and he is worried that his image in the other party's heart will be damaged

We live in this social family. I come into contact with a lot of strangers every day. It doesn't matter if you're on a blind date, at work or studying, or in daily life.

This is inevitable. Even if you don't go on a blind date, this kind of problem has to be solved.

Everything is a mental process. Doing anything is a psychological guide that leads you to do it. It's like getting motion sick in a car.

Friends with this symptom are generally afraid to take the car. Before they even got in the car, they began to worry that they would get motion sickness and vomit. Even as soon as I got in the car, I felt like I was going to vomit.

It's a matter of psychological balance. Perhaps, this is something you are afraid to do but dare not do. Because of fear.

So I feel extremely uneasy psychologically. There will be some psychological worries, which will trigger many worries. I will think about what kind of consequences will be caused by what I am worried about, I will worry that I will not do this well, I will worry about what others think of me, and so on.

Actually, some things are very simple. It's just that we sometimes complicate it. It will be followed by the panic in the heart and be uneasy.

As long as you don't think about how serious this matter is, the psychology will naturally not be so heavy.

Like your question about it. Because the other people are strange girls. As soon as it appears"Unfamiliar"Two words, the psychology suddenly felt afraid.

Suppose she contacts you in the form of **, suppose she calls you with your friend's ** (of course, provided that you think your friend called you)...Then, do you still feel like you have nothing to say?Wouldn't it, right?

So, what you're really afraid of is actually the unfamiliar. Meeting that girl is actually what you expected, isn't it?Just think of it as an ordinary meeting of ordinary friends who don't meet often! .

Don't be too nervous, and don't worry about not doing well. Life is your own. Blind dates are also one of the things in your own life.

It doesn't matter what others think of you or what they say about you. You just have to go with what you feel. To live, to live for yourself, not for others.

If so, you will still feel nervous and will have nothing to say. So, you can find a café with a little more atmosphere. Listen to the soft light**.

Melt in a romantic and warm atmosphere. With delicate **, relax your emotions. And oh.

Be confident and smile to get twice the result with half the effort.

Girls don't talk a lot when they meet for the first time! If you don't talk and don't take the initiative, you won't be liked by girls! All you have to do when you see a girl is smile and take the initiative to smile at her, and she will smile at you and be embarrassed!

That's good, the first impression is well established! Ask if you've eaten, it's hot, find something to talk to her! If you don't have anything to say, just talk about what happened to you and your family, or what happened to you in your life!

It's better to think about it when you see her! Of course, if you don't feel for others, you will disperse, but if you are tempted, you have to work hard!

I'm going to see you after I train myself to be a real man, buddy, don't go.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: A couple, the man is about to take the exam, and every day he asks the female manuscript god to accompany him to the library to read books, but the woman has a lot of things to do every day. Finally, one day, the woman knew that it would be okay during the day tomorrow, so she agreed to the man to go to the library to review. also swore that he couldn't accompany him to read a book for a day, so he would give him her first time.

The next morning, the woman called the man early in the morning and told him to go to the library together. The man was happy and went right away. The two sat for more than ten minutes.

The woman received a ** from another female classmate, saying that it would be delayed for half a day to go to a place, and they also made an appointment yesterday, so the man followed the two women until the station, and kept complaining. So the woman couldn't take it anymore. Tell the man to go back.

The man had no choice but to go back. In the evening, the two of them met again, and the man began to complain again, and the woman said that he was not a man, who do you think is right? Who's wrong?

Analysis: In love, you can't be too obsessed with who is right and who is wrong.

In fact, everyone has something wrong, and when they are angry with each other, they only see each other's faults and do not see their own.

Since the girl promised the boy, she should no longer have a round-limbed date with someone else!

Boys should also give girls some space, and don't always let girls accompany him.

Everyone deserves their own independent space!!

In fact, the problems between couples can be talked about openly and honestly when they are close to each other, and the most important thing between lovers is communication, understanding and trust!

After calming down, since the boy loves girls, he doesn't care about apologizing, right?

It is not easy to maintain this relationship, so it requires the joint efforts of both parties.

Feel for yourself!

1. I take more care of you than a normal woman in my 40s!

2. I usually give you more advice than others, and I am always impatient to guide you!

3. Your evaluation of her always attracts her attention, such as clothes and perfumes. If you say that it looks good or that the perfume smells good, she will be very happy and praise you for the sweetness of your mouth.

4. I don't want to talk to her family in front of you, even if I mention it, it's also fake, most of them lie to you, and they are fragmented.

5. Usually she will always approach you innocently, or ask you when you are free, and what to do with her.

6. I will always send you some text messages, or some hint text messages.

If you're with her and she's constantly hinting that something is going to happen to you, proving that she's in love with you...

If she doesn't hint at what to do with you when you're with her, then congratulations, a woman 20 years older than you is really in love with you if she doesn't have a strong purpose for you...

Purely personal opinion. Only when referenced

The performance is just two words "maternal love", a 40-year-old woman does not need to pretend to be mature in front of her, she will come to be considerate and love you.

I think a woman in her 40s should be very mature. So when I like a man in his 20s, I should take care of the man more. For example, what do you cook for the man?

Able to listen to the man's distress. In short, it's not as willful as young girls behave.

== I'm not 40 or 20 so I don't know.