Every time he hugged Erbao to breastfeed, Dabao was reluctant to do anything

Try to appease Dabao and let him help take care of Erbao

Can such a child understand the problem? Dabao feels that he is left out and afraid that you don't love him, what a threat to a child. Let him know that his mother loves him, and as much as he loves Erbao, Erbao also loves him.

It is easy to solve problems when children are small, and the older they are, the more difficult it is to deal with them, so as not to leave psychological trauma on children.

Hold one in your left hand and one in your right hand.

At the beginning of my pregnancy, I would tell Dabao that my mother had a baby in her womb. Because Mom thinks you're too lonely, Mom decides to have another baby to play with you. Then I would tell him every day that my mother loved him very much, and every day when he came back from kindergarten, I would give Dabao a hug and countless kisses.

By the way, I will also tell him how he himself came to be in this world. Later, my sister was born, and because my mother had to breastfeed, I spent more time holding my sister every day, and my brother still felt emotionally depressed. At this time, even if Dad soothes his brother's injured little heart, Dad will hug his brother and tell his brother that his sister is small, Mom wants to breastfeed, and Dad will play with you.

Later, when my sister got older, I would put more of my mind on my brother, and my sister would let my grandmother or grandmother take care of me more. Now at home I don't protect my sister, although my sister is still young, ten months, when my brother plays with toys, she will be mischievous, but when my brother is angry and says about her, I will quickly hug my sister away a little bit, and then tell my brother. My sister's behavior is really bad, and she actually disturbs her brother playing with toys, right?

My brother said yes. And then it's fine. Sometimes I ask my brother to help me and watch my sister.

Even if Erbao doesn't understand anything, he is still very young. But for Dabao, the appearance of Erbao has taken away some of the love of his parents, so in some things, if his parents are still eccentric, they will be even more unbalanced. Shared, hope it helps!

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Never mind. The old people have long said that this phenomenon is collectively referred to as "qihuai". It's that children don't want their mothers to care about other children and don't care about themselves in their young hearts. This situation is more obvious when the mother of the baby holds someone else's child.

Now that children don't have much contact with the outside world, babies can also touch their nerves when they see their mothers caring for their younger siblings.

Slowly the baby gets used to it.

Dabao felt lost and left out in the cold.

It is human nature to look selfish, hehe.

When holding the second treasure, she also touched the big treasure, and said to him, the baby should be loving, don't just think that you say too much, the child can understand.

Don't care too much, children are like this, it's okay to let anyone take it, what the mother-in-law said is also right, let the grandmother bring it, if you want to let the grandmother bring, you can tell the mother-in-law that the grandmother of the treasure wants to take the treasure very much!

Then you just say that my mother misses her and wants to see what is wrong with the child? She was still not happy when she looked at the child, and she couldn't find his mother yet.

Both children must be less concerned about one and the other, and it is better to strike a balance.

After having a second child, the boss may be a little sensitive. Take care of the boss more.

The uterine recovery period should be at least six weeks, don't hug it for two months, and then you should be fine if you hug it less.

Uh-huh, thank you, but it's reluctant to think about it for so long!