My boyfriend is obsessed with the internet, what can I do

Updated on Game 2024-07-21
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Your brother is hooked on the internet. I think you have to talk to him and make him realize how much of a negative impact the obsession with the Internet can have on his studies, and if you can't do it, you can only criticize him harshly. If it doesn't work, let the parents come forward to teach a lesson.

    As for your boyfriend's obsession with the Internet, I think it's understandable, as long as it doesn't affect his studies, it won't affect his work. He plays dance troupe at home every day, chatting with those women, and what to do about his wife and husband, you have to realize that the Internet is a virtual thing, you don't have to be too atmospheric, try to sit down and talk to him, let him also take into account your feelings, of course, the best way is to take him out for a walk, such as traveling, climbing, or come to some public welfare activities, so that his life is more colorful.

    Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Enlightenment can only be relied on by oneself.

    My boyfriend is also obsessed with the internet and spends time with the computer.

    Only when I get angry with him does he restrain himself and is willing to accompany me.

    Actually, he was very disgusted with me doing this.

    Putting down the game and playing with me also makes me very angry.!

    Seeing how unhappy he looked, I wasn't happy to play.!

    So, I wanted to see what the game had to offer!

    I would go online with him and play games together.

    Not only can you know what he is doing every day, who he is playing with, but also make him very happy and think I am very understanding!

    After that, he was very nice to me and asked me how I wanted to play. This is mutual understanding.

    People can infect each other, not to mention that you are people who love each other.

    Well, you play with him, you play with him and you can play with him, you can marry him in the dance.

    Don't worry about what he's doing with those messy people.

    Hehe.. Also, a smart woman should be a woman like his roundworm and love what he loves, which many women can't do.

    In this way, your identity is not only a girlfriend, but also a confidant...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let's break up. The best option. If He loves you, He will change for you. The Internet is not real after all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your boyfriend has no sense of responsibility.

    It may be that many people have internet addiction, but it is also necessary to refrain from it.

    Let him think more about the future, thank him more for wanting to work, give him a sense of responsibility, and he will refrain himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Oh, sad! If you are in love, you have to provoke the responsibility of a man! A man who doesn't have strong self-control! You can't restrain him now, and you'll really have to suffer it in the future!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is a tricky question, if you have time, try to spend as much time as possible with him and let him feel that you love him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Play games, play games, I can't stand the reality of having a girlfriend and a husband.

    You shouldn't be hard with him.

    Try the soft one, you may come across the soft one and not the hard one.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The friend upstairs said it was very good, and you played with him. He's sure he'll be happy. I've had that experience before. Try it and I wish you all happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't let him be available online.

    There was already an empty plane to take him shopping.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can ask him!

    The reality of the girl on the Internet is still the reality of my girlfriend in this reality!

    You say, the girl in the network is important? Or is my real-life girlfriend important?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I remember when I first graduated, I was confused and addicted to games for a while.

    In fact, the game is not as scary as you think. On the contrary, it can help people decompress.

    In the world of the game, you can be an invincible king and enjoy the adoration of everyone (if you play it very well).

    So, the talent sank into the world of games.

    However, a mature person can distinguish between game and reality.

    It's not that you can judge a person as you say that people who are addicted to games can judge a person as irresponsible, and your boyfriend is the most helpless at this time. If you are still messing with him, you should think about him from the position of being considerate of him and help him get through this downturn.

    It is because no one in reality can know how to support him and comfort him, and you just keep putting pressure on him, so he sinks into the game.

    You say that your boyfriend is one of the top doctoral students in the country, and then you judge him to be an excellent man.

    I feel sorry for your boyfriend, no wonder he is under so much pressure, because what you mean by your mind is that if he doesn't have such a score and ranking, he won't be the good man you think.

    You have set him in high hopes and made him want to breathe a sigh of relief.

    The fear in his heart is something you can't understand.

    Because you haven't put yourself in his shoes and thought about him.

    You just want to accuse him. You just want to imagine how good he is.

    Because you don't think about it, if he can't be as good as you think, will you always stay by his side and support him.

    You just think that he has disappointed you so much, and you have to think about whether or not to leave the man you think is a failure.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, what is the reason for the obsession with online gaming?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I also play games I graduated with a doctorate But I have to have a degree of study and games to coordinate you better persuade him to graduate with a doctorate and a high salary When the time comes, you can play as much as you want The game is just adjusted and can't be played by the game Besides, after graduation, you have money You can play how you want to be a little more high-end.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find a psychologist and see how the specialist can solve it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think he has experienced any setbacks, and what he has between playing and not playing is that kind of fluke, and the more you talk about him at this time, the more rebellious he becomes

    Life is his own, he should have his own choices A man who has not experienced setbacks cannot be your strong support

    You also have the right to choose whether you love him

    This kind of thing is destined to learn lessons from failure, and only after falling can you grow downplay your emotions and see the results

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take care of him, I can understand, he is very depressed, he thought that after finishing his Ph.D., he would have a good life, but later I found out that this is not the case, I am asked here, I am responsible there, am I so strong? I also need comfort, and I also need understanding. From there, I will find the solace I need!

    Girlfriend, no, there's a stressful **, I'm in my thirties, I can't achieve anything, and my future is bleak.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Have a good talk with him, or confiscate his computer.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'll give you a note, you can cancel his game account, or drop his movie, and see how he plays, but you have to be prepared to take the consequences of doing so.

    My best friend because her husband played games every day, and then the two divorced, and she swore that she would not get married, and she would never find a man who was addicted to games.

    She and her husband were together in college, and at that time, her husband just liked to play games a little, and occasionally skipped unimportant classes to play games, and she didn't pay much attention to it, thinking that playing games was good, at least with boys.

    Later, I graduated.,Her husband was working as a technician in a company at that time.,But I think about playing games every day.,I don't do anything else except games when I get back from work.,She scolded him many times.,But it didn't work.,I was going to break up.,But at this time I was pregnant.,At this time, the boy swore not to play games.。

    Later, the child was born, and her husband quit his job in the name of taking care of her and the child, and then played games at home every day, doing nothing, and originally expected him to take care of the two of them, but it turned out that she took care of him. Later, she got angry and canceled his game number, and dropped the computer, and then he hit my best friend in a big rage.

    If your boyfriend, after you smashed his computer and wrote off his game account, can really realize that you are really angry, not angry because of it, then there is still salvation, if he is angry at you and wants to do it, I advise you to break up early.

    In his heart, the game is more important than you, and in his heart, the game comes first, so I don't think you should be happy to follow someone who doesn't pay attention to your ideas at all.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He is an adult, and he knows the consequences of what he does, so if you persuade him, he should not listen. I think in the face of this situation, since he loves to play games so much, you can let him develop the game into a career and let him use the game to make money. Otherwise, indulging in games every day and not wanting to make progress is very detrimental to the development of life.

    You also said that his life is a game except for games. I think if you communicate with him and express your troubles, but he still doesn't listen or change, it means that he doesn't care about you, you should also think about the breakup, don't waste time for someone who doesn't have you in your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, we need to communicate with him, let him know his current tasks and responsibilities, and not always indulge in the game. Secondly, we can also adopt a supervised approach to limit the amount of time he spends playing the game, and his interest in the game will gradually decrease over time. In fact, there are many ways, such as we can do some outdoor sports with him to distract his attention, do something other than the game that interests him, and let him slowly lose interest in the game.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You game-loving boyfriend. It's obsessive to see the situation, and it's hard to change.

    Only let him have a correct outlook on life. He will be willing to put down the game and face his life. There are a lot of people who lose their minds about playthings.

    Delayed youth and missed the age of the best struggle. At this time, you can remind him and ask him what your life plan is and what kind of beautiful life you want. If he doesn't answer the question positively.

    It shows that he is a person who can get by. If so, it's time to re-examine your options. Bring it up with him.

    It can be done in such a way that he can be induced to change.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think what you should be thinking about now is to change him, but I think you probably can't change him, unless you say you're going to break up with him, and use this way to scare him and see if he can obediently put down his phone and pick you up. If you don't want to change in such an extreme way, then you can only talk to him about the game, you can tell her about your loneliness, so that he will stop playing games so obsessively, and have time to spend more time with you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This requires a good communication with your boyfriend, and you have to tell him about the dangers of being addicted to games. Look at your description, your boyfriend should have some addiction to games, this situation must be quit, you have to make it clear to him, you can usually play games for a while, but you must not play crazy for a long time, so it is not good for your body in the long run, and you have to inadvertently reduce his opportunities to play games, find him something to do, so that he has no time to play games again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can communicate more with him, let him know, consciously control the rhythm of the game, after all, this situation is really difficult to quit Internet addiction, you can tell his brothers not to deliberately call him, that will be better, you can go outside for a walk, watch movies, study yours or his other interests, let him understand that not only the game is interesting, if he doesn't have you in his eyes, just kick him, my friend is kicked after the man took the initiative to find him, especially well-behaved, I don't play the game anymore, but it's a good idea not to use it, and my friend has been talking about it for several years.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend is always playing games with his brothers, and I'm used to it now. My boyfriend sometimes plays until midnight or even all night, and usually watches game guides. I think I'm close to a breakdown, ignoring my existence at all, and the other is that I'm actually going to kill him, and I will explode my temper to make him realize his mistake.

    The other is that I will sit down with him and talk to him and accept my thoughts.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If I were you, I'd have a serious conversation with him. It's understandable that when you're fine, you can take a break from playing games. But if you spend all your time playing games, it's intolerable.

    You can set a time with your boyfriend to play the game, and at which time of the day you can play the game. If he can't, you can also uninstall his game. In this way, he will no longer be addicted to the game.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's best for him to wake up in such an addicted way, you can tell him that if he is always addicted to online games and always lives in this virtual world, then it may lead to this decline in the quality of his life in the future, and on the other hand, it will make him waste his youth, which is very bad for him, see if he can wake up, if it really doesn't work, then break up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Falling in love is the best time in a person's life. First of all, if you have a boyfriend, it means that your conditions are also good. And you are a network administrator, and you should have been in contact with a lot of boys who love games, so what attracted you to your boyfriend? He shouldn't have changed what impressed you in the first place, right?

    I had a similar experience because I'm also a fan of Warcraft and this game is good, it distracts your boyfriend, but it doesn't take away from you. Because it's illusory, boys have an aggressive nature, and when your boyfriend conquers her current level, she will feel that you are more important than the game. After all, people want to return to reality, and no one wants to live in the virtual forever, and it is impossible to live in the virtual.

    Be tolerant, now your cold war will never be just because of the game, and your boyfriend ignores you and is not because you prevent him from playing the game, think about the tone of your speech, your attitude towards him when you do things, whether there is also a problem, sit down and talk to him, try to calm your mind. Let's see if we can make your relationship go further because of this.

    Of course, everything should be done on the premise that he is worthy, if he is not good, and it has not been good for you. You can also consider letting go, he may not be your home!

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