If the man is unmarried and married, can he go to the man s house for dinner to meet the man s paren

Updated on society 2024-07-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you want to start a new relationship, then you have to deal with the previous marriage.

    If you are still married, it is best not to meet the unmarried man's parents.

    If the man doesn't know you're married, then you're cheating.

    If you really want to marry this man, then divorce your husband.

    If you continue like this, it will end up being very difficult to deal with.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on what capacity you are going, if it is a regular friend or colleague. It's nothing, just go to a friend's house and sit down.

    In addition, it depends on whether the man's family doesn't mind you going, and it doesn't matter if you don't mind.

    As long as you put yourself in the right position, there is nothing that is not impossible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is a kind of love called letting go, even if there are thousands of reluctance in the heart, but you can't say it, only you hide it deep in your heart, you are afraid that you will be more sad when you say it, you are obviously in love but you can't be together, the pain is painful and fruitless, you are tormented, a relationship must know how to cherish, and you must be willing to choose to let go when necessary.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The man is unmarried and he is married, he can go to the man's house for dinner and meet the man's parents, but you must explain your situation to the man clearly and clearly. In addition, if you plan to have a boyfriend and girlfriend with this man, you should cut off the relationship with your ex-husband.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you go alone, then don't go, after all, you are married, the man is unmarried, and it is not good to be seen by neighbors and talk about it. Even if it is a legitimate relationship, it should be taboo.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course. Marriage is based on feelings as the first element, as long as the experience of two people is understood by the other party, it is good to meet parents only because they are elders, not 100% decided by them, so you don't have a burden of thoughts, you can do your best. Come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it is a simple relationship between colleagues and friends, not only you go alone, but also colleagues or friends go together, other people's families should be very welcome, if not, it is not interesting and alone, it is not good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    However, no matter what the procedure is understood, the two young people should have planned and discussed it in advance, and according to their understanding of their own family, they can have a very different arrangement in advance, such as what the man brings, the woman's parents will generally be satisfied, and where the man will invite him to dinner, the woman's parents will feel the seriousness and respect of their in-laws, and they will discuss it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your first meeting was for the parents of both sides to meet and get to know their in-laws? Or are you planning to propose? If it's just a face-to-face acquaintance, then I know, if it's a kiss, I don't know.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are engaged, are you ready for Grandpa Mao If you are not prepared, it is generally not an engagement It is estimated that the parents of both sides meet and get to know each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Both parents have met, and there has been a certain amount of time in the relationship, and you personally feel that if the inspection period has passed, you are more satisfied with him. You can call them to your home for dinner, and let your parents observe them again. Because people can only be found in the details.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now that both of your parents have met, you can ask your parents if they are happy with each other and the other parent. Did your parents talk about your marriage to each other? If your parents are satisfied, and they have discussed marriage, and they are willing to marry you, and you are satisfied with each other, then you can go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can go to the other party's house for a meal first, and observe what the other party's family is like, parental education, boyfriend's temper or something, just some details or something, it doesn't matter.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    According to rural etiquette, the first thing the man should do is bring gifts to his mother-in-law's house. If the woman's family has no objections, proceed to the next step.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You shouldn't go to dinner until you're sure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Be diligent and fast.

    Being diligent after arriving at the man's house is a virtue, a quality, and a manifestation of family education. Although people are generally lazy nowadays, the first impression is very important when meeting the man's family for the first time. Maybe it's okay if you're not diligent, but if you're diligent, you can leave a better impression on the man's family.

    In layman's terms, being diligent is "having work in your eyes", you should take the initiative to help when you see the place where you need help, don't wait for people to call you for help, such as when the man's parents are cooking, when they clean up after eating, they are all opportunities for you to perform.

    There is another detail that many people will ignore, that is: when the man's parents bring you tea and water, you have to take the initiative to meet it. It's a small detail, but there's a big difference between doing it and not doing it.

    2. Be sweet in your mouth.

    It doesn't cost money to talk, and after arriving at the man's house, it's a good thing to have a sweeter mouth. You know, the man's parents are also seeing you for the first time, and they will also play drums in their hearts, and sometimes they don't know what to say. If you sweeten your mouth, you can relax them so that they will not be so restrained when chatting.

    Moreover, people often associate sweetness with sensibility, and you don't want to leave the impression of ignorance on the other party when you meet for the first time!

    3. Smile more.

    Or the sentence above, when you go to the man's house to meet your parents for the first time, the man's parents also see you for the first time, their mood is actually similar to you, if you don't smile, they naturally don't have the heart to laugh, instead of worrying about who creates a relaxed range first, it is better for you to take the initiative, be a person who loves to laugh, and make the environment more relaxed.

    You usually relax when you see others laughing, and you are the same at the man's house, and his family will relax when they see you smiling, and everything will be easy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Parents who meet the man for the first time need to pay attention to the need to buy some gifts, do not wear too heavy makeup, and do not wear too revealing clothes.

    1. If you go to the door empty-handed for the first time, it will be very insincere and polite, so you must bring gifts to the door. As for what gifts to bring, it's easy to know your family's hobbies in advance. If there are elderly people at home, you can bring some fruits, and some children can bring some snacks and toys, so that you can get the favor of the man's family.

    2. Keep some distance appropriately.

    No matter how good the relationship is, you must remember to keep a certain distance from your boyfriend, and how close you are when two people are together in private, but you must grasp the balance in the man's home, I think there are still many people who will not pay attention, because they are usually used to it, but this will make the man's parents feel that the girl is frivolous, and the comparison is not serious enough, if you have this impression, it will be bad.

    3. Be polite.

    When you meet the man's parents, you should call your uncle and aunt, bring "you" when talking to the man's parents, speak at a moderate pace, and answer whatever the elders ask. In case of coldness, it is necessary to introduce a topic, such as asking the man's father about some news or current affairs or work, and the man's mother, which will improve the man's parents' hearts a lot.

    4. Be diligent in doing things.

    Performance should be diligent, go to the man's house, find that things have to be done, generally go to the man's parents will stay to eat, if at home, to help pick vegetables, wash vegetables, and lay hands, which can not only leave a good impression on you, but also add a lot of points to you. Go to the restaurant, find a private room with a good environment, let the man's parents do the inside, and he has to sit outside, so that he can add water and vegetables, and try not to direct his boyfriend to do this and that, which will leave a good impression on his family.

    A good impression is very important and requires us to pay more attention to it, then they will also like you very much, and they will also have a good impression of you, and think that you are very virtuous.

    The above are specific suggestions, I hope you like it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When meeting the man's parents for the first time, remember to be punctual. Punctuality is the most important thing for a woman to pay attention to when she meets the man's parents for the first time. It's best to go in the morning, not in the evening, it's a basic etiquette.

    The first time you see the man's parents, you must dress too exaggerated and revealing, although you may not pay special attention to this aspect when you are usually in the boyfriend, but the first time you go to the man's house, you should dress formally. Try to choose something that reflects your own style and is a little more conservative.

    The most important thing to pay attention to when meeting the man's parents is to be polite. If you don't behave politely, the other parent will naturally not have much affection for you. Be a woman with a good personality and a sweet mouth! It's like you want to be treated politely by others all the time.

    When meeting the man's parents, you should always pay attention to your attitude, not appear arrogant and rude, and actively participate in their conversations, answer when you should answer, and smile when you should smile. But don't pretend to understand if you don't understand, don't act very aggressive, and remember that you're just an invited guest right now.

    Be proactive and diligent. It's a good idea to get a little help and go into the kitchen to help with the cooking, which shows your friendliness and shows off your cooking skills in front of your future mother-in-law. However, remember to do what you can.

    Show submissiveness to your boyfriend when meeting the man's parents. In private, it doesn't matter how rude and willful you are, but in front of your elders, you must show a picture of a bird and a thousand obedient looks. In this way, the other person's parents will like you more.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you go to see the man's parents for the first time, you should first pay attention to dressing appropriately, and your makeup must be light, and secondly, you should be cautious when you speak, avoid saying too much and losing it, and you don't need to deliberately please it, just be casual.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dress up, know what the man's parents like, cultural literacy, know what rank you are in, and talk and behave depending on the personality orientation of the man's parents, the first time is very important, and the first impression will be very important for you to get along in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The first time I go to see the man's parents, as long as they dress appropriately, behave steadily, and talk elegantly, they can leave a good impression on their future parents-in-law, and you can bring some gifts, but they don't have to be too expensive, just express your heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Dress up in general, don't wear heavy makeup, it's best to buy something to bring over, and pay attention to what you say to leave a good impression on the other party's parents.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first time I saw the man's parents, pay attention to dressing generously and decently, so I could buy some fruit gifts. No preparation is required.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In love, what should the man pay attention to when meeting the woman's parents for the first time?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Bring some gifts, dress appropriately, and speak nicely.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Observe more before marriage and suffer less after marriage.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    We will always find our other half in life, and everyone may be single for a while, but they should still get married in the end.

    And from the initial acquaintance to love, and finally to get married, there is an indispensable step that is very important, that is, to meet the parents, that is, as the subject said, follow the man back, everyone to see his parents, may be your future in-laws.

    This is a very important point in your whole life, we often talk about first impressions, and this time determines what your future parents-in-law will think of you.

    Therefore, this time, everyone must perform better, so that we will win a lot of convenience in our future lives, after all, we have a good impression of you.

    The boys' families mentioned by the subject are very rich, and in general, rich families, their rules are relatively larger, or they pay more attention to some details. Therefore, there are three wants, and the three should not be shared with you.

    The first thing to do is to respect the elders, when eating, let the elders after the last week they animate before we can eat, in addition, we must praise each other when we eat, praise each other's food is delicious, and then after eating, we must take the initiative to help clean up, it will leave a good impression of diligence, at the same time, when cleaning, for example, when washing dishes in the kitchen, you can chat with the future mother-in-law about some whispers, which is also very beneficial.

    Third, don't behave too casually, because after we go to the other person's house, if you behave too casually, his parents may think that you are uneducated.

    In addition, don't make a loud noise when eating, if the other party's family cares more about this, there may be something like eating without saying a word, and then there is not to rush to the other party's dishes, first of all, the dishes must be empty, and people don't necessarily like to eat this dish.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Naturally, you don't need to be tight, just say hello when you meet, and the first time you meet is a dao

    It should be called uncle and aunt, but we know it.

    The common saying is that the name is not answered.

    Before getting married, you are called uncle and aunt, and other people are called by your boyfriend, and after your boyfriend introduces you, just say hello naturally Don't talk much, for example, after he introduces his parents, you will respectfully and naturally say: Uncle is good, aunt is good, so as to be good aunt and aunt and so on. Why do you call his parents uncles and aunts, and others have to call their boyfriends, which is particular, and it feels quite confusing to call them all uncles and aunts!

    Because he didn't call him through the door, his parents could only call him uncle and aunt, and it would be too reckless to call him the same as his boyfriend. Other people call your boyfriend whatever you want, because your boyfriend is not other people's sons, he calls aunt and you call aunt he calls uncle, you call uncle, then these people will think you have a sweet mouth, not much explanation here. In addition, if you ask well, you won't talk much, you just say what they ask, and pay attention to it and look natural and respectful.

    In addition, when his parents are cooking, you have to help wash and cut vegetables to be diligent, and his parents delay letting you do it, so you say: It's okay, you often do it at home. That's all, the main focus is on nature and don't get too nervous.

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