Can the man s family oppose us?

Well, it's up to you whether this question is worth it or not, as long as you love him, why care so much.

But my personal suggestion is to consider the feelings of your parents, parents are the people who gave birth to us, they are the people who care about us in the world, their ideas are also mature, at least they are for your good, if the boy really loves you, he should promise you to work hard, for your to fight, and when there are certain achievements that can give you happiness, your parents will not object.

Because I have heard the saying "love without the blessing of parents will not be happy" you still have a long way to go, and now you are very tired, so if your family has not agreed, what should you do, won't you be tired to death. So I hope you think about it.

Finally, I hope you are happy.

Just a different question but the same essence! ~

You shouldn't be big, right?

In Chinese society, the accumulation of history, love is a problem of two people, but marriage is a problem of two families! ~

Do you really want your love to go to the palace of marriage without the blessing of his parents??? Promise should be negative, right?

Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone has a stain in their life, but few people can put the stain aside and look at a person independently! ~

The above view is realistic and pessimistic, but it is true! ~

If you really need to save this love, all you need to do is have a good communication with his parents! Tell them what you think, and don't stress him, his parents have already given him a lot, and what he needs is your encouragement! You have to tell his parents and him with your actions that you are a good girl!

But I still have to tell you the point of view of the love scale! ~

In fact, love is a balance, and when you understand this truth, it is much simpler! When the other party's balance has handsomeness, wealth, education, humor, carefulness, and professionalism.

1. When you wait for a series of weights, what weights do you need to balance the balance without losing balance?

To put it simply, in the eyes of his parents, the balance of your love with him is out of balance, and you need to show them that you can balance the weight of this scale! ~

Hope you can be together, bless you! ~

Did you make it in the end? Are they still together?

It's the New Year's Day soon, and the young couples are also planning to bring their boyfriends and girlfriends to meet their parents. But what if the boyfriend's parents don't approve of the two being together? Do you want to break up or do you want to stick to it? What are the countermeasures to deal with the man's disagreement?

1. The man's parents do not agree with the countermeasures.

The man disagrees, don't feel that there is no future all of a sudden. First of all, look at your boyfriend's views and attitudes towards this, the attitude is positive, then insist, otherwise it is recommended to break up.

1. Look at your boyfriend's attitude.

If the man's parents disagree, the first thing to look at is the boyfriend's attitude. If your boyfriend is very resolute in order to be with you and has made a lot of efforts in front of the man's parents, it shows that he really loves you, and the two insist on convincing the parents is just around the corner. If you have a very negative attitude and do not have much positive effect on the relationship between your parents and you, then it is advisable to break up.

2. Persistence.

As mentioned earlier, your boyfriend has made a lot of efforts to make your parents accept you, and there will be hope for the persistence of those two people. Every parent wants their children to be happy, even if they don't agree to be together. When you see your boyfriend doing so much to be with you, they will also know that your boyfriend is happy with you, and they will always agree to it after a long run-in.

2. How to deal with parental opposition.

1. Find out what the problem is.

No pair of parents will object to two people being together for no reason, so when parents disagree, be sure to find out the reason for the parent's objection and then actively solve the problem.

2. Look at it rationally.

There may not be so many contradictions between two people, but when two families are combined, there will be a lot of problems. For the problem that the parents do not agree with, we should look at it rationally and consider whether the two people are really suitable to be together, after all, the parents have more life experience than themselves, and they look at the problem in the long term.

3. Because the man who does not agree to give up on you.

If the boyfriend gives up without making any effort because his parents don't agree, the little fairy doesn't have to be sad. Because even if you are barely together, your mother-in-law will be your super focus, and such a responsible man, your married life will be very hard, so this kind of person to break up is a better choice.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so once one party has a problem, then life after marriage will not be happy, so whether it is a boy or a girl, you need to solve the problems of the two families before marriage.

When you are in love, you will encounter a lot of problems, and it is not that your love will be blessed and recognized by everyone. When your boyfriend's family opposes it, you shouldn't give up decisively, but you should work hard to fight for it, so that the other party can see your sincerity and accept yourself from Zheng.

1. Correctly face the views of others Love is a matter of two people, and everyone will recognize it, after all, they are not banknotes, and they can't make everyone like it. The man's family has no understanding of himself at all, if he thinks that he and his boyfriend are not suitable, it is unfair, everyone's understanding starts from contact, and if you want to get their approval, you need to have more contact with them.

2. Strive to get everyone's blessing Although love is a matter of two people, it is the happiest thing if you can get the blessing of your family. Family members are the people who have been with them the longest, and if a relationship is not blessed by them, it will become a thorn in each other, which will always affect the relationship between the two. You have to figure out the reasons for the opposition of the man's family, and then eliminate their doubts through your own efforts, so that the other party can see your sincerity.

Getting the blessing of your family not only makes you feel relaxed, but also makes your boyfriend feel very happy and will be wholeheartedly devoted to himself.

3. Don't choose to give up easily, it's not easy to meet someone you like in your life, if you do, you should cherish it, rather than easily choose to give up. Two people will go through some hardships when they are in love, so that they will be tested against each other, and if two people pass successfully, then the next life will be very beautiful.

When the other party's family does not agree with him, he should work hard to let the other party see his sincerity. People have feelings, and if you really love your boyfriend, I believe that you will impress each other and get blessings.

Of course, one should not give up decisively. My opinion is that we still have to work hard, try to behave well in front of the man's parents, try to let the boyfriend who is scattered from his own spine persuade his family, and try to establish a good image in front of the family of the boyfriend, so that the relationship between the two people can continue.

Of course, you shouldn't give up decisively, you should strive for it again, after all, you should work hard, and you should also receive the blessings of others, and you should also insist on your own feelings and cognition.

At this point, it's up to your boyfriend. If Yiming is a real man, he should stand up and protect his beloved woman so that he will not be harmed, and if he can do it, he is a person who can be attached to.

I think that since stupidity is true love, it should be insisted on. This should be determined according to the actual situation, if the other party is really a very good person, and the relationship between you and Chi Xiao is very good, then you should not give up, you should stick to it.

It's not a decisive renunciation. First of all, we must strive for it. The two of them overcame difficulties together and faced the man's family together. If there is a problem, it needs to be solved.

should not give up decisively, if the relationship between two people is very good, they should try to get the other party's parents to approve, otherwise they will leave regrets.

I think you can refer to your parents' opinions, and you should listen to your heart when you really make decisions.

1. Find out the reasons for the opposition. It's because of a bad family situation or a history of love in Pinartha, etc.

2. Discuss with your boyfriend to resolve the split.

3. Let your boyfriend communicate more with his parents.

Fourth, have a good chat with the other person's parents. You can sincerely express your feelings to the other party's parents and exchange opinions in depth.

Fifth, they are quietly together without telling each other's parents. Hide from each other's parents,Quietly fall in love,At first, I didn't know enough about myself, so it was difficult to accept it for a while,After Min has been doing it for a long time,Then confess to the other party's parents,Have a good exchange。

The man's family is opposed, which means that he is not optimistic about you, even if you get married, there will be many contradictions in the future. If Slag doesn't love deeply enough, then break up. If the man doesn't divide the mu Zheng quietly, then let him convince his parents.

On the other hand, it may be that the man's parents feel that the woman's family and their own family are not right, simply put, it is a comparative force, and on the other hand, it may be a test for girls, after all, no parents will bet on the happiness of their children, so I think girls should also consider themselves while choosing the other party, after all, being together is a lifelong thing, Both parties should be considerate of each other, and the person who lives with you for a lifetime is this man, not his parents, the man's parents strongly oppose it at the same time, but also to observe the man's approach, whether it is firm, whether it gives you a sense of security, at this time the girl will reconsider whether to be together, in short, your happiness can not be experienced by others, so it is impossible to be sufficient, fortunately the letter and blessing do not lie in the eyes of others, but in the feelings that two people give each other together.

Now the focus is on the self-justification of marriage, and it is not important that the man's family opposes it, but the man's attitude. Of course, as a man and a woman get married, it is difficult to be happy without the blessing of the parents, so you also need to think calmly, why are the man's parents opposed, and is their opposition reasonable? If you also think that their objection is reasonable, then you should break up with the man.

Hold on to your love and let time help you with this.

The man's family is not good for the right to not collapse The key is your boyfriend's problem. As long as the boyfriend doesn't waver, it won't be between you