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Uncles and aunts held blind date activities, which attracted everyone's attention. If the elderly want to find a companion, it is still necessary. There are many elderly people who have worked hard all their lives, and finally when they are older, they enjoy their lives more alone.
I think that finding another partner is a burden, and the most important thing depends on what everyone thinks, and it should also be considered comprehensively. If your children don't agree, then you will be hindered in many ways to find a partner, and for the elderly, it is necessary to combine their family background and personal ideas to decide. So what exactly is the beginning and end of the incident?
Let's find out!
First, the uncle and aunt go on a blind date
There is nothing wrong with this group of uncles and aunts dressing themselves up brightly, showing their talents on the stage, and going on a blind date with each other. There are many people who do not live with their children, and they are lonely. I can't stand the lonely and lonely days, and I want to have someone to accompany me, even if I can talk, it's a good thing, because the taste of loneliness is too hard.
The number of times children see themselves every year is also very limited, and finding a wife can not trouble your children on the one hand, and on the other hand, you can get a lot of happiness in life.
Second, do you think it is necessary for the elderly to look for their other half?
If the family structure is more complicated, it is better not to find a wife. Some children are very disgusted with their parents looking for wives, which is for a certain reason, and some elderly people are easy to be confused when they are older, and it is easy to be deceived by others to obtain money. Take feelings more seriously, as long as others say a few words, they can steal all the money in their bank cards.
Perhaps based on this, the elderly are not willing to find a partner. Some old people, especially grandmothers, think that they have done housework all their lives, and when they are old, they want to have a good rest, and they don't want to have one more person to drag them down.
In conclusion, everyone has their own way of life, and if they pursue love on their own and do not hurt anyone, then it is okay to do so. If the child is too opposed, try not to look for it again.
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The hardcore blind date of the uncle and aunt is out of the circle, which has aroused heated discussions among the majority of netizens. In the show, we couldn't cry or laugh because we saw the elderly dislike the blind date for various reasons, and behind the laughter, many netizens also fell into contemplation: Is it necessary for the elderly to find their other half?
Personally,I don't think there is any need for the elderly to look for their other half if they are not extremely empty.
1.For the elderly, finding the other half is an unpopular topic, and not everyone is Su Daqiang.
There are no more than three reasons why the elderly do not have a wife, one is that they are unmarried for life, such old people have endured a lifetime of loneliness, and when they are old, they do not have much need to find the other half themselves, because they have developed the habit of living alone, and one more person may not be adaptable. The other is widowed, the other half died due to illness or accident, so there can be a desire to find the other half, but this kind of people actually do not have the desire to find the other half again, they will always be concerned about their spouse, remarriage or not is not so important.
The third is the breakdown of the marriage and the divorce of the other party, so the state of being single is restored, and the appeal to find the other half can also arise in old age. For the third group of people, remarriage will be early, often only a few years of transition, marriage will be implemented, and will not wait until old age to consider marriage issues. And if you are unmarried until old age, it can only mean that the person is disappointed in marriage or has no desire to get married, and intends to live a lifetime alone.
2.Older people looking for their partner will be met with resistance and skepticism from their children.
When people reach old age, there is a topic that is more sensitive, this topic is death, death means a person's departure, but at the same time, it also means that a person's property left in the world will be divided by children and relatives. If the elderly have the idea of remarrying at this time, then they will definitely face resistance from their children.
Children will consider whether the opposite sex who actively approaches their parents has a ghost in their hearts, because children are worried that the elderly will be deceived and that their property will be divided by outsiders.
In addition, children are also resistant to new parents.
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I think it is also necessary for the elderly to find their other half, after all, life is very lonely in old age, and someone still has to accompany them.
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I think it's necessary to be able to keep myself company, which is very good for my old age.
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I think it is also necessary for the elderly to find their other half, because the elderly are particularly lonely in their old age, and if they find their other half, they can make their lives happier.
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If it is necessary to do this, you will get a good care after the previous years, and it will not make an old person feel particularly bored and lonely in life.
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A number of middle-aged and elderly blind date programs are popular all over the Internet, and some have even become dinner dramas for young netizens. The upright and unrelenting posture and frank and sharp verbal confrontation of the uncles and aunts have become a hot topic of discussion among many young people. Banyuetan reporter's investigation found that in addition to "out of the circle", this kind of program not only allows people to see the needs of contemporary elderly people for emotional life, but also triggers social thinking about aging.
With the economic and social development, the society is more tolerant of the remarriage of middle-aged and elderly people. A few years ago, the elderly participated in blind date shows and had to "fall in love" with people they didn't know on TV, which was a big challenge for their children, and even a huge mental pressure. Many of the elderly interviewed said that although they have the idea of remarrying, they will give up the idea in order to take care of their children.
Behind the popularity of middle-aged and elderly blind date programs, what cannot be ignored is the emotional needs of the elderly group. At present, many middle-aged and elderly people who need to remarry, after entering retirement, their children are not around, and the emotional needs of the idle elderly will be magnified by idleness and loneliness. With the increasing material living standards, the elderly have higher and higher emotional and spiritual needs.
To a certain extent, middle-aged and elderly blind date programs provide more opportunities and possibilities for the elderly group who need to remarry. In the past, the elderly revolved around the family, around their children, around the pot, and rarely had their own life and space, while the elderly who lost their spouses, although they had the care of their children, lacked the companionship of their partners psychologically, and had few ways to remarry for the rest of their lives.
The advent of the Internet era has provided a platform and opportunity for middle-aged and elderly blind date programs to "get out of the circle". Although having a hot topic can make more people pay attention to the marriage and love problems of uncles and aunts, we must also be wary of the entertainment tendency of the show. Middle-aged and elderly blind date programs should become a platform to help middle-aged and elderly people remarry smoothly and find partners, and help more elderly people find true love, and cannot become a tool for capital grandstanding to attract attention.
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The blind date of middle-aged people is very straightforward, everyone can say it directly, and they will not beat around the bush at all, I think this kind of blind date conference is also very good-looking.
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It's very funny, it's also very interesting, the method of blind date for the elderly will make us have a lot of reverie, the elderly get together, and there are a lot of topics to chat about.
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It's very funny, the thinking of the uncle and aunt is very mature, and their requirements for themselves are very clear.
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In our country has entered an aging society, all aspects of the elderly must be cared for by the society, including the emotional problems of the elderly, recently many blind dates for the elderly have exploded on the Internet, many young women have been amused by the hardcore blind date of the aunts and uncles, here, behind the explosion of blind date programs. We can also see that the blind date market for the elderly is very large.
According to the relevant survey report, among the elderly over 60 years old in China, 35% have no spouse, and those who are willing to remarry are up to the proportion of China's population, we can see that behind this set of data is more than 100 million elderly single groups. It can be said that the blind date market for the elderly is an industrial chain worth more than 10,000 yuan, and the capital in China has also set its sights on this huge market and has begun to enter the blind date market for the elderly to invest and make money. So what are the main ways for the elderly to go on a blind date?
1.Now many cities have a blind date wide angle, these blind dates are not only for young people, but also for the elderly, some elderly people in need can find their other half here, if they really can't put down their face, they can look for their own children, for themselves to find a suitable object.
2.Now the major TV stations are also focusing on the blind date market for the elderly, and have organized some blind date programs for the elderly, where the ratings of the blind date programs are very high, if the elderly who are interested can get in touch with these TV stations, and board the TV station at the right time to find their other half.
3.In addition to TV stations, a lot of blind dates on the Internet have also begun to pay attention to the blind date market for the elderly, if the elderly want to get acquainted with the object on the blind date, they can fill in their relevant information according to these tips, and after passing the audit, they will be provided with suitable objects according to the requirements of the elderly.
Generally, there are three main ways for the elderly to go on a blind date, but the elderly must pay attention to their personal and property safety when they go on a blind date, but after having a favorite object, they must communicate with each other and have an in-depth understanding before they can make a final decision, and in this process, they must discuss with their children, let their children help them check and prevent themselves from being deceived.
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The market is very large, and there are many people who have returned to a single state in their lives, or it may be that their partner has died, so there will be any blind date.
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The blind date market for middle-aged and elderly people is indeed very large, and many people have demand.
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Very large, China's population is seriously aging, there are a lot of single middle-aged and elderly people, they will go to participate in some blind date activities in order to seek their future other half.
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The blind date market is very large, and there are many middle-aged and elderly people who will go on blind dates, and in order to find their future partners, they will go to blind date activities.
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It is particularly big, because they have higher requirements for each other, and their standards are relatively high and they have a lot of requirements when choosing a mate.
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The emotional needs of middle-aged and older people should be taken seriously, because many of them are very lonely. If the emotional needs of middle-aged and older people are not met, they are likely to do things that hurt themselves or others. I hope that young people can pay more attention to the middle-aged and elderly people in their families, so that their emotional needs can be met.
This kind of blind date show where uncles and aunts go on a blind date together is something that many viewers like to watch. Regarding the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly people behind the hardcore blind date of uncles and aunts? Here's what I think:
First, the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly people should be paid attention to.
Many middle-aged and elderly people may live alone without children or spouses. Living alone is actually very lonely. Therefore, many single middle-aged and elderly people have a great need for emotion, and they are very eager to have someone to accompany them.
Each of us has feelings, so the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly people should be taken seriously.
Second, if the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly people are not met, they are likely to do some bad things.
If the emotional needs of middle-aged and elderly people are not met for a long time, they may do something that hurts themselves or others. Therefore, in order to make this society better and more harmonious, in order to be able to provide a better life for the middle-aged and elderly, we should also pay attention to the emotional needs of the middle-aged and elderly.
3. I hope that young people can pay more attention to the middle-aged and elderly people in their families.
Some middle-aged and elderly people, the reason why they want someone to accompany them is mainly because they can't stand loneliness. Therefore, as a young person in the family, if you feel that the middle-aged and elderly people in the family are a little lonely, you must care more about the middle-aged and elderly people in your family, and you must accompany them more and give them emotional comfort.
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The emotional needs of middle-aged and older people really should be taken seriously, and currently, many seniors feel very lonely because their children are not around. Many of the show's guests have experienced ups and downs in life.
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It's definitely something that needs attention. If you can have one person to live with for the rest of your life, it will make the life of middle-aged people very happy, and there will be someone to take care of you when you are old.
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You're welcome. Because they are very lonely, they have certain emotional needs, and we should pay attention to some of their lives.
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Middle-aged and elderly people go on a blind date, that is quite hardcore, middle-aged and elderly people looking for a partner, that is very realistic, different from young people looking for a partner, only need to have a heart-pounding feeling. The old hall laughed at the blind date and asked whether there was a house, whether there was a pension, how was his health, whether he was divorced or widowed.
Middle-aged and elderly people pay more attention to material things, and those who do not have a pension are not considered, and those who do not have a house to live with their children are not considered. Of course, those who are not in good health need to be taken care of, many aunts don't even look alike, these aunts know very well that the elderly who are not in good health are looking for a partner, that is, looking for a free nanny! She pretended that Yu Han would not fall for this.
The reason why the elderly do not like divorce and like widows is naturally because the destruction of divorce is problematic for both men and women, and widows have at least experienced the years of taking care of the sick, which is beneficial to being taken care of in the future. Today's middle-aged and elderly people have a blind date, and the chance of success is too small!
Guard against. Middle-aged and elderly people go on a blind date, and there are many considerations and precautions. The man will guard against the woman from seeking his pension property, and the woman will guard against going to the man's house to be a free babysitter, and eventually he will be used up and have nothing!
It is precisely because of mutual prevention that most of the middle-aged and elderly people are lonely, and their children will not often be by their parents' side when they grow up and have a family and career, and the middle-aged and elderly people are looking for a partner, and they must consider that the property does not fall into the hands of the other party, and it is difficult to succeed under this premise! Men don't want to pay money, women don't want to be free babysitters, in this case, it's no wonder that the success rate can be high!
Netizens are hotly discussed. For the blind date of middle-aged and elderly people is very hardcore and very realistic, netizens have heated discussions, and they have said that when people reach old age, they still have to think more about their children, and it is precisely because of their children that many middle-aged and elderly people will not be able to harvest happiness! Indeed it is!
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