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I heard that some people criticize the current parents for spoiling their children too much, especially for girls. In the past, girls were trained at a young age to do household chores, sweeping, cooking, and doing laundry. However, nowadays girls are overspoiled and never do housework.
Is a girl like this only "Israeli" after she gets married? When you grow old one day, you will definitely be disliked, and it will be difficult to be happy in your married life. Therefore, girls should still do housework from ...... elementary school
It has to be said that it is also reasonable for some people to be dissatisfied with the fact that parents no longer teach girls to do housework, after all, the ability to do housework may also affect the quality of life after marriage. However, if a girl can't do housework since she was a child, will she live happily when she gets married? The answer was surprising.
Whether a girl is happy or not after marriage has little to do with whether she can do housework.
First of all, the benefits of girls doing housework since elementary school are obvious. Because of the basic housework ability, girls can live independently when they leave their parents, so that they will not be too embarrassed. In fact, not only girls, but also boys should learn to do housework.
In this way, when you integrate into society and enter marriage in the future, you are more likely to live an orderly life and take on your own responsibilities in work and family. However, if a girl doesn't learn to do housework since she was a child, will she be unhappy after marriage?
Not necessarily. Because being able to do housework is not a prerequisite for maintaining a marriage. If a couple is in love, the girl will not do housework since she was a child, and her spouse can do it.
Her spouse won't do it, they can learn together. I don't want to learn, I can save a little in other areas and hire someone to do the housework. Just make a little more money.
There is no reason to directly associate whether a girl will do housework since she was a child and whether she is happy or unhappy after marriage. Could it be that a girl has been a mother since elementary school, and her married life must be happy? Also, some people directly say that girls don't know how to do housework, that is, "Israelite people", which is also ridiculous, the basis of marital happiness is not appearance, but it must not be housework.
Therefore, don't directly link whether a girl will do housework since she was a child and whether she is happy or unhappy after marriage.
Girls can do housework, learn common life skills, and avoid a lot of trouble after marriage.
Although, whether a girl is happy after marriage has little to do with whether she can do housework. However, girls can do housework and learn common life skills, and they can avoid a lot of troubles after marriage. Because, the days after marriage are full of trivialities and accidents, and if the girl has the ability to do housework, it can be solved quickly.
For example, suddenly wanting to eat a dish, dirty things are spilled on the floor, the toilet is blocked, etc. If you know how to do simple housework, you can solve it in ten or twenty minutes by yourself. You don't have to wait for others to help you solve it, it's not bothersome, and you don't have to worry about it.
On the contrary, if you don't know a little bit of housework, and everything is waiting for others to clean up, life will become more and more troublesome. Therefore, girls should learn to do housework and not rely on others for everything, so that the sense of happiness is higher. However, not knowing housework will only cause a little more trouble, which does not mean that the marriage is unhappy.
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Young people nowadays don't do housework. This is normal, now every family is a child who has been pampered since childhood, and there is nothing that parents are used to doing since childhood. So when they have their own small family in the future, they don't have to help them do it as parents, they can't stand it themselves, and they will do it.
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Well. Only persuaded such a big person. It's hard to say. Only yes. Childhood. Didn't make it a habit. When you grow up. I'm more afraid of being lazy. It feels like it.
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It's the age of high technology, and not doing housework can be replaced with high-tech products. For example, robot vacuums, automatic dishwashers, automatic washing machines.
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Parents always love to take care of their children's housework, in fact, there is no one who can't do housework, but they are too lazy, who loves to do housework, how comfortable it is to lie down every day and someone to do housework.
Therefore, parents should not be involved in the child's affairs, he will always grow up, and he will get used to his own life, and if no one does housework for him, he will clean it up, and sometimes he will grow up if he lets go moderately.
Personal opinion, I hope it can help you.
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If you are a parent, you can try to ask the young person to do some chores for you, and slowly develop the habit of loving housework.
If you are a young person, then force yourself to adapt to yourself, you can do a lot of housework, and slowly develop the habit of doing housework.
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For young people who are reluctant to do housework now, in fact, because they have been pampered since childhood, parents don't let you do it, when you organize your own family, two people can share the housework, in fact, in the process of housework, two people will also feel very interesting and happy.
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Today's young people have grown up from the honey pot, are the baby of the family, have not suffered since childhood, have not worked, so parents are required to deliberately cultivate their children from an early age, and start exercising from an early age to let children do what they can, and after a long time, children will form habits, they will know that they feel sorry for their parents, and they will help their parents do something!
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Times are different.
If you have money, you can hire a part-time worker to clean regularly, or you can hire a babysitter.
If the economy is poor, if it is two people, they can take turns doing the housework, and everyone can share the burden.
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Young people nowadays don't do housework, and that's a problem. It is true that now after the implementation of the one-child policy, the children of the family are spoiled by the elders, and the children have what they want, so they lack a lot of fine traditions when they grow up. It's a social problem.
It needs to be addressed slowly. But even so, you also need to have a positive attitude, and some people can still do it, and you can't generalize.
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Because the pace of life has become faster, young people nowadays pay more attention to enjoyment, so they are reluctant to do housework, which is also normal, and he can't do housework well when he forces others to do housework, and he doesn't let himself do many things himself. Young people don't do housework, you can ask him to help while you do things yourself.
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If the young people don't do housework, they don't do housework, and then the old people don't do it for her, she can't see it herself, she will do it herself.
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The main reason why young people nowadays don't do housework is that they are used to it by their families. He must be allowed to exercise independently, otherwise the young people of today will really be abolished.
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Don't worry. Young people nowadays have their own ideas, they have their own way of life, so there is no need to be afraid that they will not be able to live.
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It's not your parents' responsibility, and if you manage it yourself, you have to bear the consequences, so wash it yourself.
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This is that if you don't develop good habits since you were a child, it will be difficult to develop them again when you grow up, and you will lose the ability to do housework, so you have to let him do housework from an early age, which is actually teaching him skills.
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I think this is a phenomenon of the times, and there is no need to worry too much, since everyone is like this, then this is normal.
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It is common for young people nowadays not to do housework, and there is nothing that can be done about it at the moment.
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Now menstrual people are lazy, it's not that they can't do housework, they are used to doing housework in one place, so that parents want to do housework every day for a long time, and young people will be wasted if they don't let them do housework
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It is necessary to change the concept and take the initiative to do housework, after all, people are diligent and better.
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If you have a lot of money, then find a nanny to do the housework.
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It is an indisputable fact that young people are lazy, and self-maintenance is needed, and self-restraint is the key.
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Well, many people don't like to do housework, this is very normal, and we should look at it correctly and rationally.
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This kind of thing can only be guided slowly.
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Don't worry about this, when they have their own small home in the future, let them discuss it by themselves, they can do housework together, and the two of them will build their own love cottage together.
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I think when you get married, if you are two people together, if your parents are not around. Surely only they do the housework themselves.
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Exchange labor remuneration for equivalent labor.
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This situation should be guided correctly.
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I also don't want to do housework, because I am very tired when I come home from a day of work, and I am even more tired when I am entangled in tedious housework.
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Young people are reluctant to do housework because they find it cumbersome and don't want trivial things to delay their time. Personally, I don't want to do housework.
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I'm quite willing to do housework, because doing housework can develop my independent character. Mainly because young people nowadays feel too tired to do housework.
Today's young people don't want wardrobes. The reason is that the wardrobe does not necessarily match the style of the decoration. When you decorate, you always put the wardrobe directly out, so that the overall look is both good looking and saving money.
Nowadays, young people don't like to be in the countryside, mainly because the conditions in the countryside are not very good, the food and drink they like are too convenient, and the sleeping and bathing conditions are not very good. Nowadays, many young people, most of whom live in cities with good conditions, have never lived in rural areas, and they will be very unaccustomed to it.
Cars are consumables, you have to repay the car loan when you buy a car, and the car is a consumable, unlike a house that is a value-added product, and the moment you make a deposit to buy a car, it begins to depreciate continuously.
I think that marriage is managed by two people, husband and wife should treat each other, be considerate of each other, don't hide it, think in one place, work hard in one place, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.
There are more contemporary college students, the population is also large, and the work pressure is relatively high, not only to raise children, but also to support parents, it is difficult to rise in job positions, the pressure of competition is too great, and it is not easy to get the understanding of family members. <>